Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[Sierra Mist]

 

[Elle Driver]

The bolded is so true,...But will that so called union bare good fruit or produce a long lasting legacy?

Simps\Lames and reformed Hoes get married everyday, but there is nothing noteworthy produced from these unions.....

It's nothing to even be worried about cause it's escorts and porn stars that's married and prolly got some kids and shyt.

 

[Taadow]

Easy girls only make it hard for "good" girls if they goin' for the same man.
Closed mouths don't get fed dicc. Knamtalmbat?

If you love what you touch, then touch what you want. Knowmsayin'?

It's 2013. Y'all can vote and rent a car and all that thurr. Ain't nothin' standing in
these "good" girls' way if they come across a man they like. Instead of trying to
do that "bend and snap" chit waitin' for a nicca to holla, she need to be that boss
chick she act like she is when bumpin' Beyonce's latest subpar album in
her Honda Del Sol and step up. Errbody got somethin' bad to say about "easy" girls,
but they out here gettin' the mens they want. Real talk...

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Believe what you want man. Lost my virginity at 19 and haven't done anything since I ain't got no reason to lie on the internet


Right because basically starting sexually charged convos means I didn't initiate it.

Y'all need to leave y'all little bubbles and realize not all girls act or think exactly the same.

Bubble? Baby I live in a cosmos......You said you were 21 so what does you losing your virginity at 19 have to do with anything?

Its not about you lying...Its about what's real and what's fake.....The fact that you are seeking advice on the internet from people whom more than likely(this may include you) aren't qualified to speak on real life experiences is quite telling...

If you're only looking for agreement, then by all means entertain these responses....But if you're seeking true guidance, you need to log off and talk with someone who has been down life's highway already....

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

It's nothing to even be worried about cause it's escorts and porn stars that's married and prolly got some kids and shyt.

You proving my point actually....

You're going off what you see on T.V., which is kind of laughable

A lot of times, those guys wife the chick because she was a former porn star.

Slores get wifed up no doubt, but its a marriage that is steeped in desperation and lack of options on the female's part.

Also, this is a phenomenon that occurs with people born in the 70s....and before

You really believe that kids born in the late 80s early 90s are going to wife former porn stars, when marriage is probably not on their radar to begin with?

 

[OfTheCross]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

The answer is no. "Good" girls give it up just as easily as "easy" girls.

 

[Arishok]

Bubble? Baby I live in a cosmos......You said you were 21 so what does you losing your virginity at 19 have to do with anything?

Its not about you lying...Its about what's real and what's fake.....The fact that you are seeking advice on the internet from people whom more than likely(this may include you) aren't qualified to speak on real life experiences is quite telling...

If you're only looking for agreement, then by all means entertain these responses....But if you're seeking true guidance, you need to log off and talk with someone who has been down life's highway already....

I was saying I lost it at 19 and haven't done anything since then, meaning my first and only time was at 19 and this guy would be the second. I'm not looking for agreement, just responses that'll make me think. Plus I don't really know people who've truly explored this seeing as all my peers range from 18-24 with little to no real life experiences so I turned to my best friend and when she started basically slandering me, I turned to the internet.

But hey maybe your right, I'm still technically a kid so I don't have much real life experience

Plus you seem like a fairly experienced, intelligent individual, why shouldn't I come to you for an opinion on a subject matter. This was first, about do easy girls make it hard on good girls tho, not about me personally wanting to sleep with dude.

 

[Street Knowledge]

There's no such thing as a girl who is "easy" to sleep with and there's no such thing as a girl who is "hard" to sleep with.

Show me a girl who is "easy" and ill show you a nikka who can't fukk her

 

[5010]

it's just sex...

 

[intruder]

Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?
I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

Why are you assuming that "easy" girls arent "good girls"? Why are you labeling someone who wants sex as "not good"?

There have been plenty of women that I have slept with on the first night that i wouldnt consider bad in any way

 

[BrehWyatt]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

What your friend feels on this situation quite frankly doesn't mean anything unless she's got a thing for the dude you want to give it up to. If you want to fukk him, then fukk him and whatever happens, happens. Dude will probably appreciate your boldness about the situation since ladies doing the approaching is rarer than a Bigfoot sighting, apparently.

As for making it easier, I think it depends on the kind of guy he is. We don't know if he's used to falling ass-backwards into punani on the regular, and we don't know if he's had to put in work for every piece of ass he's landed. But I've noticed some of your posts where you're saying that you might be confusing emotional feelings for sexual attraction. If that's the case, think before you act.

 

[Arishok]

Why are you assuming that "easy" girls arent "good girls"? Why are you labeling someone who wants sex as "not good"?

There have been plenty of women that I have slept with on the first night that i wouldnt consider bad in any way

I didn't, my friend apparently thinks I'm a hoe with no self respect because I want to sleep with a guy I'm attracted to. I would consider myself a "good" girl but that doesn't mean I want to or should hold out for something I want whether it's sex or a meaningful relationship.

 

[dc007]

I didn't, my friend apparently thinks I'm a hoe with no self respect because I want to sleep with a guy I'm attracted to. I would consider myself a "good" girl but that doesn't mean I want to or should hold out for something I want whether it's sex or a meaningful relationship.

If what you say about only having one partner is true, then maybe he won't think less of you and it can turn into something more. Sounds like yall been talking about this for some time. Anything is possible i guess

 

[Dooby]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

No I find it quite the opposite. The ones that want the dates, the wining, the dining before we get sex makes it hard for us so in OUR perspective, the good girls are the ones that want to "get to the point" so to speak. I find it sad when a female holds the p*ssy ransom as if that's her only trump card, as if that's the best thing she has to offer. Men hit it and quit it not because they only wanted the sex, its because you're just not an interesting enough person to keep them around.

 

[Dooby]

by perpetuating the belief men don't have to make a serious commitment to earn sex

Why do we have to "earn" sex though? Isn't it a mutually gratifying activity? I really hate that term.