Do You Respect Women That Have Had Abortions

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Personally, I don't believe in birth control unless its rape or the health of the baby and/or mother is compromised. However I do believe that it should be the woman's choice.

Think about it: All the women yall know with these multiple abortions, would you really want a woman like that raising a child?

I'd rather a teenage hoe get five abortions than have her raising five babies.

If having an abortion was a death sentence for you, would you be more responsible?
 

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LMAO at wifing a man. :pachaha:

But no. I had the opportunity some years ago and backed off with the quickness.

So the baby killer is cool, the baby lover is not qualified. Would you say money is the primary motivation for women to murder their unborn seeds?
 

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Nope.
honestly i dont believe in abortions but i dont look down on the one's that had them either that is their choice

but let me tell u something this is a true story and it happened too me

the first girl i fell in love got preggo right and she didnt want too keep it and i told her i wanted too i'll raise that kid u dont even have to worry bout it i'll always be their for my kid no matter even if ur not involved

she was still against it but finally cave in

a month later she called me at home saying she is bleeding everywhere cuz she fell on her stomach at work and had to go too hospital and ended having to terminate the baby they said

i was heartbroken but what made it worse was she told me a few weeks later that she didnt fall she hit her stomach really hard cuz she didnt want to carry a baby around for 9 months its her body not mines regardless of how good of a father i was :to:

i have never forgotten that day at all and this happened in 2002 and it was close to my bday when it happened :sadbron:

:wow:

That's fukking disgusting. How does she sleep at night?
 
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Its more respectable for a woman to have a child and give him or her to a relative/adoption then it is to murder the child. Women act like they're doing a child a favor by killing it as if they have the childs entire life of failure already mapped out.

Julius Caesar was an orphan.

What's respectable is subjective, depending on who you ask. I won't argue with you on whether or not abortion is wrong; we clearly have differing opinions on it.
There are over 400,000 children in the U.S. foster care system. About 25 percent of those children are waiting for adoption and permanent placement. That's over 100,000 children in need of a permanent home. The average age of a foster child is just over 9 and the average time a child spends in the system is over two years.
http://www.adoption.org/adopt/child-adoption-statistics.php
You make a lot of assumptions about what options people have (give him or her to a relative/adoption). Where were the relatives of "over 400,000 children in the U.S. foster care system" when they were being given up for adoption?

Let's also not forget folks are aborting their children after they're born.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/30/sierra-mcmillan-manslaughter-baby-bathtub_n_3187537.html?utm_hp_ref=crime#comments

You seem to view life through rose colored lenses!
It's like women are damned if we do and damned if we don't. If we have the kids we're irresponsible, whores. If we get an abortion, we're selfish, heartless whores.
PREACH!!!
 

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I agree that an abortion is a selfish decision


say this woman smokes cigarettes, does drugs, and drinks alcohol? You'd expect this selfish person to stop doing all of that to carry a baby they didn't want in the first place? :usure:

I see. I think women with the balls to murder their children are a different breed of woman. A demonic breed. Theres a stat that says 65 percent of women who didnt have abortions wish they had one, after the fact. A woman with a child, still wishing her baby was dead. Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:

But these are the women you all respect and want to wife. Is it getting hot in here? :whew:
 
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i respect them more than young single mothers

Thank you being truthful!

You can't have it both ways guys! You can't bash single mothers, and in the same breath bash women who've had an abortion. (I said AN abortion! I do not believe in using abortion as a means of birth control! I believe in responsible procreation!)

Most of these comments are exactly why men should have little to NO say when it comes to a woman's bodies.
 

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Nope.
So the baby killer is cool, the baby lover is not qualified. Would you say money is the primary motivation for women to murder their unborn seeds?

:beli:

Just because a man has 3 kids does NOT mean he's a baby lover. Sometimes it means he's irresponsible; that was my situation.

Money has never been the primary motivation for any abortions I've been told about; it was either a) they weren't ready, b) they weren't sure who the father was, or c) they didn't want a child with the person they were pregnant for. I'm sure it is a factor for some other women who opt for an abortion.
 
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I agree that adoption is a better option, but everyone's situation is different. A woman may have serious health risks that can come with a pregnancy or other issues.

I just think its easy for us as men to say what they should do and to judge them despite the fact we would never have to go through that or be put in that situation...

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What's respectable is subjective, depending on who you ask. I won't argue with you on whether or not abortion is wrong; we clearly have differing opinions on it.
http://www.adoption.org/adopt/child-adoption-statistics.php
You make a lot of assumptions about what options people have (give him or her to a relative/adoption). Where were the relatives of "over 400,000 children in the U.S. foster care system" when they were being given up for adoption?

Let's also not forget folks are aborting their children after they're born.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/30/sierra-mcmillan-manslaughter-baby-bathtub_n_3187537.html?utm_hp_ref=crime#comments

You seem to view life through rose colored lenses!

PREACH!!!
One day, those children will no longer be children and will become adults with the ability to establish careers for themselves, if they choose to do so. They are still being taken care of, in foster, homes. Its better to be alive, than to be dead. I guess not only do women feel its their body so they should kill the baby but also think the childs life and soul belong to them as well so the child should die to save them from first world poverty, which is basically not bad.
 

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99-99.5 percent of all abortions pose no health risk to the mother. You gotta start looking at the devil as your enemy, instead of your friend, friend. :sitdown:

Well I meant the pregancy moreso than the abortion

But at the end of the day, if you get with a chick who has had multiple abortions and she tells you she has had none how would you know?

You probably wouldn't, most chicks aren't going to willing tell anyone that. And we know guys would rather be with a female with no kids then females that has a kid so thats probably why alot of females have them especially younger females....

Chances are a female who gets an abortion isn't married so having sex out of wedlock is already a sin, so I'm not sure why you would judge a chick who has an abortion any harshly than you do a female who has premartial sex and has the child
 

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Just because a man has 3 kids does NOT mean he's a baby lover. Sometimes it means he's irresponsible; that was my situation.

Money has never been the primary motivation for any abortions I've been told about; it was either a) they weren't ready, b) they weren't sure who the father was, or c) they didn't want a child with the person they were pregnant for. I'm sure it is a factor for some other women who opt for an abortion.

When women speak on not being ready they're typically talking about careers, and not being where they want to be Financially to warrant keeping their childs life. The child will become an inconvenience to their broke life. This is why the state makes abortions so readily available because they dont want to take care of these children either so the state gives you a clinical way to murder your child so the responsibility doesnt fall on tax payers. But with 45 percent of women being repeat baby killers, its obvious they have no respect for themselves, life nor have the responsibility required to curb the behavior that got them into the situation.

This brings me back to my thread title? You respect these women? Men, should wife these women? The men seem to be saying that women with multiple abortions are demons.

How many years removed should a woman be from her abortions before shes deemed wifeable?
 
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