Dr. Umar blames Professional Black Men for abandoning the black community

[Umoja]

A lot of cats in this thread think y’all are members of the talented tenth, news flash you aren’t . Some of y’all aren’t even middle class, but you’re jumping on the chance to speak for cats that are. The lack of self awareness from posters who admit they’re broke in one thread, always trying to find a way to make it and then in the next pretend like they’re in the 1 percent is sad,but hilarious. I can tell a lot of y’all parents were middle class and y’all have some perverted mindset that y’all still and have the need to look down on someone so y’all gaze towards the “hood” when most of you are in the same boat as them

What the fukk are you talking about

Negged for being a clown.

 

[skylove4]

What the fukk are you talking about

Negged for being a clown.

 

[RTF]

Been saying this for years. Every other people build up their own. We the only ones that run and then blame the rappers and athletes.

Middle class black ppl love being second class citizens in other people’s spaces instead of first in their own. News got ppl afraid to go outside in they own hood.

For example. I tell middle class dikk riders that young black children are better off learning music from DAWs before actual instruments because it makes them more literate about their environment. Instruments are great, but young black children should start with DAWs first. These middle class black ppl start crying about instruments they don’t even know how to play just to dikk ride the greater middle class culture

What’s DAW?

 

[africngiant]

 

[Will Ross]

Right, and I agree with this.

The problem is that a lot of people spread the OPPOSITE idea. That's what causes the frustration within a lot of young men now.

They grew up being told that looks do not matter at all and women ONLY care about personality. Even so called redpill dudes spread a similar message "women are into bad boys".

The media is the biggest perpetrator of this with all of those movies and sitcoms where some below average lovable loser gets the hot girl.

On thecoli I'm constantly arguing with folks who wholeheartedly believe that women don't care about looks.

When it comes to getting women it’s your status and personality that matters.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

When it comes to getting women it’s your status and personality that matters.

Status can matter.

Personality absolutely does not matter.

And to deny how much looks matter is delusional. How much more proof do you guys need?

 

[Taadow]

Point is... people are a mixed bag. The goal is to find one, ONE person who loves you, finds you attractive, and you settle the fukk down and start a family. There re plenty of black women out here who are nothing like you say they are. Plenty.

Oh word? That's the goal?

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

More than single mothers.
More than rappers.
More than the gang-bangers.
More than pro athletes.
Not even if you have a black wife.



Timestampped at the 1 hour mark.

What a clown clown lol.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Right, and I agree with this.

The problem is that a lot of people spread the OPPOSITE idea. That's what causes the frustration within a lot of young men now.

They grew up being told that looks do not matter at all and women ONLY care about personality. Even so called redpill dudes spread a similar message "women are into bad boys".

The media is the biggest perpetrator of this with all of those movies and sitcoms where some below average lovable loser gets the hot girl.

On thecoli I'm constantly arguing with folks who wholeheartedly believe that women don't care about looks.

"you just need game" and "looks don't matter" are the two BIGGEST LIES in the dating game

 

[Somebody]

What’s DAW?

A digital audio workspace like ableton, protools, fruity loops, and logic. It’s used to produce music.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Facts, it's done on this forum as well. I came on here to connect with cats but now post maybe once a quarter because of that same reason as soon as talk about shyt im called a bootlicker.

This year will probably be even less. I'm good!

Smh, why? We need men like you to share game

 

[Will Ross]

Status can matter.

Personality absolutely does not matter.

And to deny how much looks matter is delusional. How much more proof do you guys need?

most of us fit into the avg looking category.
that is why status and personality comes into play.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

most of us fit into the avg looking category.
that is why status and personality comes into play.

Sure most of us are average looking.

And guess what? Most women still want a man above them in looks.

So, what ends up happening is that the men on the bottom have no one because the women on their level are still shooting upwards.

And somewhere along the line women are sharing men who are above them.

 

[TallMan_J]

Black middle class men are his main supporters.

Not anymore.


If you’ve ever donated a dime to this clown, you’re a fool. You’re a bigger fool if you continue or start to donate to this scamming grifter now.

 

[V Skyye]

Sure most of us are average looking.

And guess what? Most women still want a man above them in looks.

So, what ends up happening is that the men on the bottom have no one because the women on their level are still shooting upwards.

And somewhere along the line women are sharing men who are above them.

Most average women are third string for an attractive man. Meaning they not passing up dates and relationships for a monthly midnight smash session with an attractive man. So they will definitely take a relationship with a person who is on their level looks wise and personality wise. It’s crazy to me that men and women complain about the exact same thing dating wise… I don’t know what the solution is. Maybe going back to the days people were outside more and consuming less internet and media? I don’t know