shoulda spent that $ on a game or a Roku
Did I Cross The Line? My Wife Is Trippin
- Thread starter Sharp
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A bracelet and perfume, rather intimate gifts (from an non-related man to a woman). You should've just bought her a gift card. Kudos to you two for keeping it cordial/friendly but yeah, your wife has a point.
Now I see this.
Now I see this.
Action Jackson
Can I live
This dude fukked up.
WhiskeyKitty
Rookie
Oh wow! NOT a good idea at all. A card is one thing. Even a giftcard for 20.00 would have been ok AFTER you previewed your idea with your wife. The gift you gave you child's mother are like gifts you would give to someone you are currently In Love with.
I see where you were going with it. She IS your child's mother and you HAVE known her for a long time and quite frankly you DO care about her and her well being but the answer is YES you Did in fact "cross the line". If another special occasion arises I have a very helpful hint for you. When you're buying a gift for child's mother simply think to yourself " if my baby mama had a man would HE be ok with another man giving her _______?" <--- insert gift in blank space. See! It's that easy. That's how you know what's appropriate and what's not cause I can tell you right now if YOUR wife came home talking bout "hey boo look at all this stuff Larry my "co worker" got me for my bday" you'd be thinking some sort of way.
I see where you were going with it. She IS your child's mother and you HAVE known her for a long time and quite frankly you DO care about her and her well being but the answer is YES you Did in fact "cross the line". If another special occasion arises I have a very helpful hint for you. When you're buying a gift for child's mother simply think to yourself " if my baby mama had a man would HE be ok with another man giving her _______?" <--- insert gift in blank space. See! It's that easy. That's how you know what's appropriate and what's not cause I can tell you right now if YOUR wife came home talking bout "hey boo look at all this stuff Larry my "co worker" got me for my bday" you'd be thinking some sort of way.
dude made his wife seem like the side chick 
Breh, there will be repercussions and consquences to pay in the near future for this one.
HalfwayHandsome
A WALKING LICK #502C0MEUP
It was taken from anither site but whoever that dude is hes dumb as fukk
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
she gone get mad just cuz she can
Elle Driver
Veteran
It depends on how it's being presented, if y'all are cordial I don't see why not, it shows a sense of respect for each other. But it should've been from a collective place, where both the wife/husband or husband/daughter presented the gift, instead of just the husband in my opinion that's where the sneakiness lies. It depends on how the wife takes it, me personally I don't see the problem in that. Obviously you'll still care about ya baby muva and it's a kind gesture, but it should've been communicated with the wife.
you fukked up by not discussing with your wife. it dont matter if it was a 5 dollar gift card
You fukked up all on your own
mcdivit85
Superstar
Dude, you doin too much.
People kill me with that "he/she is mother/father of my child" bullsh#t. Yea, they are that role, but remember, they're your babymama/baby daddy and not your wife/husband for a reason. This is why some people tend to stay away from people with children because they tend to hold onto to silly ideas of how they should treat their ex. Having a child with someone does NOT excuse disrespectful behavior towards the person you're with.
Keep it trill, you trying to have your BM on the side, playa? Because this kinda goes beyond "hey, have a nice birthday." Gift card, that's platonic enough. But perfume and a bracelet? That's the type of gift you give to a chick you smash or want to smash again.
Oh, and you do know that your wife is going to do some disrespectful sh#t in kind, right? And not a rebuttal will be heard.
Peace
People kill me with that "he/she is mother/father of my child" bullsh#t. Yea, they are that role, but remember, they're your babymama/baby daddy and not your wife/husband for a reason. This is why some people tend to stay away from people with children because they tend to hold onto to silly ideas of how they should treat their ex. Having a child with someone does NOT excuse disrespectful behavior towards the person you're with.
Keep it trill, you trying to have your BM on the side, playa? Because this kinda goes beyond "hey, have a nice birthday." Gift card, that's platonic enough. But perfume and a bracelet? That's the type of gift you give to a chick you smash or want to smash again.
Oh, and you do know that your wife is going to do some disrespectful sh#t in kind, right? And not a rebuttal will be heard.
Peace
ThatTruth777
Superstar
she prolly thinking you on the sideline like "ayo you like those gifts I sent you 
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"Soooooo....you get that gift I sent?You was trying to hit it on the low nikka, don't front.
i'm saying...dude gave her SAKS FIFTH AVENUE cards...couldn't even stop himself at MacysNothing wrong with buying her something but all that shyt nikka??
