@ProlificLurker living up to the screen name, you dapped everything in here? 
Divorced Breh’s: How Is Your Life after The Split?
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Spousal support and equity payout of a marital homes value are tens, if not hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Unless you’re with a higher earner then it doesn’t make sense to rush into anything.
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@ProlificLurker living up to the screen name, you dapped everything in here?
I enjoyed reading the different perspectives
Yea, that’s why I posted because I didn’t have a temperature for what was going on I knew it wasn’t me doing too much with them cause I did everything they asked when I could…I even said no to certain things…Yoooo
I think i remember you making a thread about this, sorry if I'm confusing you with another poster. Was it you that made the thread about how the couple would have you stay over, come in at anytime, etc then out of nowhere the wife got mad at you? And you were the godfather to their child? I remember in the thread the way you described it, we told you you might be overstaying your welcome with them....
So it turns out they wanted you to be in some sort of polyamory/threesome with them???
Again, sorry if I'm mistaking you with someone else
EDIT: I posted this before i saw you already answered in another post. That's crazy though...
They got mad because I wouldn’t do EVERYTHING
Imagine ppl being mad at you for NOT fukking your friends wife
I haven’t seen them since August and have no plan ls to ever see them again.
The husband likes watching his wife get fukked and obviously she’s with it.
They told me about everything else BUT this and tried to trap me in it by the wife making moves towards me when I wasn’t with it simply out of respect she flipped then my friend became disrespectful talking about we don’t know what you want get away lol…
The thing is they have two little girls??? Whatever I’m talking to this fine Japanese/American chick … life goes on.
I just brought it here for perspectives as I was like WTF happened…
The thing that threw me is the husband was overprotective of who talked and interacted with his wife even me so I wouldn’t assume all that shyt … makes no sense from the data I had
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This is something I noticed. No one ever really talks about how upset they were, or about grieving the relationship, if they yelled at the windshield when shyt got rough, cried, or even got mad at the world for a bit.
Pretty much everyone just processed it flawlessly and 100% healthily and was like “Yeah that shyt was tough, but I handled my business”.
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Legal Marriage makes zero sense in 2024 in the USA
My life definitely got better after we divorced. As soon as we officially separated, I honest to God felt like I was at peace with everything. When I was married...I hated going to church, I hated going to couple date nights, I even hated talking about my marriage. Now, I don't have to worry about any of that.For my previously married breh who are now GMB.
Would you say your life is better or worse now, than it was when you were married?
Would you attribute the quality of your life now, to the relationship you have with your ex-wife, or the lack thereof?
Do you care to keep tabs on your exwife, directly
or indirectly if there are kids involved? Does she keep tabs on you?
Was your social and professional life drastically impacted?
Not joining GMB.But the other black couple on my floor officially called it quits after trying to reconcile, and the way he’s taking it was basically like
I even cut off the chicks I was cheating on my ex with once I got single. Started a whole new life.
How do you rebuild your life after divorce? Especially if you have kids.
Get married again apparently.
Revealing Divorce Statistics In 2024
Most people have heard that half of all marriages end in divorce, but is there more to the story? These divorce statistics shed more light on when and how marriages come to an end in the United States. Read on to find out the truth about who is dissolving their marriages.
www.forbes.com