Ethically non monogamous relationships and why are men falling for it?

[NatiboyB]

That's what you would think, right? But sometimes it's like the girls are looking for a secondary partner. So you're essentially a side piece/ additional boyfriend who her man knows about.

the hell kind of cuckold bs is that. Dudes really that hard up.

 

[Mastamimd]

In my day we called that being single

 

[Kinguno]

Listen it’s vibes

But to be honest if you not involved with multiple are you really living?

Even if you don’t historically you could argue with yourself you do from your ex, that recent one night stand, and what’s next technically it would fit

 

[Goat poster]

Why are you assuming the men are just sitting at home doing nothing in this situation? The only man that agrees to that arrangement is one who knows he can easily get p*ssy or is some sort of cuckold that enjoys knowing his girlfriend is being smashed by someone else.

Those kind of arrangements can ONLY ever work if youre the kind of guy that gets women easily. I've seen many stories of men who think they can do that, and then get humbled real quick when they realize that their girlfriend has a much easier time attracting men than he does attracting women.

Bingo

every dude I Know that agrees to this lifestyle has no trouble getting women.

 

[Rell Lauren]

Bingo

every dude I Know that agrees to this lifestyle has no trouble getting women.

It's not a relationship then. Call it what it is. They're single and fukking around.

 

[Phitz]

Doesn’t this just mean we can hook up and have sexual encounters with no strings

That's what I'm confused about. What's the difference between this and FWB?

 

[NatiboyB]

That's what I'm confused about. What's the difference between this and FWB?

between this stuff and the LGBT identity stuff I’ll be honest I’d legit need to take a couple of classes in order to remotely understand this stuff.

 

[Rell Lauren]

That's what I'm confused about. What's the difference between this and FWB?

FWB = we chill and have sex from time to time.
ENM = in a committed relationship, but one party (or both if he has the juice) is free to fukk around

 

[Still Benefited]

In my day we called that being single

Exactly

This is basically the beginning of every relationship, women back then just had the decency to pretend they were ladies and not keeping their options open#Discretion.
Women now need you to know they aren't fools, they are "outside",and while you're doing your thing they are doing theirs too.
Thats cool and all but that puts you in the category with the unclaimables.

Tried to tell yall,If you not already married/righteously attached,its probably too late. If you had a woman with potential,2 years ago was the time to lock her up as a franchise player.

 

[DaddyFresh]

Just go on Reddit majority of men struggle while women run thru men. The whole concept is strongly in women favor

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

It's not a relationship then. Call it what it is. They're single and fukking around.

Its more complicated than that. Its basically what people used to do in the past. The wife doesn't ask the husband what he was doing on his 'business trips' that he has to take even though he works at a call center and he doesn't ask why she goes to visit her 'cousins and aunt' every other week. They both know, but they stay out of each other's business and commit to stability in their household. There wasn't a name for that until now. A lot of those married couples that have been together forever had their side pieces they'd fukk to get their sexual frustration out or to let their freak flag fly. Especially if they came up in a conservative background.

 

[Phitz]

FWB = we chill and have sex from time to time.
ENM = in a committed relationship, but one party (or both if he has the juice) is free to fukk around

how does the committed part fit in if both are exercising their options?

 

[feelosofer]

Let's be reality this arrangement doesn't really benefit the man even under the best of circumstances. It's basically an arrangement where the woman can essentially get the emotional and FINANCIAL benefits of being in a relationship while getting her back blown out as she pleases. It's basically a one sided FWB.

 

[Shadow King]

That's what I'm confused about. What's the difference between this and FWB?

how does the committed part fit in if both are exercising their options?

Because at the end of the day those 2 people share their lives other than sex with one another vs their interactions with the sides.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

This is on the assumption that men can easily get women like women can get men. We know that this isn't the case more times than not. A man has to work to get women. Women just point and choose who they want.

this is true to an extent....

problem is the men available to a woman arent necessarily the men she wants.....and as a man its not really that hard to find a woman breh....its not