Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You have every right to date someone on your financial level or higher. Have those expectations for yourself by all means. I just dont understand when women say they dont want a broke man, you all get so mad. Honestly, i know where i stand. Broke nikkas find somewhere else to cry maybe starting at an unemployment center.

It’s nothing wrong with women wanting a financially stable man..
But with the logic you are using..
Why do women get so mad when a breh says he doesn’t want an obese woman or a single mother
You can’t sit out here and spout bullshyt(like this article)..
Then get all butt hurt when men have requirements..
It’s blatant hypocrisy..

 

[It is a mystery]

TLR doesnt read yet again
Ive never seen any subforum that can get offended so easily while refusing to read what is offending them
There is literally NOTHING wrong with article and people here could easily gain insight reading it but instead damn near 99% of the people here caught feelings from the title and none of the discussion here is even relevant to their point

 

[NerdNash]

Just chase your purpose man these women ain’t going anywhere. There’s new chicks graduating from college every year

 

[the cac mamba]

A man of means writing this title would unleash hell...

"Dear Older Women: We aren't obligated to Date You"

 

[philmonroe]

What if she doesn't have student loans lol?

Why yall so heated and bitter in these threads?

Oh I forgot black women are the only ones who aren't allowed to have any standards.

Sucker simp exposing theirselves. FOH clown you can't no p*ssy being a flunky online

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

This post is not fair to black women.

1. A lot of black women are spending their salaries on grown a$$ family members & being guilted into doing so when they push back on the entitlement. This is, most likely, an underlying reason for debt.
2. Student debt is crippling everyone, although I admit, black women are probably the largest group negatively affected.
3. There’s also the prevalent practice of “building a man” only for that relationship to not end up in marriage. If dudes are not marrying their day 1’s, is the “build him up” investment worth your time?
4. A lot of black women saw their mothers take care of a able bodied men & refuse to do that themselves. I literally have a friend making six figures. Her mom was laid off & is most likely too old to be hired. The husband hasn’t worked in YEARS. Yet, the mom has a whole mortgage to pay. Men that rely on women to live are not men, IMO.

I’m all for keeping both black men & women accountable. But we can’t shun black women for making poor relationship choices, then shun them for trying to avoid the same poor relationship choices.

What’s your definition of shunning if you mind me asking?

I know what shunning means, but I want to know what you mean by this?

 

[BXKingPin82]

"You cant get paid in a Earth this big?
You worthless kid!
nikka dont deserve to live."

 

[Serious]

Based on gender dynamics, this is the same thing as a man saying "dear ugly women, don't be mad we won't date you."

I don't see a problem.

But hit dogs will holler.

I mean if your broke your focus shouldnt even be a woman.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You have every right to date someone on your financial level or higher. Have those expectations for yourself by all means. I just dont understand when women say they dont want a broke man, you all get so mad. Honestly, i know where i stand. Broke nikkas find somewhere else to cry maybe starting at an unemployment center.

What about men saying they don't want fat girls

Cause um
If that's u in your avi

U a hefty cinch sack body having ass chick

This post is not fair to black women.

1. A lot of black women are spending their salaries on grown a$$ family members & being guilted into doing so when they push back on the entitlement. This is, most likely, an underlying reason for debt.
2. Student debt is crippling everyone, although I admit, black women are probably the largest group negatively affected.
3. There’s also the prevalent practice of “building a man” only for that relationship to not end up in marriage. If dudes are not marrying their day 1’s, is the “build him up” investment worth your time?
4. A lot of black women saw their mothers take care of a able bodied men & refuse to do that themselves. I literally have a friend making six figures. Her mom was laid off & is most likely too old to be hired. The husband hasn’t worked in YEARS. Yet, the mom has a whole mortgage to pay. Men that rely on women to live are not men, IMO.

I’m all for keeping both black men & women accountable. But we can’t shun black women for making poor relationship choices, then shun them for trying to avoid the same poor relationship choices.

U literally making the same point she made




I swear mane

 

[philmonroe]

Some posters in here are like "ha ha ha y'all mad cause y'all broke" it's not about that it's about women's hypocrisy.

I also like how people say folks are broke but we have no evidence that cats are broke or not on either side. Hell the nikkas doing the most clit licking could be broke working on their pandering game. Where them pandering dudes at with their bank accounts shown to prove they ain't broke themselves?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I mean if your broke your focus shouldnt even be a woman.

I agree with this, but it does seem like there’s a punishment for men having standards. The author of the article has a good premise but she looks like this

Spoiler

 

[Serious]

I agree with this, but it does seem like there’s a punishment for men having standards. The author of the article has a good premise but she looks like this

Spoiler

I have no problems not being broke, but she definitely isn't in my league, let alone remotely on my radar....

That's why I try not to take the vile internet comments to seriously, because the people talking the most shyt are probably below average themselves.

 

[8WON6]

Am i the first person to check to see who wrote this mess?
I'm pretty sure she don't even date black men, but that don't stop her from speaking on shyt.

 

[Matt504]

I mean if your broke your focus shouldnt even be a woman.

nikkas spend more energy chasing p*ssy than chasing money or learning things that might put them in better positions.

 

[Bumblebreh]

It’s nothing wrong with women wanting a financially stable man..
But with the logic you are using..
Why do women get so mad when a breh says he doesn’t want an obese woman or a single mother
You can’t sit out here and spout bullshyt(like this article)..
Then get all butt hurt when men have requirements..
It’s blatant hypocrisy..

But what does it mean to be financially stable in modern america?Wanting to be with someone who is financially secure and financially independent is fine but if your debt is 2 or 3 times higher when compared to what you bring home every year after taxes.How can someone even mention financially stability when they are no where near that spectrum.
To me financially stability is being able to live comfortably without having to damage credit and being able to save over 25 percent of my monthly earnings and have multiple incomes that can cover my basic living habits.