You would assume dude cheated on her
But naah
She just got bored
But naah
She just got bored
Emeli Sande divorces husband after one year
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Actually the male gut picks it up, but if you ask is anything wrong you'll get a smile and everything is fine. As well the disease of hope overides the male gut and as well no way shed ever do that thoughts cloud as well.
I was once oblivious but not anymore, once I get that feeling I don't have to ask the captain why the plane is going down I already got my parachute and I'm ejecting .
And this always has led to women popping up whether weeks or months after trying to manipulate me to come back etc. Because they never got the satisfaction of ending things with me on their term
to bad brehettes
I was once oblivious but not anymore, once I get that feeling I don't have to ask the captain why the plane is going down I already got my parachute and I'm ejecting .
And this always has led to women popping up whether weeks or months after trying to manipulate me to come back etc. Because they never got the satisfaction of ending things with me on their term
to bad brehettesYeah women tend to get emotionally prepared before a break up but men tend to wander around completely oblivious to the health of their relationship even when directly confronted with the issue.Rarely to break ups just come out of nowhere.
Your being a little presumptuous. You keep painting the picture like it was a wonderful love feast and all of a sudden it just broke up. That wasn't the case and USUALLY isn't the case. It's a process. It's not just one day want to leave. It's more like:
Day1: *thinks* I am so tired of arguing.
Day 5: *thinks & tells him* I am REALLY tired of arguing. He says we'll do better
day 10: *Nothing changes*
Day 15: *thinks* I might want to break up. *tells him* I am still tired of arguing
Day 20: *nothing changes* *thinks* I want to break but I feel bad. Maybe I should stick it out
Day 25: *tells him* The arguing is stressing me out
Day 30: *Nothing changes* *completely over the situaion and breaks up*
Now the second guy, sure, I stung him along but
You can call me selfish all day on that one. Revenge is a bytch.
They probably spent so much money on you, based on your expectations in relationships in these threads.I admit it.I should have been more straight forward but I wanted the luxury of saving my feelings. It wasn't right but it's done now. I would and have handled things better.
You ate pretty good while waiting to get ready to end the relationship.
But that's none of my business.
Actually the male gut picks it up, but if you ask is anything wrong you'll get a smile and everything is fine. As well the disease of hope overides the male gut and as well no way shed ever do that thoughts cloud as well.
I was once oblivious but not anymore, once I get that feeling I don't have to ask the captain why the plane is going down I already got my parachute and I'm ejecting .
And this always has led to women popping up whether weeks or months after trying to manipulate me to come back etc. Because they never got the satisfaction of ending things with me on their term
I can't be mad at that.
ThatTruth777
Superstar
dude thought he had a loyal one 
They probably spent so much money on you, based on your expectations in relationships in these threads.
You ate pretty good while waiting to get ready to end the relationship.
But that's none of my business.
Well...I don't recall.
I said you were right breaking up with them. However stringing em along as you heal from the decision you are going to make is selfish.
And many women do it, its why dudes always can't fathom
Wah we were together for 5 yeses she left and not even a week later she's with a new guy.
When she checked out months ago and was eyeing the new guy but dropped dem thangs when your stock fell a dollar.
See as a man if I'm not feeling a chick I'll tell her right away this isn't working.
I'm not afraid to be by myself nor do I have to be totally over her emotionally or have someone new set up to tree branch
And many women do it, its why dudes always can't fathom
Wah we were together for 5 yeses she left and not even a week later she's with a new guy.
When she checked out months ago and was eyeing the new guy but dropped dem thangs when your stock fell a dollar.
See as a man if I'm not feeling a chick I'll tell her right away this isn't working.
I'm not afraid to be by myself nor do I have to be totally over her emotionally or have someone new set up to tree branch
Your being a little presumptuous. You keep painting the picture like it was a wonderful love feast and all of a sudden it just broke up. That wasn't the case and USUALLY isn't the case. It's a process. It's not just one day want to leave. It's more like:
Day1: *thinks* I am so tired of arguing.
Day 5: *thinks & tells him* I am REALLY tired of arguing. He says we'll do better
day 10: *Nothing changes*
Day 15: *thinks* I might want to break up. *tells him* I am still tired of arguing
Day 20: *nothing changes* *thinks* I want to break but I feel bad. Maybe I should stick it out
Day 25: *tells him* The arguing is stressing me out
Day 30: *Nothing changes* *completely over the situaion and breaks up*
Now the second guy, sure, I stung him along but
mcdivit85
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I feel ya, and I'm not trying to clown. But dudes need to realize that what you type is how it goes down in some cases. Dudes thinking an argument is just an argument. Or her schedule just all of the sudden got crazy and she has less time to see him. Or all the sudden her mobile network started acting janky and calls/texts were missed.
When dudes don't pay attention to those signs when they start to become recurring, then dudes will be left scratching their head as their chick hits them with the "we need to talk" after everything seems normal.
Not saying chicks don't get hit with the okey doke too. But most times with dudes, there's a lead up to us handing you them papers.
Peace
Fair enough. Again I never said it was right. I am just saying that it usually doesn't come out of nowhere.
True.
mcdivit85
Superstar
Plus, dudes would be less hard pressed if they had a strong number two and three on the team. Losing a chick is f#cked up....but it feels better being able to be mad over a chick's crib.
Besides, at least if a woman leaves you for cheating, you know why. And you can still feel ok because you have other chicks.
What's even more is that you have a better chance of keeping her as the dude whose cheating on her than the dude that's sweating her.
Moral of the story - Dudes, keep some options on the table
Peace
Besides, at least if a woman leaves you for cheating, you know why. And you can still feel ok because you have other chicks.
What's even more is that you have a better chance of keeping her as the dude whose cheating on her than the dude that's sweating her.
Moral of the story - Dudes, keep some options on the table
Peace
Or you can be content without a woman. I don't juggle chicks nor care to have a roster. But I'm not afraid or cutting any woman out of my life or ejecting from a relationship.
I say Get to that point of not giving a damn if she leaves and never being afraid to leave regardless if that means your phone won't ring, or you won't get sex.
II know its hard for many brehs so maybe they will take your stance I dont judge. But above all hold your respect and dignity over any chick regardless of her beauty or the sex she offers.
