Do women ruin men?

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That first dude was pathetic. Simps are a way bigger problem because they are the ones that empower and enable some of the deviant behaviors modern women get into.
 

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I think I get what the old woman was saying. In many cases, a man grows up with this idea of women and how they are...based on the preconceived and pre-packaged notions that are passed down from one generation to the next. This is usually done by the mother, single in many cases, who wants to raise the man she never dated or wanted, yet is the kind of man that will "respect women."

This boy is taught that women are to be respected no matter what, that women are beautiful, honest, loving and deserve to be treated with chivalry....because they're queens and princesses.

Then this kid starts to grow up and takes note of things. Things like his mother not being so queenly in her behavior, the girls in his classes giving out blowjobs like whistles at a pep rally, his first girlfriend smashing some other dude behind his back after football practice, that being an a##hole seems to get more attention than being chilvalrous, etc.

Once this process happens, the boy is ruined to these ideas, due to some of his interactions with women. He sees that what he was taught is not real in HIS REALITY.

Now, he is responsible for his thoughts and actions once he has experienced this. However, I can see what that woman may have meant by a man starting good and then being ruined by women...in the sense of having his notion of them ruined.

Now, I know on the Coli, every woman is virtuous and every dude was born a playa, but in my life, every dude I know has been ruined in this way at some point.

Peace
 

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depends on the environment. Men do women dirty a lot of times. and vice versa. Always look at the environment ppl are in. but like you said, when it's all said and done, no one is responsible for that person's behavior besides themselves
 

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I think I get what the old woman was saying. In many cases, a man grows up with this idea of women and how they are...based on the preconceived and pre-packaged notions that are passed down from one generation to the next. This is usually done by the mother, single in many cases, who wants to raise the man she never dated or wanted, yet is the kind of man that will "respect women."

This boy is taught that women are to be respected no matter what, that women are beautiful, honest, loving and deserve to be treated with chivalry....because they're queens and princesses.

Then this kid starts to grow up and takes note of things. Things like his mother not being so queenly in her behavior, the girls in his classes giving out blowjobs like whistles at a pep rally, his first girlfriend smashing some other dude behind his back after football practice, that being an a##hole seems to get more attention than being chilvalrous, etc.

Once this process happens, the boy is ruined to these ideas, due to some of his interactions with women. He sees that what he was taught is not real in HIS REALITY.

Now, he is responsible for his thoughts and actions once he has experienced this. However, I can see what that woman may have meant by a man starting good and then being ruined by women...in the sense of having his notion of them ruined.

Now, I know on the Coli, every woman is virtuous and every dude was born a playa, but in my life, every dude I know has been ruined in this way at some point.

Peace
 

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There's a quite that misognysts aren't born they are made.

I don't hate women but many have tried to ruin me financially, emotionally and physically.

A weaker man may have been destroyed already but I'm blessed :blessed:


depends on the environment. Men do women dirty a lot of times. and vice versa. Always look at the environment ppl are in. but like you said, when it's all said and done, no one is responsible for that person's behavior besides themselves
 

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Too much cliched arguments in here. The choice is yours. No shyt, but not always. And choices are generally made by risk/reward and previous experiences.

And the people screaming get over it, probably ain't over it.

It's also a difference between accidentally touching a hot pan, sticking your hand in a pot of boiling water and having someone throw a pot of boiling water on you purposely.
 

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First, Ugh, I really, really, really, really hate Fox News.
Second, seems odd that a woman was speaking to the male perspective of marriage here. (speaking for some men, that is).
And lastly, Tucker Carlson has such a punch-able face.

Really strangely though, some interesting points were brought up.
 
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