Dude ordered to pay $50,000 for breaking engagement.

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how about the spouse that can afford to pay for the kids keeps them? thats fair right? or is fair the man having to come out of his pockets to basically pay for a bum?

I doubts he wants to keep the kids.

Who would look after them while he is at work? Daycare? Makes more since for the person who has been caring for them everyday to keep them and he pay her rather than send them to daycare.
 

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I doubts he wants to keep the kids.

where does this doubt come from? oh yea, im so sure men love having women raise their children to resent them. :rudy:

Who would look after them while he is at work? Daycare? Makes more since for the person who has been caring for them everyday to keep them and he pay her rather than send them to daycare.

the woman is going to have to get a job eventually, same questions apply except she doesnt have the same resources.
 

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Your right. He had children and decided he wanted their mother to stay at home and raise them so now he has to "suffer the consequences."

So you think she deserves an extra 50K on top of child support just because dude decided he didn't want marry her? You can't be this spiteful.

:what:
 

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It's incredible to me that you're missing the obvious and most appropriate third option here, but I guess that's feminism for ya.

What is that? That she get a job. Nothing is stopping her but that doesn't she is going to get one right away or that she can even qualify for a job that is enough to support her and her children.

So you think men should just have kids and then stop supporting them b/c they find some new booty? Ya'll amaze me.
 

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or that she can even qualify for a job that is enough to support her and her children.
sounds like her problem to figure out. once again, equality, why do we keep ignoring equality when it matters most? go out there and earn just like a man would have to. better yet, how about putting her in jail for not being able to support her kids
 

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So you think she deserves an extra 50K on top of child support just because dude decided he didn't want marry her? You can't be this spiteful.

:what:

Spiteful? So you think that you should be able to lie and miss lead people as much as you want without any consequences? It is not about being spiteful. He left her severally disadvantage and he needs to be make up for that. Even a job will give you unemployment for over a year when they let you go but he gets to walk away from a breach contract unscathed?
 

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Pardon my appearance of simping, but you act like it'd be easy to find a job with a 10 year gap in employment history and two kids to take care of. Some of you cats take #HOH to the absurd.

And you act like it is an impossibility and resigning herself to live off the welfare of either the state or her ex is the only possibility.
 

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sounds like her problem to figure out. once again, equality, why do we keep ignoring equality when it matters most? go out there and earn just like a man would have to. better yet, how about putting her in jail for not being able to support her kids

Like I said to the last poster, even a job gives you unemployment when they let you go without cause. He employed her as housewife so now he has to pay her unemployment.
 

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What is that? That she get a job. Nothing is stopping her but that doesn't she is going to get one right away or that she can even qualify for a job that is enough to support her and her children.

Then the children should live with their father if the mother can't support them. Common sense for $100, Alex.

So you think men should just have kids and then stop supporting them b/c they find some new booty? Ya'll amaze me.

Go ahead and link me to where I said this.
 

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Like I said to the last poster, even a job gives you unemployment when they let you go without cause. He employed her as housewife so now he has to pay her unemployment.
employed her? :bryan: good god i'm beginning to really hate some of you women :wow:
 

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Then the children should live with their father if the mother can't support them. Common sense for $100, Alex.



Go ahead and link me to where I said this.

So he should pay a daycare to look after the children instead of paying her to look after children who they agreed would be looked after in the home? Her children should be taken away from her b/c daddy is a lying whore? And who says he even wants the kids?
 

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So he should pay a daycare to look after the children instead of paying her to look after children who they agreed would be looked after in the home? Her children should be taken away from her b/c daddy is a lying whore?

Depends on what's in the best interest of the children. I'd argue that living with the parent who has resources and spending 8 hours a day at day care would be better for the children than living with a parent who has no money for food, housing, clothing, medicine, or education. And you seem to have no problem with the children being taken away from him, at all.

And who says he even wants the kids?

Why wouldn't he?
 
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