Do you agree with this father using corporal punishment to stop his daughter from having sex?
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CreepyMcCreeperson
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Yes they will. And if an adult, preferably a male doesn't tell her how boys think, she will continue to think sex validates her, and will make boys love her.
A lot of people who beat their children like this were beat the same way, so they don't know any other way to parent. And I notice a lot of kids who get beat, are beaten often, which clearly means the fear of physical pain isn't working, and a lot of those kids get no attention for doing anything positive, so they could be seeking attention for doing negative things.
I was being sarcastic. I was confused by why she wouldn't be judge as fast. It's not a judgement that is unfounded. She is fast.
Yes they will. And if an adult, preferably a male doesn't tell her how boys think, she will continue to think sex validates her, and will make boys love her.
A lot of people who beat their children like this were beat the same way, so they don't know any other way to parent. And I notice a lot of kids who get beat, are beaten often, which clearly means the fear of physical pain isn't working, and a lot of those kids get no attention for doing anything positive, so they could be seeking attention for doing negative things.
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Most parents never had parents that did this so they wouldn't even know how to go about this.
Man td jakes daughter got pregnant at 14 and he def wasn't neglecting her. Could be she was just wanting to experiment.
King Khufu
CARTEL MAFIA GANG
It's sad when you suppose to be the father and let her know that sex is meant for someone special and strong enough to lead her own choice.
No, instead theres just ghetto drama for internet entertainment continuing our shames.
No little girl should feel pressure for sex, honestly parents need to do a better job of talking to their kids about why it's for adults and not feeling the need to grow up so fast even if they are being talked into it.
I mean I get it because we was all young at some time you know young people get curious to know the pleasures of adulthood will bring them more troubles since that leads to without the responsibility.
I think if parents instead of trying to safe guard their kids over protectively where they lash out abusively over their mistakes instead should provide them healthy alternatives like being caring but firm so they wouldnt get into trouble in the first place.
Understand I'm saying this all in context with thread title alone with not ever seeing the footage.
No, instead theres just ghetto drama for internet entertainment continuing our shames.
No little girl should feel pressure for sex, honestly parents need to do a better job of talking to their kids about why it's for adults and not feeling the need to grow up so fast even if they are being talked into it.
I mean I get it because we was all young at some time you know young people get curious to know the pleasures of adulthood will bring them more troubles since that leads to without the responsibility.
I think if parents instead of trying to safe guard their kids over protectively where they lash out abusively over their mistakes instead should provide them healthy alternatives like being caring but firm so they wouldnt get into trouble in the first place.
Understand I'm saying this all in context with thread title alone with not ever seeing the footage.
TD jakes gave all of us more attention than he ever did his family.
It’s not about being a smart/educated/good person.
It’s about attention. If TD jakes was present in his daughters life. She wouldn’t have gotten pregnant at that age. I’m absolutely sure at the exact moment she got pregnant he was filming some shyt to sell some shyt.
Yeah, but somebody got to break the cycle. I can honestly say that my parents weren’t as attentive as they should have been. I think I just got lucky and met the right people outside of my home.Most parents never had parents that did this so they wouldn't even know how to go about this.
JerseyFinest!
All Star
I’m Stern but I’m far from strict. I laid down the ground work so it’s no need to be strict with my 2 kids. They already know.
In the same breath I reward my kids for doing well. I always tell them “Handle your business, and whatever you want is yours”
Girls who go through this kind of stuff end up mixing up sex love and violence. Add the online shaming and don’t be surprised when she’s doing porn or in an abusive relationship in a couple years.
I would like to apologize if any triggering occured based on anything I may have stated.
With that said,that is the universe triggering you to let you know that you have not yet healed and its long over due.
But sick people need to be quarantined,we can't allow you to reinforce the ho behavior to other women like its cool,whether they had trauma or no trauma.
We no longer want to hear you talk about being loose on here further degrading the image of the black woman.
Your purpose is now going to be to tell women you know they may have gone through something,but being a ho is not the right thing to do.
And that they need to heal and forgive the predator if its preventing them from moving foward, and empower themselves.
COntinuing the tradition forced on them by the predator is not empoweing. Acting like a ho to get attention and love was a reactionary move based on a sick deviants action,break the damn chain. How long do you want to continue the tradition forced upon you,don't you see the pattern? The universe is trying force you to grow and evolve,your weakness is wanting to be loved too much. But all love ain't good love:henbron:
With that said I commend your bravery for telling your story to women who may see your post:respect:
knickscity
Superstar
The fathers behavior was way too much, then to post it online is even worse. needs to focus on his daughter.
ElMorenoFeo809
Banned
Nah, i didn't see that as an abuse. She did apoligize after she saw that she left marked on my face tho , that was the last time went went MMA on me. But them other times were with fukking belt and hangers. Seriously if my mother didn't punished and discipline me like she did back then , i think i would've not made it to my adulthood. I love my mother.