Thats the fame that do that not the money bruh
With money comes fame though, unless you don't buy stuff that cost a lot, and I mean ANYTHING. Just having the best weed all the time, will make people notice you.
I had money before,and saw how people treat you as opposed to when you didn't have it. When you go to the store, and buy clothes in the afternoon when everyone is working, and you buy all this name brand shyt, you will get noticed, and asked "what do you do"?.
When you drive a car, that is CLEAN, and no one else in the area drives something like that, you will be noticed, and get fame. When you are smoking on the best herb, know all about it, and no one else has it, you will be noticed. Now combine all of this, and you be famous in your area making unwarranted attention. The best thing to do is move to an area where people have money like you, and buy things that aren't flashy for that area so you can blend in. The only people who will know you have money is your family, BUT they will wants some, and talk shyt about you when you say NO. If you let it be known you will fight them, or shyt on them verbally, they will be nice to you out of fear, but they will still talk shyt behind your back.
The only thing you can do is live life, and stay low key. The jewelry, high end clothes, high quality weed smoking constantly around people, carrying large amounts of cash, giving money out to friends/family, and driving flashy cars, has to stop or will have problems with the law, stick up kids, and chicks looking to use you. You can still have these things, but you have to do it in a smarter way. For instance instead of a 600 benz with rims, you get a regular Audi A8. Most people don't look at that car too tough, unless they know cars, and all women know about is a benz or bmw, when they think RICH money. Or you have a regular car when driving through certain neighborhoods when you are going to see your people. Instead of big jewelry, you get a nice ring. Just having a shyt load of money is what gives you that confidence you want, so there is no need to tell others. Trust me they will soon find out, if they are always around you.