Do you have a friend or acquaintance you don't invite out places because of insecurity?

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Zesty ass thread aint no heterosexual man thinking like this
 

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Maybe I'm :flabbynsick: but that text exchange u close by "adding to your story" sold it to me you may be a fukk nikka..

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This was an ego stroke thread and y’all fell for it :dead:
It was an ego stroke thread that backfired. OP thought his friends wasn’t inviting him places because he was too handsome but in reality it was because he was making the women and people around him uncomfortable because of his horniness
 
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It was an ego stroke thread that backfired. OP thought his friends wasn’t inviting him places because he was too handsome but in reality it was because he was making the women and people around him uncomfortable because she of his horniness
So in that case op needed to justify his actions by being a complete weirdo :dead:
 

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Maybe I'm :flabbynsick: but that text exchange u close by "adding to your story" sold it to me you may be a fukk nikka..

Not everyone wants a hint of their private lives being published online
What? It was fb messenger, I told her I wanted to post it, she laugh reacted to it as a greenlight.


It was an ego stroke thread that backfired. OP thought his friends wasn’t inviting him places because he was too handsome but in reality it was because he was making the women and people around him uncomfortable because of his horniness
So in that case op needed to justify his actions by being a complete weirdo :dead:
Insecurities. There was real shyt discussed in this thread amongst stand-up people. Then you have the socially awkward who could only dream of having the confidence to talk to women in here hating and crackin jokes only the fellow lames take seriously. I myself have dapped some cuz the shyt funny, but couldn't be further from the truth.


Stop projecting your insecurities on others. I worked at Potbelly for 4 years, from senior year to my junior year in college, and quit on my own terms for career advancement. If I was this weirdo scaring bytches away, I would've been fired. Plot twist is the management wanted to fukk me too, but because I had no interest in them old busted broads working fast food, they'd hate when they see me getting at the fine hoes. It is what it is.




Anyways 2 month update I've been doing pretty well, joined no fap and I steer clear of the JBO and IG to avoid temptation. I noticed the more I saw sexy women basically selling sex, the more I wanted to go out there and treat all women like items that can be had. Now I'm pretty much just working and entertaining my rotation. Life is good
 

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This was an ego stroke thread and y’all fell for it :dead:
not really if you read the thread. his premise was "i'm the hot guy that takes all the women so they keep me away" but dudes told him in reality he's the guy that makes shyt awkward in rooms by being relentlessly thirsty so they avoid him around mixed company

shyt not that complicated b
 

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Be a horndog, brehs

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Yeah it really did actually. Both you and @Rawtid opened up my eyes to shyt I was too arrogant to reflect on before, with you coming from the perspective of my boys and her from the perspective of my targets. That's why I love thecoli, we say it's a lot of weird nikkas on here and while that's absolutely true there's also some solid people here to politic with and learn from.


I was out at a block party last night and all I could think about was my nikkas complaints and this thread and I was like NOPE! let me just try to chill. Went home feeling incomplete because I didn't bag anything but it was otherwise a good time. I gotta shake the feeling of "losing" whenever I don't get at women when I'm outside, because honestly I don't even feel in my element unless I'm tryna make every situation sexy :wow:



Yeah man I noticed I didn't really have this problem in college. We all was young n dumb n the mission every night was to bag a chick, and if you got multiple in the same spot you was the man. I was the king of that shyt and it only got worse when I started throwing my own parties and could bring em to my room while the shyt was still going on. Problem is my college friends wasn't my neighborhood friends so when I got back home I never really adjusted to a normal way of living. Everybody grew up now they tryna be all mature n shyt and Im still walking into every function scanning the menu like :mjlit:



I can see how people who never had this problem could take what I'm saying as though I think the shyt is cute, but nah. I've finally started to wake up and it's definitely time for a change

Repped :ehh:
 

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What? It was fb messenger, I told her I wanted to post it, she laugh reacted to it as a greenlight.




Insecurities. There was real shyt discussed in this thread amongst stand-up people. Then you have the socially awkward who could only dream of having the confidence to talk to women in here hating and crackin jokes only the fellow lames take seriously. I myself have dapped some cuz the shyt funny, but couldn't be further from the truth.


Stop projecting your insecurities on others. I worked at Potbelly for 4 years, from senior year to my junior year in college, and quit on my own terms for career advancement. If I was this weirdo scaring bytches away, I would've been fired. Plot twist is the management wanted to fukk me too, but because I had no interest in them old busted broads working fast food, they'd hate when they see me getting at the fine hoes. It is what it is.




Anyways 2 month update I've been doing pretty well, joined no fap and I steer clear of the JBO and IG to avoid temptation. I noticed the more I saw sexy women basically selling sex, the more I wanted to go out there and treat all women like items that can be had. Now I'm pretty much just working and entertaining my rotation. Life is good
Yo you’re weird dude!!! :dead:
 

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What? It was fb messenger, I told her I wanted to post it, she laugh reacted to it as a greenlight.




Insecurities. There was real shyt discussed in this thread amongst stand-up people. Then you have the socially awkward who could only dream of having the confidence to talk to women in here hating and crackin jokes only the fellow lames take seriously. I myself have dapped some cuz the shyt funny, but couldn't be further from the truth.


Stop projecting your insecurities on others. I worked at Potbelly for 4 years, from senior year to my junior year in college, and quit on my own terms for career advancement. If I was this weirdo scaring bytches away, I would've been fired. Plot twist is the management wanted to fukk me too, but because I had no interest in them old busted broads working fast food, they'd hate when they see me getting at the fine hoes. It is what it is.




Anyways 2 month update I've been doing pretty well, joined no fap and I steer clear of the JBO and IG to avoid temptation. I noticed the more I saw sexy women basically selling sex, the more I wanted to go out there and treat all women like items that can be had. Now I'm pretty much just working and entertaining my rotation. Life is good
OK, you’re Pressed I don’t care how good things are going for you. The fact that you had to explain your whole entire life story says a lot, you’re not happy… people don’t fukk with you :dead: you probably think you’re better than everyone else and I’m positive you’re fukking average. Instead of posting your problems On the colli
go sort them by speaking to a professional. Also, it’s giving spectrum vibes :wow:
 
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