Finding out something about your s/o that makes you very uncomfortable unappreciation

[Sharp]

My advice is to never do anything you are uncomfortable with. She's not the one for you breh.

Take your emotions out of the picture and think logically. You're only going to be hurt and disappointed in the end.

If you change for her now, you will keep changing for the rest of the relationship until you've had enough and then you'll still lose her.

Better to let her go now. She's just not for you if she or anything she is doing makes you uncomfortable

 

[Majestyx]

to the bsuhes with her and keep it moving

u gonna be real when she ties u up and brings out some giant spiked dildo for dat ass

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Dude her sexual appetite will have you sharing in no time

 

[Sharp]

Reminds me of that scene in Old School when dude comes home and finds his wife involved in a threesome. I see it happening breh

 

[Blown Moon]

Bravo, you can't be all things to all ppl. You def'ly aint all things to this chick.

Open up the relationship to a 3rd person who is capable of ****ing her the way she prefers (BDSM w/o safe words). You can continue in your role of boyfriend & conventional sex partner.

Sometimes? It takes a village. *shrug*

Even if I was cool with her going out and getting smutted out every now and then(which I'm not), she wouldn't be cool with it. She's bi and won't do a threesome because she just doesn't believe in being with anyone else when she's in a relationship.

All you dudes are really exposing yourselves. All you guys talk about are exploring buttholes, sucking toes, and smutting a girl out. Then you have a woman that's really about that life and you're scared all of a sudden because she outsmuts you? What part of the game is that. You are just assuming that this dude shares the girl and 90% of the time that is not the case. She really wants to share her sexuality with you and you got a pass to do the same, it's a beautiful thing.

I'm cool with the way it was She was fulfilling all my needs and more. I'm glad she shared this with me because we can work on it now and there is nothing beautiful about bdsm...nothing

He just need to rough her up and , make her once or twice. Keep her guessing.

I'm gonna rape her when I get home and I'm being dead serious.

My advice is to never do anything you are uncomfortable with. She's not the one for you breh.

Take your emotions out of the picture and think logically. You're only going to be hurt and disappointed in the end.

If you change for her now, you will keep changing for the rest of the relationship until you've had enough and then you'll still lose her.

Better to let her go now. She's just not for you if she or anything she is doing makes you uncomfortable

What about all the things she does that make me happy; You'd leave someone you love because of one issue? She's done nothing but make my life better. I was tripping because I was shocked at the level of her sexual deviancy, I felt like I couldn't satisfy her completly and was feeling shyty because she fulfills all my needs and I also thought she might stray because of it but shes assured me that she can do without it but I'm going to try my best to abuse her the was she likes... because I love her.

 

[Listen]

but I'm going to try my best to abuse her the way she likes... because I love her.

I mean, this is just....

 

[Sharp]

What about all the things she does that make me happy; You'd leave someone you love because of one issue? She's done nothing but make my life better. I was tripping because I was shocked at the level of her sexual deviancy, I felt like I couldn't satisfy her completly and was feeling shyty because she fulfills all my needs and I also thought she might stray because of it but shes assured me that she can do without it but I'm going to try my best to abuse her the was she likes... because I love her.

Yes you do leave them for that one issue. If it's something that you can't handle now, you won't be able to handle it later. If she loved you, she wouldn't do things that make you uncomfortable. Did you even tell her you were uncomfortable or are you acting as if you are okay with what's she'd doing?

You have to let her know that you aren't with it breh.

 

[Malta]

I'm gonna rape her when I get home and I'm being dead serious.

 

[Blown Moon]

Yes you do leave them for that one issue. If it's something that you can't handle now, you won't be able to handle it later. If she loved you, she wouldn't do things that make you uncomfortable. Did you even tell her you were uncomfortable or are you acting as if you are okay with what's she'd doing?

You have to let her know that you aren't with it breh.

Breh she can't help what she likes and she didn't even bring it to me, I just found out. She's cool with me not being into it but I'm going to try to get into it for her. In my opinion if you're with someone and the things they do that make you happy greatly outweigh the things that make you unhappy or uncomfortable; you work those rough spots out by compromising. I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with some of that stuff but I can get rougher with her. I just have mental blocks about doing it because I hold her in such high regard and have so much love and respect for her, its hard for me to choke, slap, spit on her, hold her nose while pounding her mouth with all my might while her limbs are tied up to the point she's losing circulation, etc.

 

[Dat Migo]

Just slap the shyt out of her, you sounding like a real bytch right about now

 

[Gallo]

Breh she can't help what she likes and she didn't even bring it to me, I just found out. She's cool with me not being into it but I'm going to try to get into it for her. In my opinion if you're with someone and the things they do that make you happy greatly outweigh the things that make you unhappy or uncomfortable; you work those rough spots out by compromising. I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with some of that stuff but I can get rougher with her. I just have mental blocks about doing it because I hold her in such high regard and have so much love and respect for her, its hard for me to choke, slap, spit on her, hold her nose while pounding her mouth with all my might while her limbs are tied up to the point she's losing circulation, etc.

Why would you hold anyone outside your mama with such high regard? What part of the game is this? Respect is ok but all this putting her on a pedestal BS.

Real talk bro, you sound like a bytch. No offense though, you are what you are. Keep doing you though, bytch.

 

[Blown Moon]

Why would you hold anyone outside your mama with such high regard? What part of the game is this? Respect is ok but all this putting her on a pedestal BS.

Real talk bro, you sound like a bytch. No offense though, you are what you are. Keep doing you though, bytch.

I thought you dated to find a girl who stands above the rest and when you find her you treat her accordingly. Yes I hold her in high regard; she's truly a great person. Alot of you nikkas sound like you don't even like women...I'm a bytch because I have love and respect for the woman I'm dating, really breh

 

[Gallo]

I thought you dated to find a girl who stands above the rest and when you find her you treat her accordingly. Yes I hold her in high regard; she's truly a great person. Alot of you nikkas sound like you don't even like women...I'm a bytch because I have love and respect for a woman I'm dating, really breh

You're a bytch.

 

[Blown Moon]

You're a bytch.

Big man

 

[TheAnointedOne]

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