Do women ruin men?

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No one can ruin anyone and this goes for both men and women. Can people fukk you over? Yes. Are you allowed to be upset and take a little time to reflect or mope? Yes. However, can you allow someone to ruin you and change the whole dynamic of your life? Hell, no.

If you allow someone to ruin your life, you are a p*ssy, and eventually would have ended up ruining your life on your own.

This is some rough talk, but I'm speaking from experience.
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Wow. That's a wild story. I think the parents should have ....wait, let me not phrase it that way.

I think if it was me with a son like that, I'd urge the kid to wait until he was 18 or 21 before making some major thing like that.
That's wild though. I don't know how I'd feel if I was that kid's dad.

why wait that long, though? this person might be dead long before then.
 

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Would you concede that some women do like to cater to their man and make him happy?
I mean it should be a two-way street...

women from third world countries without first world country influences do most of the time. It should be a two way street but it isnt
 

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Wow. That's a wild story. I think the parents should have ....wait, let me not phrase it that way.

I think if it was me with a son like that, I'd urge the kid to wait until he was 18 or 21 before making some major thing like that.
That's wild though. I don't know how I'd feel if I was that kid's dad.




yea i think its wild too....when people are willing to mutilate themselves there is some deep rooted issues that deserve the proper attention, the boy was basically going to kill himself
 

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No one can ruin anyone and this goes for both men and women. Can people fukk you over? Yes. Are you allowed to be upset and take a little time to reflect or mope? Yes. However, can you allow someone to ruin you and change the whole dynamic of your life? Hell, no.

If you allow someone to ruin your life, you are a p*ssy, and eventually would have ended up ruining your life on your own.

This is some rough talk, but I'm speaking from experience.
I agree with you.

Serious question though, respectfully:
Because you said "no one can ruin anyone"...

What do you think about children? Would you extend that same sentiment to them? It sure seems like certain behaviors can have a lasting impression.
 

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No one can ruin anyone and this goes for both men and women. Can people fukk you over? Yes. Are you allowed to be upset and take a little time to reflect or mope? Yes. However, can you allow someone to ruin you and change the whole dynamic of your life? Hell, no.

If you allow someone to ruin your life, you are a p*ssy, and eventually would have ended up ruining your life on your own.

This is some rough talk, but I'm speaking from experience.
This is false. If I was a good guy and I can no longer trust. I'm ruined. You can say no I chose to be untrusting. Which is kinda true, but at the same if I chose to trust another female and I got burned. You'd say I was dumb, I should've learned from previous experience. Now if I chose to take things slower and the woman leaves me because I want to take it slower. I'm alone and miserable, I'm an a$$hole for stringing her long. Though I wasn't stringing her along, I was being cautious. So yes, you can be ruined by the "wrongs" of others.
 

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This is false. If I was a good guy and I can no longer trust. I'm ruined. You can say no I chose to be untrusting. Which is kinda true, but at the same if I chose to trust another female and I got burned. You'd say I was dumb, I should've learned from previous experience. Now if I chose to take things slower and the woman leaves me because I want to take it slower. I'm alone and miserable, I'm an @sshole for stringing her long. Though I wasn't stringing her along, I was being cautious. So yes, you can be ruined by the "wrongs" of others.

People should earn your trust. Everyone's been burned before. If you get fired from a job, you don't just stay your ass home on the couch, you get up and find another job - one that's better than the last. Idk it sucks being hurt, but that's just a part of life. It shouldn't ruin you.
 

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People should earn your trust. Everyone's been burned before. If you get fired from a job, you don't just stay your ass home on the couch, you get up and find another job - one that's better than the last. Idk it sucks being hurt, but that's just a part of life. It shouldn't ruin you.
What? Are you retarded?! How the hell did you form such an idiotic conclusion?

If you got fired from a job and it was your fault, you had better change your behavior.
 

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People should earn your trust. Everyone's been burned before. If you get fired from a job, you don't just stay your ass home on the couch, you get up and find another job - one that's better than the last. Idk it sucks being hurt, but that's just a part of life. It shouldn't ruin you.

Most men start of seeing all women as queens but the older you get you see most women ain't shyt.
 
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