Way to prove her point idiot.
who cares? this bytch does not deserve respect, she always has some slick shyt to say about men. no respect deserves to come her way
Do you feel like black men respect black women enough?
who cares? this bytch does not deserve respect, she always has some slick shyt to say about men. no respect deserves to come her way
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
This
Im all for getting more brothas to respect sistas but lets not act like its exclusive to black men.
Some of yall use racist logic without even noticing because you think its ok when it comes to the opposite gender.
It's a matriarchy by necessity since black men were being killed, incarcerated, and the like.
Simping and pandering isn't s sign of respect. Hillary is pandering for black votes now but she doesn't respect you. Creating idealized versions of what black females should be and trying to place black women onto those pedestals isn't respecting women,
Black men, just like men in general, tend to be disrespectful to women as our peers. Go look at how quickly men will dismiss a female's life experiences or viewpoints with "Well, she's ugly as fukk so who cares" or the "She's had sex with a bunch of dudes so her entire opinion is completely invalidated".
That viewpoint comes from a lack of humanization and empathy. Say what you want but black women, as well as women in general, are much better at empathizing than we are so they've typically empathized with us which is why you see so many black women protesting for black men.
But it's changing. Black men and black women are communicating better and deeper. Black Men are finally starting to listen to women which is why you see CAC media trying to promote CAC males and black females because they know that we're waking up and learning how much power we have when we unify.
Doggystyle was an R rated album. A young girl who's growing up shouldn't be listening to it. There's nothing for a young girl to relate to.I was listenin to doggystyle today and I started thinkin like man dat whole era was super #HOH
Imagine being a young girl growin up during that time and steadily hearin from men in ur community that women aint shyt and deserve to be disrespected, like that can have a legitimate effect on ur psyche. Its funny a number of men like to constantly point at some women's less then rightous behaviour, but be the same nikkas projecting that behaviour onto all women and propagatin it. Be the same nikkas encouragin other nikkas to treat women like dirt, for no reason other than theyre women.
I mean that conversation is still really relevant today. Just the fact that the word "bytch" is a default term for woman points to men's concept that a woman isn't to be respected until she earns it. If she displays some type of Mother Theresa like holiness then she can get upgraded to a more favorable word, but before that she a bytch.
And then you also think about how a lot of black men have had no problems for yrs praising non-black women and almost making it seem like being a full non mixed or "exotical" black woman is a L, just makes me think. I feel like as black men we have some growin up to do when it comes to gender relations and especially valuing black women in the way they deserve to be.
There isn't any lyrics on the album that specifically talk about black women. bytches and hos exist and they come in all races.
The disrespect in the back community goes both ways, it's not just a black man lacks respect for black women thing. I take movies like Waiting to Exhale as disrespect. I take the whole black feminist mentality that has been ingrained in black women for the last 40-50 years as disrespect. Ultimately tho, this is all orchestrated and the focus should be on the orchestrators. Pointing out fingers at each other is counterproductive.
Can you admit that black women lack respect for black men? If you can't do that then you hold no weight whining about the lack of respect for black women.
real talk my g
the simpin and pandering is only to get p*ssy and or money from black woman
because being truthful and calling women on their b.s. usually doesn't get you p*ssy sooo...
I sure can. Do acknowledge that Black men are disrespectful to Black women? If not you have no place whinning and trying to flip the subject.
This thread is about Black men though, what do you not fukking understand about that?
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
What I said relates to black men. I have not attempted to change the focus at all.
PhonZhi
Veteran
Indiglow Meta (R$G)
Ultra.
Black women outnumber and outperform black men. Not due to merit, due to placement and "given opportunity" (less threatening/more malleable/people who have children can be controlled)
Respect is earned.
Consideration is automatic.
If you haven't earned any respect, you won't get any. You can't automatically give respect to somebody because they resemble you.
Respect is earned.
Consideration is automatic.
If you haven't earned any respect, you won't get any. You can't automatically give respect to somebody because they resemble you.
Voice of Reason
Veteran
Damn breh why are you so emotional. 
As with most things the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Both sides lack respect for each other.
Blaming black men as a whole because self-confessed thugs had no respect for women is absurd and completely unfair.
Blaming black men as a whole because self-confessed thugs had no respect for women is absurd and completely unfair.
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Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
I've read lots of good responses in this thread.
Respect begets respect. I've never seen a black man be disrespectful to a black woman.
We still need to learn to respect each other. We need to teach these things to our children.
Let them see the importance and beauty of black love and what it means to our community.
People need to stop with the black men/black women ain't shyt pander post on social media.
Just because you've dealt with one person that about shyt doesn't mean all of us ain't shyt.
But back to what I was saying I think that Doggystyle was talking about a certain type of woman.
It's so many women out here no matter the color that don't deserve respect from others because they don't respect themselves.
Respect begets respect. I've never seen a black man be disrespectful to a black woman.
We still need to learn to respect each other. We need to teach these things to our children.
Let them see the importance and beauty of black love and what it means to our community.
People need to stop with the black men/black women ain't shyt pander post on social media.
Just because you've dealt with one person that about shyt doesn't mean all of us ain't shyt.
But back to what I was saying I think that Doggystyle was talking about a certain type of woman.
It's so many women out here no matter the color that don't deserve respect from others because they don't respect themselves.
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