For some reason Black Men arent able to be HONEST to or about Black Women.
- Thread starter Stuntone
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Phylicia Rashad got cooked for making a suggested to Black Women.
Hit dogs holler. If you weren’t offended by what she said then she wasn’t talking about you.
feelosofer
#ninergang
At this point we (Black women and men) need to have a model UN style round table. With no cameras, no YouTube and just negotiate and come away with a contract.
I've harped on this before, but this fits for everyone no matter the sex or ethnicity. When you are serious about seeking a spouse, you need to vet the person. It is as simple as that. No amount of complaining will change your outcomes. You have to be proactive and avoid those who are unfit to be married with. Not allow looks, swag, or what every shallow criteria you may consider to over-ride your common sense. Don't allow Lust to get you hemmed up.
For us men in particular, remember we for the most part are the ones who supply the ring. We propose marriage, and so make sure the woman is fit for the wife position before you move on to proposing. I.E. Vet her and be thorough, because marriage is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. You do not want your emotions to take the wheel in the decision making process. You want to be analytical and critical, because a mistake can in the US leave you financially destitute.
Also, don't think being a Passport Bro will save you from your own poor decision making in women, because it will not. You still need to vet those women to ensure they are fit too. Don't assume just because the society seems more patriarchal, that you fully understand what you are signing up for as husband. In fact, going to another culture for a wife should compel you to seek to understand that culture and the expectations present there before you pick a woman to marry from said culture. Be wary, be perceptive, and be knowledgeable, because your outcome can be just as catastrophic in other ways if you get it wrong outside of the West too.
For us men in particular, remember we for the most part are the ones who supply the ring. We propose marriage, and so make sure the woman is fit for the wife position before you move on to proposing. I.E. Vet her and be thorough, because marriage is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. You do not want your emotions to take the wheel in the decision making process. You want to be analytical and critical, because a mistake can in the US leave you financially destitute.
Also, don't think being a Passport Bro will save you from your own poor decision making in women, because it will not. You still need to vet those women to ensure they are fit too. Don't assume just because the society seems more patriarchal, that you fully understand what you are signing up for as husband. In fact, going to another culture for a wife should compel you to seek to understand that culture and the expectations present there before you pick a woman to marry from said culture. Be wary, be perceptive, and be knowledgeable, because your outcome can be just as catastrophic in other ways if you get it wrong outside of the West too.
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Why can't ya'll ever focus on talking to your own demographic, as if there isn't a ton to improve in that department?
Newsflash, trying to correct people when you're shyt ain't right will never yield good results. People respect results not backseat drives who can’t clean their own kitchen.
Newsflash, trying to correct people when you're shyt ain't right will never yield good results. People respect results not backseat drives who can’t clean their own kitchen.
Yaboysix
That nikka
INCEL/single Nygga babble.
Nyggas who got somebody don't think about this shyt bruh.
Go ahead,try to discuss this shyt with your woman and see how crazy you look .
Nyggas who got somebody don't think about this shyt bruh.
Go ahead,try to discuss this shyt with your woman and see how crazy you look .
Rick Fox at UNC
All Star
A lot of black women are emotional terrorists who screw up their homes and especially their sons
It is what it is.
It is what it is.
Yagirlcheatinonus
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Divide & conquer
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
Host it in Philly for historical reasons
MajesticLion
Veteran
Ozymandeas
Veteran
It's because we have no country 
This is the white man's country at the end of the day.
And they have systematically removed us from the household and undermined our authority.
You don't see any of this flying in Black Caribbean countries or in Africa.
This is the white man's country at the end of the day.
And they have systematically removed us from the household and undermined our authority.
You don't see any of this flying in Black Caribbean countries or in Africa.
CreepyMcCreeperson
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Indeed my human. Me and the misses be looking like two dumb furballs in public
