Ethically non monogamous relationships and why are men falling for it?

[Neuromancer]

Who is falling for this?

 

[bammtronics]

What’s the difference between an open relationship and enm? Just sounds like a new term for a thing that already existed

enm is an umbrella term that open relationship falls under

 

[Neuromancer]

It's rare for me to find some one that can keep up with my sexual appitite, so it's even more obvious if they tryna make me share

You look like you're insatiable.

 

[Matt504]

If people are in relationships where they're cheating, isn't this a preferable alternative.

If most men could access sex as easily as women, this thread wouldn't exist.

 

[Serious]

I see it a lot now and you’re not going to have an honest conversation about this with Coli dudes because these dudes try to actike they effortlessly pull b*tches. You’re right, the dudes that agree to this are fukking cucks because men can’t go out here and get sex as easily as their woman. They go for it because if they don’t, they will lose access to the b*tch because then she will simply leave and do her.

All men have to do to regain that power is just to let her know you have a zero tolerance policy for bs. If she wants to leave / step out, let her, just don’t let her come back. Make it clear.

 

[null]

I created this topic because I recently began using the apps just to see what's up locally. In the handful of days I've been using it, I've seen the term ENM pop up more than I would have liked. Upon research it means ethically non monogamous. What it basically means is that the woman can see whomever she wants because there's an understanding that this is who she is. My question is are men that desperate to be in a situation where they'll essentially be the third wheel in their own relationship? It can't be that bad out there to voluntarily cuck yourself.

Urban Dictionary: Tramp Stamp

 

[LurkMoar]

This has to be the dumbest generation in regards to relationships ever. Always trying to make something out of nothing. Nobody wants commitment in a country that can give a fck about family and neck deep in lust and pleasures.

At the end of the day they gonna be the same ones complaining about “there’s no true love anymore”

 

[Wildhundreds]

At the end of the day they gonna be the same ones complaining about “there’s no true love anymore”

Get down how you live was the M.O i use to know..

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It's funny how so many folks roast Islam religion yet these western dudes getting ran the hell over by their own women.


With that said, I highly, highly, doubt any men are on that nmm wave or whatever the hell that shyt is. @Rell Lauren Log off my guy

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Its more complicated than that. Its basically what people used to do in the past. The wife doesn't ask the husband what he was doing on his 'business trips' that he has to take even though he works at a call center and he doesn't ask why she goes to visit her 'cousins and aunt' every other week. They both know, but they stay out of each other's business and commit to stability in their household. There wasn't a name for that until now. A lot of those married couples that have been together forever had their side pieces they'd fukk to get their sexual frustration out or to let their freak flag fly. Especially if they came up in a conservative background.

Bullshyt. Either don't get married or stay committed. I ain't wifing no woman that's out fukking other nikkas. Even if I am cheating myself

 

[CHICAGO]

MOST OF THOSE DUDES ARE GAY
AND THEY EVENTUALLY TRY TO
GET ALL 3 OF YALL IN THE BEDROOM.

SHE GETTING dikk ON THE SIDE
AND HES GETTING dikk ON THE SIDE.

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[Ezekiel 25:17]

Just because women *can* get sex easily doesn't automatically mean they act on it. They don't operate on sex the way we do.

ANY woman that brings up wanting an open relationship WILL seek sex.

Where do y’all get the idea that women can easily pick and choose men to get their backs blown out on a normal occurrence? Times have changed and women are becoming increasingly difficult to deal with. I’ve turned a number of women down for one reason or another. And most times women will navigate away from the thirsty types. Coli really comes across like a bunch of desperate ass dudes a lot of the time.

You can't be serious. Even your average 5/10 woman can get 20 matches on Tinder breh. And out of that 20 she's bound to match and fukk 6. If the woman is a 7/10 and up its over. I didn't even mention if she goes to a bar

 

[Jasonmask]

I know somebody who’s been doing that for quite awhile now. Yeah the shyt is crazy weird I’ve spoke about this shyt before

 

[bammtronics]

ANY woman that brings up wanting an open relationship WILL seek sex.

The way women seek sex is not the same way men seek sex.

 

[Numpsay]

ANY woman that brings up wanting an open relationship WILL seek sex.





You can't be serious. Even your average 5/10 woman can get 20 matches on Tinder breh. And out of that 20 she's bound to match and fukk 6. If the woman is a 7/10 and up its over. I didn't even mention if she goes to a bar

Most women aren't that promiscuous breh. If anything they'll let an ex smash from time to time but they ain't fukking new nikkas like that. Now actual hoes are an exception to the rule but thecoli seems to have the impression most women are hoes which kind of tells me the type of women most of thecoli has to settle for.