Dr. Umar blames Professional Black Men for abandoning the black community

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Nope. Being honest =/= negative. I know my strengths and I know my weaknesses.

I just hate the dangerous lies that guys like yourself spread.
A brother that is probably uglier than you can get women, but that man is telling dangerous lies to you? It is almost like you prefer your misery than trying to actually find a solution for it. If that is the case, then I will leave you to it.
 

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These dudes have no solutions, thats why there is HUGE uproar for black men that the community has deemed "lame incels" to stay home. Like if you really think that lowly of them, let them go.

And everyone has this mentality to think that in order to "live life" you gotta have mad dysfunction, have OoW kids, be broke at numerous points, and be outdoors in the club often as a measurement to be seen.
 

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A brother that is probably uglier than you can get women, but that man is telling dangerous lies to you? It is almost like you prefer your misery than trying to actually find a solution for it. If that is the case, then I will leave you to it.
No one said ugly guys can't get women...

The lie that I'm referring to is that ANY guy can get ANY woman through "game" and "mouthpiece".
 

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You see it. :lolbron: It is obscene how blatant they are with it now. He is literally saying you did the right thing, well in black community you are rewarded with no respect and here is a single mom with multiple baby daddies for your troubles. I guess he got marching orders to get black men back on plantation and now working overtime to use shame, insults, guilt to make it happen. This dude exposed he been compromised, he just showed his hand fully

Red Pill ans Kevin Samuels deaded the shaming altogether.
 

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Im looking up a episode of Good Times rignt now where they touched on this. It was from 1975.. But yeah, we had black:

Dentist
Doctors
Lawyers
corner stores
grocery stores
gas stations

And "brothers" robbed each and every last one of them. And called them c00ns and sellouts as they ran to protect themselves and their families.. Nikkas think you supposed to sit back and let them treat you any kind of way. Mfers are reall, really, really sick in the head.

Because the messaging grassroots is, the criminal is a tragic villain of white supremacy and they are the "warriors" of the Black Community aka freedom fighter
 

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Try a likable personality and an ounce of self confidence.

Maybe if those guys found that, then maybe they could attract a wife and continue building community around the black nuclear family.
Literally every woman I've ever come across gave me compliments on my personality and confidence.

They straight up tell me that they just don't find me physically, facially attractive enough to have sex with.

The ones that DO want to have sex with me, also happen to find me attractive.

See, the problem really is that women, black women especially, put physical attractiveness over everything else.

I've seen women constantly take care of BUMS because he was "cute". The community would be in a better place if women ACTUALLY cared about a man's finances like they claim they do on social media.
 

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Yea KS taking the crude talking points and remixing and refining for masses was something no one saw coming.. Crazy play

He changed the game FOREVER, like COVID did.

All Umar is doing is being late to the party and still thinking its 2016 where the feminist had all the social leverage ans power.
 

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He's blaming "lames". Which is odd because the lame dudes are not out here getting a bunch of women pregnant and abandoning their kids.

shyt is weird to blame "lames" or incels. These are not the nikkas women in the 'tah are choosing.

Even the likes of Umar is putting unfair amounts of pressure on black professionals working 9 to 5 and not the bum brehs with social clout ans physical attraction
 

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Remember up to about the 80s the hierarchy

It was
Professional hard working black man— black men working in manufacturing plants, auto industry at Chrysler and ford, etc and other positions

Follow by
Black women, black kid and the communities was good, yards had grass, and the community was where black families would look out for each other and beat the other kids asses

Now its
Black Women
Black kids
Thedrugdealers/ballers/athletes/entertainer
Gays/lesbians
Dogs
And professional black men last

And you see how the neighborhoods are today in that order.. or should I say out of order

Everyday I look up I see professional black men try to help young boys, but these young boys rather here info from ex cons /gang members etc etc

Our own women even if they are your co workers look at u as a lame and they shacking up with a ex con .. I see it plenty of times and they at work complaining about the nikka not working

Professional black men always take accountability for our actions right or wrong, but everyone else n the community throw blame
Sad but true.

Professional black men are considered lame by virtually everyone. Entertainment and social media done rotten the brains of the Black youth and anyone under the age of 45.
 

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Literally every woman I've ever come across gave me compliments on my personality and confidence.

They straight up tell me that they just don't find me physically, facially attractive enough to have sex with.

The ones that DO want to have sex with me, also happen to find me attractive.

See, the problem really is that women, black women especially, put physical attractiveness over everything else.

I've seen women constantly take care of BUMS because he was "cute". The community would be in a better place if women ACTUALLY cared about a man's finances like they claim they do on social media.
There are women who don't care about a man's finances.

There are women who only care about a man's finances.

There are women who won't date a guy unless he has a 6-pack

There are women who like big guys

There are women who like short guys

There are women who only like tall guys

On the flip side...

There are men who only like short women

Men who only like tall women

Men who like big women

Men who won't date a woman unless she's 90 lbs. soaking wet or lighter

Men who are colorstruck and date racist white women.

Point is... people are a mixed bag. The goal is to find one, ONE person who loves you, finds you attractive, and you settle the fukk down and start a family. There re plenty of black women out here who are nothing like you say they are. Plenty.
 

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There are women who don't care about a man's finances.

There are women who only care about a man's finances.

There are women who won't date a guy unless he has a 6-pack

There are women who like big guys

There are women who like short guys

There are women who only like tall guys

On the flip side...

There are men who only like short women

Men who only like tall women

Men who like big women

Men who won't date a woman unless she's 90 lbs. soaking wet or lighter

Men who are colorstruck and date racist white women.

Point is... people are a mixed bag. The goal is to find one, ONE person who loves you, finds you attractive, and you settle the fukk down and start a family. There re plenty of black women out here who are nothing like you say they are. Plenty.

Maybe I generalized a bit, but it is true that most women prioritize looks (face not body or height). Some do it to different degrees of course.

Aside from my experiences with THOUSANDS of women, scientific studies have proven it.

That's the main reason behind some guys having a hard time out here. You're correct about just having to find ONE.. It's just that some guys don't have it in them to be on that journey forever and become disillusioned. It's even harder on them when they keep getting told it's because of vague shyt like "game" and "mouthpiece".
 
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