having that Roster will keep you from curling in the corner crying whenever your chick leaves you.The roster doesn't have to be an active roster, but it should be there as a check and balance.
Emeli Sande divorces husband after one year
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having that Roster will keep you from curling in the corner crying whenever your chick leaves you.The roster doesn't have to be an active roster, but it should be there as a check and balance.
StickStickly
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Get mad about an event that happened in someone else's life brehs
We won't know what really happened on that relationship. Her words are really vague. She kept repeating that "things happened". That could mean anything but since they've been exclusive all through their twenties I'm guessing someone cheated.
We won't know what really happened on that relationship. Her words are really vague. She kept repeating that "things happened". That could mean anything but since they've been exclusive all through their twenties I'm guessing someone cheated.
Ah the women can never be wrong brigade has appeared
Nah she aint
GiGi
Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981
A biracial woman is getting a divorce from her white husband. This was seen as threadworthy? You guys are so damn insecure.
Cuz shes not being honest about it...Just say it was a mistake and you dont wish to be married youd rather keep ur options open...
Did you read her BS diatribe ? Dont be dense my dude,our worlds were drifting apart lol,its unfair of me trying to fit his life into mine...
Do you not know BS when you read it ?
Thats classic im getting out but softly blaming myself intellectually to soften the blow so we may stay friends type shyt...
If this dude was smart he'd cut her off altogether....friends for 17 years,agrees to marriage then bullshyts like that after a year and tries the George Costanza "its not you its me"
mcdivit85
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The roster doesn't have to be an active roster, but it should be there as a check and balance.
Exactly. As I said, options doesn't necessarily mean having chicks you're dating behind your chick's back. But it's about staying on game, so chicks are still choosing while you are with your chick.
This does two things:
- gives the dude reassurance that other women are down and that he can catch more and better women if the relationship doesn't work
- keeps his chick on her toes knowing that other women see her dude and wouldn't mind taking her spot
The power of options is real like the law of gravity. Fear of being replaced has kept many a woman in pocket.
Peace
Brandon M.
City of Angels
who? never heard of her.yall nikkas trippin...i know demi lovato tho
QUOTE="Atlrocafella, post: 10878569, member: 52"] having that Roster will keep you from curling in the corner crying whenever your chick leaves you.
The roster doesn't have to be an active roster, but it should be there as a check and balance.[/QUOTE]
Thats the truth,you can care for a woman even love a woman but she aint your blood and you can never completely trust even ur wife to not flip even after 10-20 years,it happens way too much...i seen dudes get taken down by womens who was down for so long who just got "bored" one day...
Always keep that safety net....
having that Roster will keep you from curling in the corner crying whenever your chick leaves you.The roster doesn't have to be an active roster, but it should be there as a check and balance.[/QUOTE]
Thats the truth,you can care for a woman even love a woman but she aint your blood and you can never completely trust even ur wife to not flip even after 10-20 years,it happens way too much...i seen dudes get taken down by womens who was down for so long who just got "bored" one day...
Always keep that safety net....
Smooth one with the first dude since your plan worked...but probably also more confusing for him than anything else.As much as I'd hate to admit it I have emotionally withdrawn from 2 relationships prior to breaking up.
The first one he and I could not get along. The relationship really had no future but he didn't want to let it go. He is pretty crazy about me but our personalities just didn't go together. I didn't want to break up with him b/c I knew he loved me. So I just started doing shyt so he wouldn't want to be with me ie pretend to get mad at shyt that I wasn't mad about or just start arguments for no reason. He eventually had enough and broke up with me. I played the roll so well. I even cried and told him I was so sorry. Then he wanted to get back together a week later and I was like "No I think it's for the best." He was so confused. This was like 7 or 8 years ago and I just saw him 8 months ago and he told me that he will always love me and I broke his heart.It sucks b/c I did all that so that he would feel okay about the break up. Damned it you do. Damned if you don't.
With the second guy, we just had fundamental lifestyle differences. Hanging out was cool for awhile but all he ever wanted to do was sit on the sofa and watch basketball. He never wanted to try anything new. I do remember just sitting on the couch with him one day. I looked at the TV, looked at him, looked at the TV and then looked at him and thought "if I stay with this dude this is all my life will ever be; sitting on the coach watching TV. " I don't even like TV. At that point, I began to check out. But not too long after that I found out he was cheating. I was hurt but also kind of relieved b/c I had an out. He cried and said he would never do it again blah blah. I told him we could be friends b/c honestly I wasn't completely checked out yet. Over the course of a few months we decided to "work on our relationship" in reality I was just getting him out of my system. Then the day came when I was ready to let him go and I told him that I wasn't interested in friendship or anything else. He literally broke down and cried and told me he thought we were getting back together and he had been working hard to make things right but I had no sympathy in my heart for him.I didn't talk to him for a year or 2 after that day until he hit me with an email saying he missed me blah blah blah. I didn't even respond.
Damn I was cold.
Going forward I would handle both situations differently.
But yo I'm curious about this post of yours brehette! What exactly do you mean that you would've handled the situations differently? What exactly do you wish you had done differently, and why would you do it differently?
Also, what exactly do you mean by "getting him out of your system"? What would've prevented you from getting him out of your system if you had just dumped him and not taken him back again?
1. It is (was) her Husband.
2. Marriage changes the game so she shouldn't have wasted dude's time knowing what she was getting into without calculating the cost of her fame
3. Her dude thought he could lock down a rising pop-star by being an average dude and thats maybe his fault but it doesn't remove the line of bullshyt she tried to justify how she did dude.
I KNOW dude is distraught by that shyt. He's out here basically working as a life scientist and she's out here living it up knowing he couldn't have done anything to change the situation
reading this shyt is infuriating because you see it happen all the time. Chicks try to be straight politicians about their fukkery when they get out of relationships.Cuz shes not being honest about it...Just say it was a mistake and you dont wish to be married youd rather keep ur options open...
Did you read her BS diatribe ? Dont be dense my dude,our worlds were drifting apart lol,its unfair of me trying to fit his life into mine...
Do you not know BS when you read it ?
Thats classic im getting out but softly blaming myself intellectually to soften the blow so we may stay friends type shyt...
If this dude was smart he'd cut her off altogether....friends for 17 years,agrees to marriage then bullshyts like that after a year and tries the George Costanza "its not you its me"
its insulting to the umpteenth degree
With all due respect, we need to get out of someone else's personal business. We dont know what went out in their day to day life, and what inspired the breakup. I dont think anyone is the bad person here, and Im not interested in starting a gofundme acct. for the dude in question. You're not promised an everlasting relationship in life.
And not saying you specifically, but niccas around here arent being on the level, because they love stories where men do females dirty or are HOH so to speak...Yeah, relationships come with risk, and nobody wants to be vulnerable but hence is life. Cant keep posting stories like this Either curl up in a ball scared of the world, or you go out and live.