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Emeli Sande divorces husband after one year
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Nah not the same. Both relationships were troubled. Neither were out of nowhere. The second guy I did string along but he was a cheater and deserved no less.
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I can honestly say i have never had my heart broken.....
Can't say that i feel your pain.
Im glad you admitted it, I know the song and dance women pull.
I'm sure each of those guys knew you were drifting away, but the sex and the flattering words kept em around when they should have ejected.
Women mourn the end of the relationship when they are still kissing you and telling you they love you.
Men mourn the end of the relationship when they are alone in their room staring at the ceiling
I'm sure each of those guys knew you were drifting away, but the sex and the flattering words kept em around when they should have ejected.
Women mourn the end of the relationship when they are still kissing you and telling you they love you.
Men mourn the end of the relationship when they are alone in their room staring at the ceiling
I admit it.I should have been more straight forward but I wanted the luxury of saving my feelings. It wasn't right but it's done now. I would and have handled things better.
Truth still hurts boo boo
It does but I didn't drop out of a perfect relationship. I dropped out of 2 relationships that were not healthy. It was for the best although it could have been handled better.
People go through up's and downs sometimes it takes years to figure out, with this particular situation it doesn't make any sense to drop someone that you've been invested in for 10 years and married to for 1 because your feelings start to change. SHE GOT MARRIED, it still would have sucked if they were just dating but at least it would have been dating.
Marriage is a pretty big deal ( too me at least) so to make a vow to someone and then just up and change your mind? Nahhh you shouldn't get to do that. I think if you choose to marry someone you have a obligation to make it work, and outside of cheating or abuse then it should be a life long thing.
Im like Noah I know what's coming and been warming dudes but they laugh and call me bitter
No one said you were wrong for leaving.
However the way you did is selfish, which is the point I try to get across. Instead of when you first felt the feelings to say sorry it's over. You had to emotional withdrawal so you don't have to go through the pain of the breakup alone.
You still get the companionship, the love, the sex, the flattering words the ego boost all while drifting away.
Then when your ok ans no longer care anymore and the ties have been severed well see ya.
In essence you wasted weeks even months of those dudes lives when they could have met someone else or got over you.
However the way you did is selfish, which is the point I try to get across. Instead of when you first felt the feelings to say sorry it's over. You had to emotional withdrawal so you don't have to go through the pain of the breakup alone.
You still get the companionship, the love, the sex, the flattering words the ego boost all while drifting away.
Then when your ok ans no longer care anymore and the ties have been severed well see ya.
In essence you wasted weeks even months of those dudes lives when they could have met someone else or got over you.
Who!?
Who?
Tropical Fantasy
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Yeah women tend to get emotionally prepared before a break up but men tend to wander around completely oblivious to the health of their relationship even when directly confronted with the issue.
Rarely to break ups just come out of nowhere.