Its not apples to oranges. These are all people in your inner circle. Be it your girlfriend/wife or your male friends. The crux of the issue rests upon the notion that you wouldn't want a girlfriend/wife who has dated/fukked a white man because it says something about her general character, her morals, who she prioritizes and
why. All of these things that would affect your relationship with her. Then why do these things suddenly become non-important when looking at someone who you aren't trying to fukk/marry? Its probably the best comparison because it removes personal bias, as your ego isn't affected by who your male friends date/fukk. Like I said to
@Henri Christophe, this is about control. Some of you hate that women have human agency and can fukk who they want. You hate women for behaving how
you behave, and so what does that say about your own actions? What I'm asking you to do is to look beyond the paradigm of gender and to analyze your feelings objectively.