Of course Diddy isn’t the first.What's funny is that police officers are the biggest group of domestic abusers by profession. 40% of police families will experience DV at some point. Violence is as american as apple pie. It didn't start in hip hop or the culture. And it wont end if hip hop goes away..
Almost every woman can tell you a story about someone the dated who abused them or tried to at some point. But yet online all I see is all these holy and moral folks talking down on diddy as if he is the first person to commit DV.. So obviously somebody is lying and I don't think its all the women. A lot of folks got family with DV charges and they look the other way and moralize online.
And Cassie isn’t the first woman who wasn’t believed without absolute physical proof that everyone could see.
This is a high profile case that shines light on the usual dynamic in these situations: man with some level of power gets to be an a$$hole for decades/forever and the women aren’t believed- until some secret video pops up.