Wow I tried to explain this in so many ways but everytime I read what I wrote it just wasn't coming out right lol. Let's just say that there tends to be a level of resentment that may set in. Especially if and when they start fukking up.Why?
Wow I tried to explain this in so many ways but everytime I read what I wrote it just wasn't coming out right lol. Let's just say that there tends to be a level of resentment that may set in. Especially if and when they start fukking up.Why?
Suppose his lil head was bigUltimately it's not fair to the guy. I think a dude deserves someone who is naturally attracted to him either due to his physical traits or his aura/charm. U can only fake an attraction for so long. Last year I was talking to this guy who was very nice and gentlemanly, was an engineer, involved in church , etc. But he had a smaller than average sized head. Anytime he wore collared shirts it looked like a turtle peeking out it's shell. He had so many other good traits that I tried to over look It but never could.
If u get with someone who u aren't attracted you ur going to create a situation where he has to bend over backwards to get physical intimacy from you, which is bad
I'd still have to look at him thoSuppose his lil head was big
Looks Isn't the only thing that can attract women to u tho, even without money. A guy cud be ugly but he could be funny/great personality /charming /etc. Money and looks aren't the only ways to be desirableMoney changes everything. I see ugly rappers ,athletes & business men bagging good looking women .
Was trying to tell you all this and you bushed meLooks aren't everything. You may throw away a good match just because attraction isn't there. Don't be so shallow, it may end up hurting you in the long run. I'm not implying that a more attractive man may not love you just as much, but if you like him as well, see how you feel romantically after you all hang out with that in mind. I do understand, and used to say the same thing, but the mental is more important and can be arousing too.
Also the things you mentioned are honestly...stupid. Dark teeth, and mouth breathing can be remedied. How would you feel if 20 years later you're lonely because you passed up a guy because he had red gums?!
Looks aren't everything. You may throw away a good match just because attraction isn't there. Don't be so shallow, it may end up hurting you in the long run. I'm not implying that a more attractive man may not love you just as much, but if you like him as well, see how you feel romantically after you all hang out with that in mind. I do understand, and used to say the same thing, but the mental is more important and can be arousing too.
Also the things you mentioned are honestly...stupid. Dark teeth, and mouth breathing can be remedied. How would you feel if 20 years later you're lonely because you passed up a guy because he had red gums?!
I think women are allowed to at the very least like the person they marry.
but if you like him as well, see how you feel romantically after you all hang out with that in mind.
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She said she didn't even want to hang around him. And the part where the person said "How would you feel if 20 years later you're lonely because you passed up a guy because he had red gums?!" really got on my nerves.
I hate when people try to scare women into dating men they don't want by making it seem like there are no men on this earth that they could actually want to be with that will want them back. It's very negative.
No offense to the person that posted it, it's just something that really gets under my skin. To me it seems like you're telling the woman that she can't get any better than someone she doesn't want.