MajesticLion
Veteran
I doubt black couples in the US are swinging as mush as white couples or more than them.
But correct me if I'm wrong.
Not wrong, nah. Just underestimating the scope of the problem, and the speed at which these things flourish as a result.
- assimilation is largely a phenomenon of attrition, left to itself
- to combat that, there's parenting: standards and principles to live by that guide you no matter the circumstance
- to neuter the parenting factor you have increased consumerism pushed heavily
- to pay for the consumerism, both parents now have to work; ergo, no more effective parenting, no more standards
- previous generations had the "benefit" of artificial standards put in place for their addictions of the day: radio through television eras. (Even cable had a hard line between Skinemax and outright adult content.)
- the internet is 80% adult content with no rules whatsoever(I'm being very conservative in that estimate).
- to speed up the aforementioned assimilation process you have shared addictions marketed as everyday life "necessities"
- children now are handed smartphones at 3
- children are now told by teachers in elementary/primary schools that they have to sign up to FB/Zoom/Skype/whatever else; point being, they're force-fed - not spoon-fed, force-fed - that internet addiction where they meet that content at every turn...with no effective parenting to counter it
- past generations got exposed to adult stuff because a relative left a mag or tape laying around, where you'd find it maybe in your teens; such generations had/have their own issues finding a balance with that particular drive as a result, even with parental guidance to act as a buffer
- what took them years to process and come to terms with, having already had a safety net of standards taught to you by parents, is now accepted as normal in an internet environment; they could see any kind of internet smut and their standards kicked in and they'd go "nah, I'm good..."...that no longer applies to maybe the last two generations for whom full-nelson anal is something they've been seeing forever...with no effective standards to counter it
- the major blind spot here is time: someone born in '98 turns 22 this year. They travel. Things happen.
- to combat that, there's parenting: standards and principles to live by that guide you no matter the circumstance
- to neuter the parenting factor you have increased consumerism pushed heavily
- to pay for the consumerism, both parents now have to work; ergo, no more effective parenting, no more standards
- previous generations had the "benefit" of artificial standards put in place for their addictions of the day: radio through television eras. (Even cable had a hard line between Skinemax and outright adult content.)
- the internet is 80% adult content with no rules whatsoever(I'm being very conservative in that estimate).
- to speed up the aforementioned assimilation process you have shared addictions marketed as everyday life "necessities"
- children now are handed smartphones at 3
- children are now told by teachers in elementary/primary schools that they have to sign up to FB/Zoom/Skype/whatever else; point being, they're force-fed - not spoon-fed, force-fed - that internet addiction where they meet that content at every turn...with no effective parenting to counter it
- past generations got exposed to adult stuff because a relative left a mag or tape laying around, where you'd find it maybe in your teens; such generations had/have their own issues finding a balance with that particular drive as a result, even with parental guidance to act as a buffer
- what took them years to process and come to terms with, having already had a safety net of standards taught to you by parents, is now accepted as normal in an internet environment; they could see any kind of internet smut and their standards kicked in and they'd go "nah, I'm good..."...that no longer applies to maybe the last two generations for whom full-nelson anal is something they've been seeing forever...with no effective standards to counter it
- the major blind spot here is time: someone born in '98 turns 22 this year. They travel. Things happen.
TL/DR - black couples have been wilding out online since the days of BGOL/karadavis and newsgroups and mIRC, and meeting up to indulge those things in person. People are people. The tech and the platforms have evolved but the people are the same. Do not underestimate how deep this rabbit hole goes.
the second pic ...Jesus Christ 