Sure thing sis!
For all the accolades the pure wand receives, theres definitely a learning curve when it comes to actually the thing. The first few times, I was pretty disappointed (and my arms were tired lol)
For me, I find it works best when Im completely relaxed, and have plenty of time set aside. Its not like the Hitachi, where its like 'Wham Bam, Thank You Ma'am' in and out in a few minutes lol. I also recommend laying on top of a blanket, and using the bathroom beforehand. The wand is known to be ideal for squirting, and nothing kills your mood faster than feeling like you're about to pee on yourself lol
One of the biggest things that helped me is to get really warmed up first, like you can't be kinda-sorta horny. The g spot I find is kinda shy, like its doesn't like to be played with right out the gate, so I like to use the Lelo Mona 2 (
) or my fingers, to kinda get myself going. I find that that the pure wand works best while laying flat on my back, and using the bigger end, with the smaller side pointing down toward my belly button (or you could do the reverse, but I think the sensation is better with the bigger end). Then push it in until the smaller end is pointing up, then doing shallow quick thrusts, in a upward motion. I can't really orgasm off of g spotting alone, so I also recommend using a toy on your clit as well (the Mona 2 of course) while using it. I hope I helped a bit, it takes a bit of practice, as not every woman's body is the same. But once you get it you won't know how you lived so long without it
Or is that crossing the line still?
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Im not sure, we'd have to really close. Else, Id think he'd bought it but under the condition that I use it in front of him or something
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I can get shoes/scarves/clothes for less for my IRL brehettes.
This combo...Jesus
