Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
if you think signing a piece of paper called 'marriage' means someones bond is stronger as a family unit you sir are a fool.
most of my friends parents are un-married and fine.
Do you believe in marriage?
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most of my friends parents are un-married and fine.
If all it is to you is signing a piece of paper, then yes, it means nothing.
I'm not sure who started talking about signing papers here though.
When I got married, and when just about all my friends got married, we had something called an "engagement" and a "wedding". And a hell of a lot more thought, planning, and affirmed commitment went into that than signing some stupid paper.
Claim whatever you want about your friends' unmarried parents, but the numbers are way against you. Kids whose parents don't marry almost never end up living with both parents through graduation. The odds are more than 95% against you.
Meanwhile, 70% of marriages are lasting 15+ years, and the divorce rate keeps declining.
Sounds like SOMETHING is making a difference, no?
I don't really give a damn if you sign any piece of paper. But if you plan to have kids, promise to live with the kid until he's 18. You don't have to call it marriage if you don't want to, but you and his mother should make a freaking commitment so he doesn't get the shaft. Way too many kids ending up in foster or with their father not around nowadays.
kittykat89
Banned
married 3 years!!
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
If all it is to you is signing a piece of paper, then yes, it means nothing.
I'm not sure who started talking about signing papers here though.
When I got married, and when just about all my friends got married, we had something called an "engagement" and a "wedding". And a hell of a lot more thought, planning, and affirmed commitment went into that than signing some stupid paper.
Claim whatever you want about your friends' unmarried parents, but the numbers are way against you. Kids whose parents don't marry almost never end up living with both parents through graduation. The odds are more than 95% against you.
Meanwhile, 70% of marriages are lasting 15+ years, and the divorce rate keeps declining.
Sounds like SOMETHING is making a difference, no?
I don't really give a damn if you sign any piece of paper. But if you plan to have kids, promise to live with the kid until he's 18. You don't have to call it marriage if you don't want to, but you and his mother should make a freaking commitment so he doesn't get the shaft. Way too many kids ending up in foster or with their father not around nowadays.
that wedding and engadgment, are just over the top parties nothing more
I can only speak for myself, and I don't need to do a pointless lets live together for life party and sign a piece of paper.
how would the child get the shaft? so you can't make a commitment without signing paper? do you hear yourself?
I hear myself just fine, but apparently you deaf.
Reread that paragraph over again.I don't give a damn if you sign any paper, as long as you make the commitment.
kittykat89
Banned
it takes a lot of work but its worth it
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
women are so dumb they relate signing piece of paper and having a party, as a commitment,
like married people not cheating every day
like married people not cheating every day
Terrance Curtis Beasley
These ni*gas claim Top 5 but we OVOK
If you a man, marriage is a suicide
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Some want the ceremony not the actual work of a marriage.women are so dumb they relate signing piece of paper and having a party, as a commitment,
like married people not cheating every day
