I agree that we have issues here stemming from excessive materialism + priorities
I disagree that the fundamental/societal/economic issues in Brazil pale in comparison to what we have here
I also disagree that problems here are insurmountable and that running from them, rather than being men, taking ownership and addressing said problems, is the way out
To keep it funky this exodus is the height of cowardice... these dudes aren't even running from the white power structure... they are running from their only allies
What allies?
I mean everybody's out for themselves in Amerikkka. This isn't the MLK/Coretta & JFK/Jackie days.
Dudes gettin' raped by child support/alimony in this country. I didn't know that allies sued each other most of the time.
And I disagree with the whole "exodus" thing.
People have been going abroad and marrying outside of their culture forever.
Was Josephine Baker and all those Black women who married White dudes and went over to Europe during the 30s and 40s "cowards" because they left Amerikkka and married outside the race?
I don't see her or them like that.
If she can be respected in Europe and be respected by a White man, what I care what she do with her p*ssy.
I don't dikk monitor.
Is Halle Berry a coward and Pearl Bailey and Dorothy Dandridge and all the Black women who dated/married White cowards?
Or does that just apply to the Black man, who spends his ENTIRE life getting his ass kicked by Amerikkka, vilified as the most violent beast in a land his ancestors built as slaves.
Bottom line is, nikkaz owe NOTHING to Amerikkka, whatsoever. Male & female.
Stop it with the bullshyt ass patriotism.
Hell, I'd rather a dude marry a Black chick from the Carribbean who's family tree looks like his, than most of y'all dating and marrying White chicks and Asians and all kinds of other shyt.
I won't even go in like a did last time, but the main point is a lame who can't get p*ssy in the US is not going to up and become some Don Juan cat in Brazil. Unless he's paying for it, which defeats the whole purpose of claiming they're moving on from American broads because they are too materialistic.
nikkas need to stop attaching all this extra "women know how to be women" and "settle down with a foreign girl, American girls are shyt" talk and just say they want to pay for exotic p*ssy and get it over with. Because that's all it is and will be. 9/10 these chicks are looking for a come up when it comes to American men. And when they're not and you're just dealing with regular women, if you're a lame you'll run into the same probs you did with women in the US guaranteed. Probably even worse, because Brazilian women expect a lot more from men in terms of physical appearance and providing that US chicks do. Especially Rio and Sao Paulo broads.
The fukk makes you nikkas think Brazilian women want to deal with your whining and competing with women any more than American bytches do? Cats doing all this running from safe haven to safe haven (first it was Atlanta, now Brazil
) instead of accepting that they're unbearable and pathetic motherfukkas that need to fix themselves.
Who says "can't get no p*ssy"?
I mean, a lot of cats I know problem is CHILD SUPPORT and ALIMONEY, meaning they got p*ssy, and then the heifer ganked them.
That aint racial at all, that's just our culture of Gloria Allreds making Tiger Woods' mistresses seem like victims for knowingly sleeping with married men.
And Tiger getting 100 mil taken by his wife.
Michael Jordan got taken for like 200 by his wife.
Tell me anybody owes anybody something in this culture, I dare ya.
And then, even if the kids aren't yours, you STILL have to pay for 18-21 years because you were tricked into signing the birth certificate. Does that sound like allied behavior to you.
In a way, I'm glad I've witnessed dudes in my circle go through stuff like this, because that's why I'm 100% against having kids or getting married for a long time from now.
It's a cold ass world for men and women, people getting taken by this bullshyt culture we got man.
I mean... if they are happy, cool
But I couldn't be happy basically wifing up a prostitute
These chicks bring nothing to the table but a good attitude... I dont see how wifing them up is any different than wifing up a ratchet
The reality is these nikkas wanna blame American women for their own unrealistically high standards. I can't get with that
Naw dem PAWGS know how to treat a nikka, they trippin
I will bet all types of Coli bucks there are Brazilian men who have beef w/Brazilian women... everyone's a victim
And what about every Black female show on TV, radio. Tyler Perry movies, etc. . . that just say Black men aint shyt over and over and over.
We're all on the down low, we're all in jail, we only fukk White bytches, we don't take care of our responsibilities.
Don't act like this aint been said all day, everyday for like 30 years.
When the Black man finally reaches his breaking point of being labeled as scum from the day he's born and says, "fukk Amerikkka and it's bullshyt culture", he's the bad guy?
Then your son and daughter gonna get the whole "men aint shyt" speeches their whole lives.
Please.
I'm not somebody who plans on doing what these cats are doing, but I understand after having witnessed foul shyt go down, including dudes get BODIED over chicks and having it be considered a "suicide" because of "lack of evidence", I don't blame a cat who's White, Black, Latino, Asian, whatever for running as fast as he can from Amerikkka and it's wicked ass ways.
Not to say other places don't have problems, but it might be cool to try something different after a vehemently anti-male culture we live in now.
The funniest thing about this is, leaving a country and blaming it on every one else as if you are 100% perfect is probably one of the top self-centered and narcissistic things you can do.
shyt, you dudes who stay bytching not only come off as very narcissistic and self-centered, but as "my shyt don't stank" fools as well.
But yet you have one of the highest post counts in a thread full of nothing but complaints and "advice" stemming from how to handle your complaints.
Look in the mirror bud. You don't get what you want because you don't deserve it.
I disagree with that.
How is deciding to live YOUR life the way YOU want without hurting anybody the most narcissistic and selfish thing you can do?
If Josephine Baker and Tina Turner want to go to Europe and fukk White dudes, I don't care.
I don't call them cowards for not staying in fukking Nutbush, Tennessee and fighting with Ike until they're 150 years old.
I don't give a fukk.
Do YOU
Everybody DO YOU
This is dumb. This is a message board. What you're posting is saying one should basically not post.
It isn't a "concern." It's calling a bunch of niqqas corny for blaming women making them run away.
We're men. What part of the game is this?
Women say this shyt EVERYDAY about Black men in front of the Black sons
What part of the game is THAT?
Please.
You nikkaz just trying to pull yourself up on somebody else's corpse.
Even if somebody is Larry Holmes status, so what?
If a dude can find happiness he can't find here abroad so what?
All thought all the pro-Black motherfukkers were supposed to run away to Africa and marry REAL Black women anyway, without the weaves and makeup and all that other shyt that the "White man" thrust upon us?
I just can't understand why if dudes can find happiness somewhere else, even if they're not "making 6 figures" and are "perfect in every way" like all you "Team Amerikkka, fukk Yeah!" motherfukkers, with six packs and 6 foot tall Black wives living in condos, they have a right to find what they want.
As long as they're not victimizing those girls and those girls aint victimizing them, who gives a fukk.
Stop acting like we aint the fattest, most narcissistic, materialistic country in the world.
You don't get that way because everybody's just needs to "step their game up".
You get that way because you live in an inherently fukked up society that values the wrong shyt.
I don't blame women, men, Black, White, or anybody else for saying the same shyt that EVERYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD says about this country.
Even countries that want to be like us, because of our military power and money, talk about how fat, lazy, and stupid Amerikkkans are.
Please.