I always compliment women. Especially women of color.
i learned my lesson complimenting men, so i only compliment my man and family members.
You're part of the problem. Men are always expected to treat every woman as an individual but you constantly generalize men and it's totally acceptable. If "I learned my lesson" about black women I wouldn't even look at you all. Fortunately as a mature adult I realize you can't judge ALL on the few or even the many.