Emeli Sande divorces husband after one year

[WeDemBoyz]

It's so grimey brehs, so grimey.

I have as well breh

But your bitter you chose the wrong woman.




But actually its a process a woman does, they emotionally withdrawal weeks, months in advance so when its over its over. They have already thought about it talked to the girlies, the mom. Bashed you, ans probably have their eye on someone new.

Its why you can talk to a woman every day for like a year she breaks up and you never hear from her again.

As a man pick up the signs and leave before you are left

 

[Ronnie Lott]

As much as I'd hate to admit it I have emotionally withdrawn from 2 relationships prior to breaking up.

The first one he and I could not get along. The relationship really had no future but he didn't want to let it go. He is pretty crazy about me but our personalities just didn't go together. I didn't want to break up with him b/c I knew he loved me. So I just started doing shyt so he wouldn't want to be with me ie pretend to get mad at shyt that I wasn't mad about or just start arguments for no reason. He eventually had enough and broke up with me. I played the roll so well. I even cried and told him I was so sorry. Then he wanted to get back together a week later and I was like "No I think it's for the best." He was so confused. This was like 7 or 8 years ago and I just saw him 8 months ago and he told me that he will always love me and I broke his heart. It sucks b/c I did all that so that he would feel okay about the break up. Damned it you do. Damned if you don't.

With the second guy, we just had fundamental lifestyle differences. Hanging out was cool for awhile but all he ever wanted to do was sit on the sofa and watch basketball. He never wanted to try anything new. I do remember just sitting on the couch with him one day. I looked at the TV, looked at him, looked at the TV and then looked at him and thought "if I stay with this dude this is all my life will ever be; sitting on the coach watching TV. " I don't even like TV. At that point, I began to check out. But not too long after that I found out he was cheating. I was hurt but also kind of relieved b/c I had an out. He cried and said he would never do it again blah blah. I told him we could be friends b/c honestly I wasn't completely checked out yet. Over the course of a few months we decided to "work on our relationship" in reality I was just getting him out of my system. Then the day came when I was ready to let him go and I told him that I wasn't interested in friendship or anything else. He literally broke down and cried and told me he thought we were getting back together and he had been working hard to make things right but I had no sympathy in my heart for him. I didn't talk to him for a year or 2 after that day until he hit me with an email saying he missed me blah blah blah. I didn't even respond.


Damn I was cold.


Going forward I would handle both situations differently.

Sounds like you were dealin with 2 lame and weak nikkaz. Real nikkaz never break down crying in front of their lady over them. That shyt ain't G at all. It will most likely be used against you in the future.

All that crying and belly achin them nikkaz were doin over you, you in turn viewed them as less than. Them nikkaz should have saw the signs

 

[XII]

gosh darn it I swear I have to do everything around here

She could be Janelle Monae's grandmother

They're the same age

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Emeli unveiled a new look

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/emeli-sande-divorces-husband-after-4603625

Shorty let them people in her head

She cooks very different now. I remember when she had black long curly hair and was singing on Wiley tunes.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

I like her on Robert Glasper's jam...

robert glasper da GAWD

 

[Sane]

I have as well breh

But your bitter you chose the wrong woman.




But actually its a process a woman does, they emotionally withdrawal weeks, months in advance so when its over its over. They have already thought about it talked to the girlies, the mom. Bashed you, ans probably have their eye on someone new.

Its why you can talk to a woman every day for like a year she breaks up and you never hear from her again.

As a man pick up the signs and leave before you are left

 

[Jone2three45]

This is the reason why if on a rare occasion you are friends with a female, never want love from her.

All them years of friendship.

Friendship down the drain.

All of that one year of marriage.

Marriage down the drain.

I bet they don't even talk to each other anymore.

All becuase she was bored.

Now they both have a track record.


















































































Get married brehs.

 

[mcdivit85]

Or you can be content without a woman. I don't juggle chicks nor care to have a roster. But I'm not afraid or cutting any woman out of my life or ejecting from a relationship.

I say Get to that point of not giving a damn if she leaves and never being afraid to leave regardless if that means your phone won't ring, or you won't get sex.

II know its hard for many brehs so maybe they will take your stance I dont judge. But above all hold your respect and dignity over any chick regardless of her beauty or the sex she offers.

True. Or be a stand up dude who is faithful. But be willing to kick that b#tch to the curb if she starts to weeble wobble with her actions.

And options doesn't necessarily mean other women. It can mean staying crispy and keeping yourself at the top of your game, so that you know and she knows that other women are willing to take her place in a second. Even if you don't cheat, having a few chicks look extra long when you and your girl go out to eat is enough to let her know you have options if needed.

The issue is, most dudes who are faithful tend not to think about it this way. They tend to wrap themselves up in the relationship to the point where they start to let themselves go and take the relationship for granted. This leads to dude not having options and options tend to keep chicks in check.

Peace

 

[Steve Piffler]

gosh darn it I swear I have to do everything around here

 

[mr.africa]

each day some shyt happens that discourages me from ever tying the knot................and i'm in a happy relationship!!!!

'WOKE UP'

fukk this nikka if he chooses to remain friends with this woman!!!
BUSHES IS WHERE SHE BELONGS!!!

 

[Miggs]

These bytches always say the same shyt to try and deflect the scumbaggery off themselves...

"i wasnt me"
"i woke up and sumn was off"
"my friends telling me im not the same"

Nah bytch it aint complex or difficult to understand you just a piece of shyt....

 

[No_bammer_weed]

These bytches always say the same shyt to try and deflect the scumbaggery off themselves...

"i wasnt me"
"i woke up and sumn was off"
"my friends telling me im not the same"

Nah bytch it aint complex or difficult to understand you just a piece of shyt....

Why is she a "piece of shyt"? Is she supposed to be her boyfriend's property or somethin?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

"But there was just something inside me that said, 'This isn't the life. You're pretending to be someone else.'


Well there it is. She felt trapped.

 

[SmarkMero]

He must have been hearing this in his head when she broke the news!

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Are we supposed to get mad every time this happens........................................?