For some reason Black Men arent able to be HONEST to or about Black Women.

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I think it began with Black Men trying to protect and build our women up, but somewhere it turned into you can't correct or critique our women. Now we're at the point where our women only want to hear is praises and us supporting whatever they do and say. Anyone not willing to bend the knee and praise and worship are the enemies and deserving of death. See Kevin Samuels.

We all know many single rule over their homes like dictators. Theirs absolutely no checks and balances. So many of the children from single parents homes have never seen a man check or correct a woman. It's blasphemous to them. These boys are raised like pitbull security for their mothers and will attack and defend their mother whether right or wrong. These boys become male feminist. Use to see women run things and men being docile.

Many men have decided to remain quiet and not confront women for any reason. Many men play along in this matriarch for sexually access. Agreeing with any and everything they do. This failure to correct and keep our women in balance has turned our women delusional, unreasonable and infallible.


I'll probably get cooked for even having a notion that Black women aren't perfect. Good thing im use to it.
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Whenever you dealing with any woman always understand she operates more in emotions and vibes than reason.

Those things change daily. What was good for her yesterday might not work for her today.

Women like a protector and a provider, but they also respect men that have boundaries and know how to say no. Most men don’t respect themselves hence women not respecting them either.

The average man doesn’t have as many options from the aspect of dating, so a lot of men operate from a scarcity mindset and put up with things that women don’t have to, because women have many more accessible options.
 
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It’s very true but you must understand The Coli is filled with black men from single parent homes and horny freaks, so they’re going to downplay this.

It’s our fault, we’re the only group ever to call our women God n’ sh*t. The most popular black man in hiphop called his momma a black queen even though she was a crack fiend. They can be the worst and still be worshipped, so why do better?

Black women were willing participants in running the average black man’s reputation into the ground with their whole, “black men ain’t shyt” campaign. They also run interference for white men in the workplace because they are in direct competition with us. White people know they will automatically gate keep jobs with their positions in HR. Black women don’t even consider themselves to be apart of the black community.
 
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A lot of people don't speak with qualifiers and instead rope in all people. They say "black men", "black women", and so on instead of "some black men" or "some black women". The former will understandably draw ire since there are often times, many people who this does not pertain to. So it should be based around how you speak on the issue. It's hard since even I make that mistake from time to time and may be doing that now.

That said, some black men are scared and have that "momma is going to yell at me energy". It's weird. I've noticed it more in the US and UK than in most places. Even when black people from very patriarchal areas, when they move to the US or UK (I've never paid attention to other places as much), they go full male feminist, making me think it is an issue of living in a society dominated by white, maybe white male, people than anything else. It makes me wonder how would these people be outside these societies or one entirely of their own making.
 

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It’s very true but you must understand The Coli is filled with black men from single parent homes and horny freaks, so they’re going to downplay this.

It’s our fault, we’re the only group ever to call our women God n’ sh*t. The most popular black man in hiphop called his momma a black queen even though she was a crack fiend. They can be the worst and still be worshipped, so why do better?

You’re part of the problem
 
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Whenever you dealing with any woman always understand she operates more in emotions and vibes than reason.

Those things change daily. What was good for her yesterday might now work for her today.

Women like a protector and a provider but they also respect men that have boundaries and know how to say no. Most men don’t respect themselves hence women not respecting them either.

The average man doesn’t have as many options from the aspect of dating so a lot of men operate in from a scarcity mindset and put up with things that women don’t have to because women have many more accessible options.
agreed.....

to an extent.....

women have a vast number of options to get smashed into mattresses.....but they overestimate the amount of men willing to take them serious...
those numbers are not equal at all...

if more men operated from this viewpoint and not scarcity...like you said.... they would be better off....IDGAF what 99.9% of these women do because im not interested in them anyway. men should spend more time pouring into themselves...also getting lust under control would solve a lot of these dudes problems...men put up with way to much BS because of sex
 
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