Why though? It's not as if young boys will now learn she's having sex at that age and expect her to have sex again. Potentially with them.
Do you agree with this father using corporal punishment to stop his daughter from having sex?
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Maxine Shaw
#ColiFam gave more $ 2 my students than my school
To pull that back a bit...a lot of them are also hard to discipline in class b/c violence is the only thing they understand. If I ask little Jamal to sit down, he won't listen. If I tell Jamal to sit down, he won't listen. If I threaten Jamal with a phone call home, he'll probably listen. That means I have to do a lot of threatening. It gets old.
I've been an educator for about 12 years now, and I find that kids fell in one of three categories:
1. The ones who do what they're supposed to do b/c they know right from wrong
2. The ones who do what they're supposed to do b/c they're afraid not to, and
3. The ones you can't tell shyt b/c you can't hit them.
#2 is the most troublesome b/c it relies on outside forces. This girl should not want to have sex b/c she knows better, not b/c she's afraid of being beaten if she does. The end results are arguably the same, but one is short-term. We tend to think "scare them now and they'll figure it out later", but you don't get self-esteem by being beaten. Like a lot of the brehs/brehettes said, it only makes a child sneakier.
And trust me, Coli parents. No matter how loud your kids cry and scream at home when you're beating them, they're laughing at you the next day in class. But keep convincing yourself that you laid down the law.
not just her peers...parents!
if you have a 12 year old daughter and you find out her bff is sexually active are you not going to want her to stop being friends with her? you're going to want your daughter either to (1) be convinced to do the same or (2) get labeled as fast because she's part of the group as her sexually active friend?
no.
adults do not treat sexually active pre-teen and teen girls the same as they do virgin ones. they dont want their daughters corrupted by her. they dont want their sons to chase after her and get her pregnant. they dont like kids not acting like kids.
and i do think boys will show more attention to girls who have sex
nkb97
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THIS. Instantly the first thing that came to mind when I saw this video.
12 years old is just too damn young. That's a bad sign. Something deeper is going on....
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Tommy Knocks
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I am pretty sure shes supposed to go to jail for this.
Tommy Knocks
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I just had a thought.
What if he were hitting a little dog, what would you think then? In fact, I wonder if those people that hit their kids would raise their hand on a puppy. Surely they should value their kids more than dogs. So I guess a puppy would get slaps, the belt and slippers, thrown against the wall too, right. What would you think of a person who did that.
people can train dogs but cant train their own children who speak english, have complex brains and consciousness. something is off.
What if he were hitting a little dog, what would you think then? In fact, I wonder if those people that hit their kids would raise their hand on a puppy. Surely they should value their kids more than dogs. So I guess a puppy would get slaps, the belt and slippers, thrown against the wall too, right. What would you think of a person who did that.
people can train dogs but cant train their own children who speak english, have complex brains and consciousness. something is off.
DropTopDoc
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I've never seen anyone who got beat like that become successful or caring people in life.
My dad actually beat me like that as a child and I hated him for it to the point where when I was big enough I would tell him I would fukk him up before he ever put his hands on me again... I left as a child. My brothers ended up getting into physical fights with him because they resented shyt. We didn't speak for almost 5 or 6 years after that and I didn't give a fukk. We still not as close as we could've been and I barely come to him for shyt (advice or anything) and that's out of habit.
Beating your kids like animals do not make you a good parent and do not make your kids better people. Discipline is needed, some degrees more than others, but if your daughter is fukking you need to take a look at yourself and how you raised them. It could've been pressure from the boy, pressure from friends, insecurity to get people to like her, etc.... fukking talk to your child before you go off beating her ass like a slave and uploading it online to embarrass her even more
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FeloniousMonk
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This is false, breh.
Its embedded in your dna and hormones to become sexually active at a certain age..no matter how attentive of a parent you want to be.
All you can really do is show them the way and hope they take your advice..
Tommy Knocks
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the kind of dad that comes home from work, not a single conversation except some yelling "why you aint do the dishes, why your room dirty" before eating, watching some news and going to sleep. rinse and repeat. didnt ask how was her day, hows her friends, whats new, whats on her mind, what he did at work, watch a documentary together, not a genuine peak of interest except when trouble comes along.
No. It’s not.
At 12 most kids have not hit sexual maturity so it’s not some insurmountable desire making them have sex.
And beyond that, as human beings we have control over our primal urges.
As a parent you should be guiding your kids on how to navigate their new feelings and emotions. As an attentive parent you will know when they turn that “sexual urges” corner and you will be there to help them figure it out.
I was being sarcastic. Of course boys will show her attention. And no 12 year old should be having sex male or female.