Most average women are third string for an attractive man. Meaning they not passing up dates and relationships for a monthly midnight smash session with an attractive man. So they will definitely take a relationship with a person who is on their level looks wise and personality wise. It’s crazy to me that men and women complain about the exact same thing dating wise… I don’t know what the solution is. Maybe going back to the days people were outside more and consuming less internet and media? I don’t know