Do women ruin men?

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This is false. If I was a good guy and I can no longer trust. I'm ruined. You can say no I chose to be untrusting. Which is kinda true, but at the same if I chose to trust another female and I got burned. You'd say I was dumb, I should've learned from previous experience. Now if I chose to take things slower and the woman leaves me because I want to take it slower. I'm alone and miserable, I'm an @sshole for stringing her long. Though I wasn't stringing her along, I was being cautious. So yes, you can be ruined by the "wrongs" of others.

Everybody gets fukked over that is the process of life. Everything that happens to you is a learning experience. Using your example, If you meet woman "A" and she turns out to be a liar. What you should do is not trust HER anymore and move on. The next woman, "B," that you meet, you will be more cautious and maybe over time your trust in her will grow. She is not the same woman as "A", therefore, she deserve a fair chance. However, if you decide not to trust anymore, you have let someone else have control over your life. Now, for the rest of your life, you belong to them.
 
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"The masses are asses" but there are so many great people out there too.

The thing is you have never been sold the lie that all men are good or you should treat all men the same. Most boys got sold the lie that all women are good and treat all women the same.
 

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Everybody gets fukk over that is the process of life. Everything that happens to you is a learning experience. Using your example, If you meet woman "A" and she turns out to be a liar. What you should do is not trust HER anymore and move on. The next woman, "B," that you meet, you will be more cautious and maybe over time your trust in her will grow. She is not the same woman as "A", therefore, she deserve a fair chance. However, if you decide not to trust anymore, you have let someone else have control over your life. Now, for the rest of your life, you belong to them.
Well said.

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Never.
She's a great woman and I love her, but that's not part of our relationship.

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ORlly.....

do you ever want to bang her tho? im sure it crossed ur mind a few times

@Desirous i would cut contact with him if he said he it never crossed his mind :stopitslime:

Im just bored yall:yeshrug:
 

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Everybody gets fukk over that is the process of life. Everything that happens to you is a learning experience. Using your example, If you meet woman "A" and she turns out to be a liar. What you should do is not trust HER anymore and move on. The next woman, "B," that you meet, you will be more cautious and maybe over time your trust in her will grow. She is not the same woman as "A", therefore, she deserve a fair chance. However, if you decide not to trust anymore, you have let someone else have control over your life. Now, for the rest of your life, you belong to them.
This!

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:shaq:

ORlly.....

do you ever want to bang her tho? im sure it crossed ur mind a few times

@desrious i would cut contact with him if he said he it never crossed his mind :stopitslime:

Im just bored yall:yeshrug:
Haha. We're just friends man.
 

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In the big scheme of things relationships with the opposite sex are not that meaningful or impactful on the human psyche or our life in general :manny:

I doubt all the deranged, bitter and hatefull people and all the successful, happy, joyful people that walk the world today are by lateral end games of their relationships with Tameka or Tyrone back in highschool/college :pachaha:
 

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It's not women, it's just crazy women in general. They'll push a nikka's buttons, and it's always the mentally unstable dude they'll pick. And then that dude starts doin shyt like holdin her hostage or shootin people up all motivated by her. :what:

It's true, b. In TN about a month ago a man held a girl hostage who was his ex, .43 ruger and was bustin on her new bf. Idk all the details, but dayum. He musta been mentally unstable for that shyt to happen.:wow:
 
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