Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[UberEatsDriver]

I decided to do an experiment, I'd read every post except the OP and THEN read the article.

After doing this, there are only two possible conclusions in my opinion, either many of the nikkas in here have extremely poor reading comprehension or they're simply not reading the article at all and forming their opinions on it based on the thread title.

Or maybe they read it and are just forming their own opinion? This article isn’t new by the way!

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Based on gender dynamics, this is the same thing as a man saying "dear ugly women, don't be mad we won't date you."

I don't see a problem.

But hit dogs will holler.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

bedwench babble. Ignore the system of white supremacy that disportionality makes black men poor, and puposley lifts black women over them to destroy the family structure.

BINGO!

 

[Jhoon]

American women remain the WOAT by a long shot.
What did nikkas do to deserve these hoes?

Listen to one of them.

 

[Payroll]

What else ?

 

[ezrathegreat]

No, actually their mad that women who are probably broke are calling broke men out.

Why do SImPS like you have poor comprehension?

Newsflash!!! Human beings(women in particular) are hypocritical. Like all of us, they want their cake and to eat it too.As long as you are a healthy, financially stable man, you will have your pick of the litter.

 

[TntBdx]

This article only applies to ugly or average looking cats, every hood got that one broke ass but handsome super fly nikka that makes a living finessing boss bytches or career women, sometimes you ain't even gotta be that fly.

It's been like that for a very long time tho, nothing to be mad about.

 

[Imogen]

So why isn’t the article titled “Dear Broken Men, us high caliber women aren’t entitled to date you”?

You sound dumb as hell right now.

Half the women under the title “women” are broke and struggling and I better not be called out and ripped apart when I leave those women in the dust.

You have every right to date someone on your financial level or higher. Have those expectations for yourself by all means. I just dont understand when women say they dont want a broke man, you all get so mad. Honestly, i know where i stand. Broke nikkas find somewhere else to cry maybe starting at an unemployment center.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Newsflash!!! Human beings(women in particular) are hypocritical. Like all of us, they want their cake and to eat it too.As long as you are a healthy, financially stable man, you will have your pick of the litter.

I’m happy I’m never in a rush to be in a relationship or get married. Watch my parents marriage flourish and I want the exact same thing.

 

[southern.girl]

Willing to bet the amount of her student loans that this bytch broke as hell. Why are people getting dumber instead of smarter with all the instant knowledge we have at our fingertips?

$50,000 a year after taxes and an $900+ apartment, $350 car note, utilities, $400 student loan payment, credit cards, 580 credit score and 8 people sharing a motel room on a trip to Essence Music festival does NOT make you any less broke than the dudes you tryin to humble.

Ladies if this is you: STAPH IT!

This post is not fair to black women.

1. A lot of black women are spending their salaries on grown a$$ family members & being guilted into doing so when they push back on the entitlement. This is, most likely, an underlying reason for debt.
2. Student debt is crippling everyone, although I admit, black women are probably the largest group negatively affected.
3. There’s also the prevalent practice of “building a man” only for that relationship to not end up in marriage. If dudes are not marrying their day 1’s, is the “build him up” investment worth your time?
4. A lot of black women saw their mothers take care of a able bodied men & refuse to do that themselves. I literally have a friend making six figures. Her mom was laid off & is most likely too old to be hired. The husband hasn’t worked in YEARS. Yet, the mom has a whole mortgage to pay. Men that rely on women to live are not men, IMO.

I’m all for keeping both black men & women accountable. But we can’t shun black women for making poor relationship choices, then shun them for trying to avoid the same poor relationship choices.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

An "online relationship coach" who calls herself "shantell em" with 668 followers wrote this article.
Her network is "broke" and she has no platform presence.
This is her big break.
We should all help boost her clout on social media, because writing incendiary articles isn't increasing her visibility at all.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

But non black woman are lol.

They seek US out. We don't advertise much outside of jokes.
These same publications have swirler articles but that marriage rate ain't moving.

White men have had unrestricted sexual access to y'all for 500 years, stop advertising. shyt is

 

[AAKing23]

This post is not fair to black women.

1. A lot of black women are spending their salaries on grown a$$ family members & being guilted into doing so when they push back on the entitlement. This is, most likely, an underlying reason for debt.
2. Student debt is crippling everyone, although I admit, black women are probably the largest group negatively affected.
3. There’s also the prevalent practice of “building a man” only for that relationship to not end up in marriage. If dudes are not marrying their day 1’s, is the “build him up” investment worth your time?
4. A lot of black women saw their mothers take care of a able bodied men & refuse to do that themselves. I literally have a friend making six figures. Her mom was laid off & is most likely too old to be hired. The husband hasn’t worked in YEARS. Yet, the mom has a whole mortgage to pay. Men that rely on women to live are not men, IMO.

I’m all for keeping both black men & women accountable. But we can’t shun black women for making poor relationship choices, then shun them for trying to avoid the same poor relationship choices.

Brehette you're making our point...

It is unfair to punish or stereotype black women for things such as student loans, credit card debt, taking care of no good men/family members when there are socioeconomic and systemic reasons why black women are the most affected by these things. To simply label it as just "Black women not doing enough" would be lazy and ignorant.

Just as it is also unfair and hypocritical for these same women to go make the cast the same judgement on black men as a whole for "being broke" when there are socioeconomic and systemic reasons why black men make less compared to other races of men. To simply label it as "Black men are broke because they're lazy and not trying" would be lazy and ignorant as well. Especially when these women are not balling like that either.


It's not fair to either side...

 

[the bossman]

Hell, women with money want to date and not spend a dime on the man.

When a woman is really feeling you then she got no problems spending her money on you. Stop dating broads who feel wishy-washy about you

 

[Matt504]

I’m all for keeping both black men & women accountable. But we can’t shun black women for making poor relationship choices, then shun them for trying to avoid the same poor relationship choices.

Black men: Black women need to help build with Black men who have been economically disenfranchised by white supremacy.

Also Black men: No one told her to date a bum. choose better brehettes