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Divorced Breh’s: How Is Your Life after The Split?
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Why did you marry her in the first place?
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When my first marriage ended
I felt like an utter failure
I always compare it to being a white bytch in a horror film
RIP to X
It’s like you seeing everything you hoped for and actually accomplish
Deteriorating and you can’t do shyt to stop it
Counseling, Date Nights, Conversations, all that shyt wasn’t enough of a band aid at the end
My ex and I are better for it but she wants that old thing back I can’t give her
Funny enough I would get married again
Had absolutely no plan on doing that shyt again
But I met a woman I haven’t felt like this about since 05
But I also understand this won’t last forever
It’s just the nature of the beast
Shes definitely my last relationship
Either death or just growing apart
Don’t have the capacity to love like this again
When this shyt ends(I pray to white Jesus every night it doesn’t)
I’m off to the plains of Oklahoma
I felt like an utter failure
I always compare it to being a white bytch in a horror film
RIP to X
It’s like you seeing everything you hoped for and actually accomplish
Deteriorating and you can’t do shyt to stop it
Counseling, Date Nights, Conversations, all that shyt wasn’t enough of a band aid at the end
My ex and I are better for it but she wants that old thing back I can’t give her
Funny enough I would get married again
Had absolutely no plan on doing that shyt again
But I met a woman I haven’t felt like this about since 05
But I also understand this won’t last forever
It’s just the nature of the beast
Shes definitely my last relationship
Either death or just growing apart
Don’t have the capacity to love like this again
When this shyt ends(I pray to white Jesus every night it doesn’t)
I’m off to the plains of Oklahoma
Humans are funny.
You know your relationship will eventually fail. And if you’re a man and u get married you will be fuccked. But nah. You do it anyway. Coli n1ggas think they different. Y’all gon learn one day
You know your relationship will eventually fail. And if you’re a man and u get married you will be fuccked. But nah. You do it anyway. Coli n1ggas think they different. Y’all gon learn one day
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I will never understand how a person can marry someone without living with them first.
that your life is good now.Your ex wife wants to get back together? From what I’ve seen that never works.When my first marriage ended
I felt like an utter failure
I always compare it to being a white bytch in a horror film
RIP to X
It’s like you seeing everything you hoped for and actually accomplish
Deteriorating and you can’t do shyt to stop it
Counseling, Date Nights, Conversations, all that shyt wasn’t enough of a band aid at the end
My ex and I are better for it but she wants that old thing back I can’t give her
Funny enough I would get married again
Had absolutely no plan on doing that shyt again
But I met a woman I haven’t felt like this about since 05
But I also understand this won’t last forever
It’s just the nature of the beast
Shes definitely my last relationship
Either death or just growing apart
Don’t have the capacity to love like this again
When this shyt ends(I pray to white Jesus every night it doesn’t)
I’m off to the plains of Oklahoma
OJ Simpsom
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Peaceful. Which is all I can ask for. 
Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw
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I got married when I was 18 ... divorced at 21. I met my current 4yrs later and we moved in after a yr together...I didn't marry her until 10yrs and 3 kids later...I had to be sure... lmao I'm hell
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Vodun
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breh you pretty much summed up my divorce. Life is fukking amazing and now I'm traveling to Thailand in July to be on demon time with my other homie who went through a divorce.
OP life gets better for men as we get older if you keep self improving. to many women in the world to be tripping off one. I'm 37 with a 7 year daughter I have full custody of
Vodun
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underrated comment!Peaceful. Which is all I can ask for.
Dipsey Doo
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When we initially separated in 2018, we were still living together but allowed each other to date other people. While the prospect of new women while going through what I thought was a break was fun, this was probably the biggest mistake I made. I had no business trying to date other people while still being married.
shyt got real when we both moved out the house we were renting at the end of 2018. It's humbling when that feeling of your hopes, dreams and goals crumble when you walk into a cold, empty apartment. I never sought treatment by a professional, but I was legit depressed from 2019 until the divorce went final at the top of 2021. I self-medicated with casual sex, weed and alcohol.
On top of that, I had to go through this on my own. I feel like people don't care what happens to men when we are going a divorce. Women seem to get the most sympathy.
After the divorce went final, I met someone and entered a relationship with them at the end of 2021. I definitely wasn't ready, because a big reason why that relationship failed was because I wasn't healed from my divorce.
I went into this year determined to focus on myself and why my previous relationships have failed. Also made a commitment to not have casual sex and to wait until I'm in an actual relationship.
With my divorce being two years old, my wounds and ego are healing but I have my moments. I take it a day at a time. Being around people helps and being around women in non dating settings have opened my eyes on my previous attitudes towards women and relationships.
Long story, short: going through a divorce sucks, and people are lying if they tell you otherwise.
shyt got real when we both moved out the house we were renting at the end of 2018. It's humbling when that feeling of your hopes, dreams and goals crumble when you walk into a cold, empty apartment. I never sought treatment by a professional, but I was legit depressed from 2019 until the divorce went final at the top of 2021. I self-medicated with casual sex, weed and alcohol.
On top of that, I had to go through this on my own. I feel like people don't care what happens to men when we are going a divorce. Women seem to get the most sympathy.
After the divorce went final, I met someone and entered a relationship with them at the end of 2021. I definitely wasn't ready, because a big reason why that relationship failed was because I wasn't healed from my divorce.
I went into this year determined to focus on myself and why my previous relationships have failed. Also made a commitment to not have casual sex and to wait until I'm in an actual relationship.
With my divorce being two years old, my wounds and ego are healing but I have my moments. I take it a day at a time. Being around people helps and being around women in non dating settings have opened my eyes on my previous attitudes towards women and relationships.
Long story, short: going through a divorce sucks, and people are lying if they tell you otherwise.
Divorces do suck especially the timing of them can be really hell from experience
I had custody of my kids when I got divorced just timing of it was horrible for me with everything I was going thru and how I found out about the affair but I did see the divorce coming tho regardless
I felt free and light as feather tho cuz I knew it was the right thing to do
I eventually got remarried and had more kids in long run
Going on 13 years of marriage with current wife
I had custody of my kids when I got divorced just timing of it was horrible for me with everything I was going thru and how I found out about the affair but I did see the divorce coming tho regardless
I felt free and light as feather tho cuz I knew it was the right thing to do
I eventually got remarried and had more kids in long run
Going on 13 years of marriage with current wife
Best decision ive made in my entire life. Better than joining the military young to set me up with my connections, better than making all of that money in the market, better than me finally going to school now to get my bachelors. Getting divorced from my first wife literally saved my life. There is absolutely nothing worse than waking up to a woman every single day who complains about something you did, are doing, or what she think you will do. A woman can absolutely break a man down and feel trapped. I was in a really really bad mental place and didnt care about my health or safety during those times. Finally a broke free and it took some time to recover but ive been happy for years. No depression, no stress, no drama.