Falling male earnings have led to a drop in marriage and a rise in out-of-wedlock births

Ashley Banks

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Idk why @Ashley Banks is in here protesting when she joined #importgang when she married Jafar:jbhmm:

Talk about cognitive dissonance :gucci:

you guys keep saying that but when did I say anything about dating people from other countries? where am I protesting "importantgang"? :dahell: :mindblown: Are you even reading my posts or did you see that responded and assumed I was talking about something else? :gucci:
 

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I sense some hostility :leostare:
Nah fam I wish you nothing but prosperity :jbhmm:
 
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Nothing wrong with having standards or and ideal guy..
Where the game gets fukked up at is a lot of women pass on hardworking brehs that might not have the "title" or "high class job" that increases their visibility of what the "good life" is..
Plumbers, electricians, garbage men, mail/package carriers make bank(just a few examples) but they don't have the job that screams "look at me"...
Just because I buy you a diamond ring, doesn't mean I'm not going to keep fukking others.
It really boils down to men and women not communicating anymore, putting up walls, insecurities and seeing toxic relationships their whole lives and not seeing the jewels in front of them when they present themselves..



Good talk but it's more to it trust...
 

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question, why is it always women that have to change something? and why do you guys make every option sound horrible? oh you don't want to date a fat ugly broke slob that beats you? then you have to be a side chick, oh you don't want to be a side chick? Then you have to be a single bitter lonely cat lady. smh

if you can't find the man you want, then there is nothing wrong with being single and it doesn't make you a "cat lady". smfh.
This is a very extreme interpretation of what @Poitier said. Why do you conflate being fat and abusive with being broke? Also, broke is subjective.
 

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And even if u do make bank hundreds of thousands of dollars in student loan or other debt makes u just as broke as the next cat
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Some loud ass hood rat hopped on Twitter saying that women are better hustlers than dudes these days
in many ways they are killin it. Just saw this busty white chick advertising "personalized twerk grams" for st patricks day with her paypal info in the tweet. :dwillhuh:
My nikka
ppl paying actual money for a snap chat clip of a big titty white girl to twerk for a few seconds and say their name:dwillhuh:
dressed in green cause the next holiday is st patricks:dwillhuh:

lots of chicks can show some skin or masturbate on camera and make BANK
dudes not gettin paid like that to do the same thing
on a whole are they better hustlers than men? Idk but they DEF out here doin thier thing

when she married Jafar:jbhmm:
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now you want me when I have the resources but when a figga was eating top ramen, working two jobs and taking 15 hours at college/votech just to get on..
women have always gravitated to the male that can provide, has resources, give them options/comfort etc. thats just nature.
Alphas run this shyt every time, b
 

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question, why is it always women that have to change something? and why do you guys make every option sound horrible? oh you don't want to date a fat ugly broke slob that beats you? then you have to be a side chick, oh you don't want to be a side chick? Then you have to be a single bitter lonely cat lady. smh

if you can't find the man you want, then there is nothing wrong with being single and it doesn't make you a "cat lady". smfh.

Question, why are you speaking as though the alternative is an abusive slob.

There's nothing wrong with being single but the reality is people's body clock will start ticking. Few want to die on their own and without children in the world.

Your mentality is why many women bleed their husbands dry without remorse in divorce. Initiate divorce, but expect the lifestyle to remain the same. Earn on par with men in society but still expect to land a rich bread winner. It comes down to initiating change, but expecting others to compromise for your convenience.
 
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