Do you feel like black men respect black women enough?

[yates]

Blind support and respect is just as detrimental to black people as no support and respect at all.

If a black woman is a prostitute, I should respect her just because she's black? I would respect her about as much as a black man whose a crack head.

Respecting every black person is also giving positive reinforcement to the blacks who live lifestyles that aren't conducive to black communities and perpetuating negative behaviour.

Why the hell you think so many nikkas bang? Because bangers get respect in the hood.

Nothing wrong with acknowledging black women aren't a monilith and treating the respectable ones with respect.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Women over all dont respect the hierarchy anymore.

They feel like they dont need men in most cases because they have protect and laws in place that take care of the biggest benefit men provided for women and that is to be a protector. As for being a provider women can do that as well and better than men because of the way jobs are set up.

To go along with that we have propaganda and indoctrination taking place that tells women they dont need a man for anything.


All this is devastating to black american's way more than other races here.


Men over all are just disrespectful doesn't matter if you male or female. I'd say yes men are more disrespectful to women on a whole than other men. But not by some landslide....And for every dude out there that will call a woman out her name for no reason there's a dude out there that will

 

[MoonGoddess]

As with most things the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Both sides lack respect for reach other.

Blaming black men as a whole because self-confessed thugs had no respect for women is absurd and completely unfair.

But a lot of you guys do the same thing to women, especially black women.
No one likes to be put in a box and accused of negative attributes do to what others have done.
When a thread gets made about a hoe you guys have no issue keeping the focus on the hoe but as soon as finger is pointed towards certain men ya'll start copping pleas.
Not you per se, but in general and yes I know women are guilty of this too.
It's one of the reasons shyt will never get done, everyone plays the blame game. No one takes accountability and our time here on earth just seems to deteriorate more and more.

 

[Draje]

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Young women as a whole out preform men when it comes to jobs and education

What's your point? How does that detract from anything that I'm saying?

 

[MoonGoddess]

Blind support and respect is just as detrimental to black people as no support and respect at all.

If a black woman is a prostitute, I should respect her just because she's black? I would respect her about as much as a black man whose a crack head.

Respecting every black person is also giving positive reinforcement to the blacks who live lifestyles that aren't conducive to black communities and perpetuating negative behaviour.

Why the hell you think so many nikkas bang? Because bangers get respect in the hood.

Nothing wrong with acknowledging black women aren't a monilith and treating the respectable ones with respect.

lol but now a days even the ones living the way it seems they should get disrespected. They get called corny or lame. They get disrespected because they don't have street cred. The women get called stuck up or sidity, people say they think they are better than others. People don't respect people period.
I don't think you have to automatically give respect to everyone , but a lot of people take pride in being a$$holes. It is what it is. I've been disrespected and have disrespected.
When I was young lol, let's just say some people learn real quick that you can't just talk or treat anyone a certain way, I had to learn the hard way but some of us need those lessons.

 

[miranda]

Why should you respect us because we love and respect you.

Why did you do that? I wanted to fight.
but now I just feel all warm and fuzzy. Thank you

 

[Will Ross]

What's your point? How does that detract from anything that I'm saying?

It proves my point black women don't respect is because they are getting more money than some of us.

 

[Ness]

I can't believe nikkaz rly in here asking why shud they respect black women off GP
Dude discrediting their womens achievements and sayin the only reason they doing good is cuz the system is in their favor

U muthafukkas disgust me. I swear shyt like dis make me wanna go ahead and support our sistas that r in #teamswirl. Some of yall nikkas simply dont deserve black women.

 

[yates]

lol but now a days even the ones living the way it seems they should get disrespected. They get called corny or lame. They get disrespected because they don't have street cred. The women get called stuck up or sidity, people say they think they are better than others. People don't respect people period.
I don't think you have to automatically give respect everyone , but a lot of people take pride in being a$$holes. It is what it is. I've been disrespected and have disrespected.
When I was young lol, let's just say some people learn real quick that you can't just talk or treat anyone a certain way, I had to learn the hard way but some of us need those lessons.

Exactly, and that's the result of blacks giving positive reinforcement to negative behaviour and negative reinforcement to positive behaviour.

It's actually a big problem amongst blacks, particularly in the hood. Shyt I used to be feel the same way. Gave more respect to nikkas on my block who were banging than the men who were building their own businesses and employing blacks

I agree with you tho, it's one thing if you don't like someone, but to torment them because of it is another issue we have and contributes to the low self esteem so many of us have.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

I honestly think both sides just don't respect each other as much as they should. Both Black men and Black Women have been oppressed so much in this country that we've now resorted to oppressing each other. I've always thought a major reason why IR seems to be on the rise for us is that both sides feel they'll be treated better and appreciated more by a non-black spouse. Brothas and Sistas are not enemies, nor are we competition for one another. We're just gunna have to learn to support one another and not tear each other down.

 

[Ness]

Also I hate when muthafukkas say that just because someone doesn't necesarily know how to respect themselves, they don't deserve the bare minimum of respect from other people. That's a fukked up mentality to have.

So because a woman may be damaged inside, that gives you license to not respect her as a person and instead shyt on her existence? How exactly are we helping both our men and women that are lost by treating them even lower than they mite think of themself? How is that helping build them up?

A lot of you dudes r hypocritical as hell. You spend ur life takin advantage of promiscuous women and even pridin urself on turnin out women that rnt, and then turn around and blame every wrong of the world on them. When ur out there being a immature aint shyt fakkit dat doesnt value women beyong their vagina. Like I said, a lot of you dudes dont deserve black women man.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Exactly, and that's the result of blacks giving positive reinforcement to negative behaviour and negative reinforcement to positive behaviour.

It's actually a big problem amongst blacks, particularly in the hood. Shyt I used to be feel the same way. Gave more respect to nikkas on my block who were banging than the men who were building their own businesses and employing blacks

I agree with you tho, it's one thing if you don't like someone, but to torment them because of it is another issue we have and contributes to the low self esteem so many of us have.

We lack positive reinforcements.
To much negativity being shown, makes us desentized to a lot of shyt. We don't think about the way we treat others until we get treated a certain way. Ha, it's just crazy man, that's why I be here in my own little world.
I can't for the most part deal with people like I used to be able to. Especially after working customer service for most of my younger years. Opened my eyes to how truly nasty some people can be. And I can say emphatically that it is not a black thing, cause the way some of these other men and women talk to each other will leave you in awe, but this thread isn't about them.

 

[A1aaa]

i love how rappers become the defacto ambassadors of the psyche of the black man toward black women... to the simple-minded.

i won't involve myself in debate; i'll just say: don't believe the hype

 

[mrken12]

Don't people ever get tired of the same cycle of threads?

 

[The M.I.C.]

This bullshyt again?

And you clueless fools fall for this troll bait every goddamn time.