Falling male earnings have led to a drop in marriage and a rise in out-of-wedlock births

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When Factory Jobs Vanish, Men Become Less Desirable Partners

I've been said women entering the labor force and the shrinking male-female gap in education and employment have eroded basic institutions of our society like marriage:wow:

This of course is even more of a problem in the Black community and shows its not all on Black men for the way the family unit has turned out since the mid 20th century:ehh:

Women are either going to have to "date down" and stop trying to get a man with endless options or continue being side chicks/lonely cat ladies:mjgrin:
I think they been dating down from what I can see
 

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Ya'll import gang nikkas on some weirdo shyt.

I've always had some down ass females hold me down while I was broke as hell. Paying rent, buying food and buying me weed while I was filling out job applications and playing playstation. :pachaha:

You mean to tell me that instead of finding a good ol fashion ride or die to lock shyt down for you, you gonna find a third world chick even broker than you to take care of:mjlol:

The VERY definition of hustling backwards.

If a bytch was holding you down when you was not just broke but bummy then that bytch wasn't quality :yeshrug:
 

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Ya'll import gang nikkas on some weirdo shyt.

I've always had some down ass females hold me down while I was broke as hell. Paying rent, buying food and buying me weed while I was filling out job applications and playing playstation. :pachaha:

You mean to tell me that instead of finding a good ol fashion ride or die to lock shyt down for you, you gonna find a third world chick even broker than you to take care of:mjlol:

The VERY definition of hustling backwards.
They think they'll be exposing those broads to something new.

They got instagram too, they're just as self centered ambitious as American women .
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
I don't know any woman that turned down a guy because he was a plumber, electrician or a garbage man. And idk why the coli acts like if you have a job like that you can't be a shytty person, just like you said "just because I buy you a diamond ring doesn't mean I won't cheat" just because a dude is a plumber doesn't mean he isn't a cheater. It's like the coli wants to scare women into being treated badly by saying you have to take any man that's interested in you or else you're going to be bitter and lonely.
People are shyty no matter the profession..
No argument from me there..
But please don't sit there and act like some women don't put certain professions on a pedestal and are inclined to stay with men because of their pay grade and visibility in certain communities..
That would be a fallacy on your part..
Once again, if you have standards and qualities that you deem important, I will not knock that..
But it's strange that as soon as a brotha states his standards then we are shallow, narcissistic, selfish, immature..
There is nothing wrong with being single but if you are outchea trying to find love or a good match, like everything else in life, it's a give and take..
Unfortunately all men (at least in this generation of dating/marriage)see is the taking and getting work from women and being left in shambles..
And nobody wants to be a fool..
 

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People are shyty no matter the profession..
No argument from me there..
But please don't sit there and act like some women don't put certain professions on a pedestal and are inclined to stay with men because of their pay grade and visibility in certain communities..
That would be a fallacy on your part..
Once again, if you have standards and qualities that you deem important, I will not knock that..
But it's strange that as soon as a brotha states his standards then we are shallow, narcissistic, selfish, immature..
There is nothing wrong with being single but if you are outchea trying to find love or a good match, like everything else in life, it's a give and take..
Unfortunately all men (at least in this generation of dating/marriage)see is the taking and getting work from women and being left in shambles..
And nobody wants to be a fool..

I never said that, you guys are the ones that do it when women have standards.
 
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