Catching up. Just watched the Ragdoll episode. My problem with the family drama remains that no one seems all that concerned with Nora's issues. I agree she was being unreasonable - and said as much in this very thread - but it just feels like everyone was so worried about Iris that they brushed aside the reasons for Nora's resentment.
Like, Nora is still going to have to eventually go back to the future and deal with future-Iris, who again, could be a massive a$$hole for all they know. Maybe offer some words of wisdom for that situation? Looks like we don't. Instead we shun the child for making her mom feel bad, then have said mom jump off a building to make everything okay.
Honestly, stuff like this is what's pulling me out of the show. I find myself far more into whatever Ralph, Cisco, and Caitlyn are doing because they're the characters who still feel heroic. The West-Allen family are so fukking selfish and self-absorbed now, and they never have to take responsibility for it.