Blown Moon
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Whoa whoa whoa
Not being into bdsm means I'm 1-dimensional in the bedroom? Are you into getting tied up and beat half to death? If this is normal, I'll just go ahead and cop to being lame in bed.
Finding out something about your s/o that makes you very uncomfortable unappreciation
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Whoa whoa whoa
Not being into bdsm means I'm 1-dimensional in the bedroom? Are you into getting tied up and beat half to death? If this is normal, I'll just go ahead and cop to being lame in bed.
Blown Moon
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Doesn't take any skill to tie someone up and clamp their nipples
Well, getting the rope to stay tight was a bytch, so it takes a little skill but the clamps were foolproof.
TheAnointedOne
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Blown Moon
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Her family is low key affluent; ski trips for the holidays type shyt.
Her parents got a divorce when she was a teen but she stayed close to her dad, talked to him every other day, spent summers with him, etc. Her mom is the real life big dee dee from that show half and half and she gets her swag from her dad, he's a cool ass nikka.
She got introduced to bdsm with her last boyfriend and she liked it
She was 21.
eifmp
Looking for a rich woman to take care of me
Would you be upset if a guy had the same opinion about you?
Blown Moon
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Oh noo, thats not me, I'm freaky. I'm pretty good at basketball too but if I walked on to an nba court I'd get embarrassed, dig?
I'm realizing that she has become my best friend, I truly love her but she's juststatus. I stopped half way through, due to fear of catching a murder case. After I took the gag out of her mouth, she said it was cool that I couldn't do this type of shyt. Later on that night as I'm laying in bed with her, staring at the ceiling with the
face I realize that she's crying I ask her whats wrong and she turns around with snot hanging out of her nose and blood shot eyes and says "you're gonna leave me aren't you" I told her it wasn't that serious and to man up.(I'll explain later) The next day we went out and had a nice time, coffee, biking in Venice, and then we saw batman but the whole time in the back of my mind, all I was thinking about was how much danger this relationship is in and if we break up how to get out it with our friendship still in tact. I also spent half the day trying to hide the
face.
On one hand, she's really dope, I love being with her and she makes me better(corny but true) On the other hand
Should I try and get past this and stay with her? She said she could do without it and that she only said I was getting boring to try and coax me into going through with the...deed. She said she would take a polygraph test to prove it and I don't think she's bluffing. What would you do in my situation? I'd really appreciate real answers.
"Man up and whip me harder you fukk"..."I don't do safe words now gag me"
All you guys need to know about how that night went.
It sounds like her dopamine and maybe serotonin levels are low, most likely dopamine, because I think this is what she needs to get that powerful orgasm. She needs an adrenaline rush to get her brain going and being fukked up while fukking is the ultimate adrenaline rush because you can die. The thing is eventually it will go into other things like fukking other people and who knows what else because the more adrenaline rush she gets the lower her receptors for dopamine will get because adrenaline is for when your physically active not fukking, which means she needs more to get the same effect she used to get.
It sounds like she went through something stressful, found bdsm and the fantasy gave her relief from the stress but once you do it it isn't fantasy anymore and she will need another fantasy to fulfill. I think she needs to start eating more nut/seeds for her fat and protein and exercising(resistance training then 15-30 minutes of cardio right after) so she can restore her dopamine levels back to normal or higher and enjoy more safer, simple type of sex. Also, try to get her to take up meditation because it sounds like she lives in her head and this isn't good when done too much because you will be in fantasy land and eventually you will make those fantasies real which means she will never be satisfied.
I don't think this is a good thing which is why you should know people before you give them your heart, unless you know they are willing to change because only two things are going to happen, she will change or you will change. A relationship never stays the same because one person will always affect the other more and change that person to be more like them especially if you live with them and have sex all the time. Be wise.
Blown Moon
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She did say she comes harder when u know... She told me she's turned on by being helpless and treated like a "thing"; she also loves to think about being tied up an beaten, whenever she can tell someone has put the cute and innocent tag on her. She has more fantasies but I have no problems with them at all! Now that I think about it, those fantasies are all things that will get the adrenaline pumping e.g. giving me head under a table while I'm talking to alot of uppity old people but then again, fantasies are supposed to be wild right? I just don't think someone having wild fantasies will lead them to being unfaithful. I also asked if her cousin doing what he did had some effect and she said she only thinks about it when he's in town and she said she enjoys making him very uncomfortable by giving him a cold emotionless stare down. So I'm thinking it's just her being a super freak but you've brought up some very good points and I'll run them by her and see what she says.
Ricky Church
Stole Timberlake's Spaceship-Coupe
she sound like a top notch hoe. have ur fun now and then drop that skank before she wanna get married. smh
Blown Moon
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okay
Ricky Church
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