dealing with modern women is unbearable

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If i have to go out in the blazing sun cut the lawn every weekend. Go out in the freezing cold shovel the driveway, salt the steps. Etc. clean her car, lift all the heavy stuff. And pay for date night even though we both work, then yeah shes cooking and cleaning

My ex girlfriend wanted to save all her money while I paid for everything. She thought that was a man's role.

In her mind a husband should pay all the mortgage and utilities, cable internet, car notes insurance etc. And the woman should only have to pay for groceries and other household items like appliances and furniture.

Many of the black women I encounter have some variation of the same thinking

Yep, that entitlement will kill their hopes of marriage
 

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I didn't read through the thread but this is my advice to y'all.

You don't attract what you want. You attract what you are, or what you think.

So, if you think you are just ok, you'll attract ok people. If you settle for mediocre, you'll attract mediocre people. If you are working on yourself, you'll attract people who are working on themselves. If you think all women are hoes and bytches, then you are gonna attract hoes and bytches. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.

Here's another one: if you place your worth in what you own or how much money you have, you'll attract people who do the same.

Just live your life, focus on self improvement. You can still make connections with people, keep that door open. Remember to make yourself a priority, love yourself first. This way you'll attract someone who makes you a priority.
 

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I didn't read through the thread but this is my advice to y'all.

You don't attract what you want. You attract what you are, or what you think.

So, if you think you are just ok, you'll attract ok people. If you settle for mediocre, you'll attract mediocre people. If you are working on yourself, you'll attract people who are working on themselves. If you think all women are hoes and bytches, then you are gonna attract hoes and bytches. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.

Here's another one: if you place your worth in what you own or how much money you have, you'll attract people who do the same.

Just live your life, focus on self improvement. You can still make connections with people, keep that door open. Remember to make yourself a priority, love yourself first. This way you'll attract someone who makes you a priority.
are u in a relationship?
 

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If it makes you feel any better I wouldn't be getting girls if it weren't for my futon and $10 an hour job.

:yeshrug:
hank i seen it the first time ...alright...it was a good line....bro


since u want acknowledgment
 

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I said How? how @CinnaSlim how @Strawberry


u aint got the answers...how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ive tried everything over the years...i been stuck with thots and evil back stabbers



im ready to quit and just have sex with backpage girls


:stopitslime:
Dude, I'm trying to help you but you refuse to listen. ( :wtf: )

I'm telling you to approach girls randomly. The more, the merrier. If nothing else, it will be an experience for you to learn from aka practice picking up the right girl.

I'm the type of girl that believes in being in the right place at the right time and that things happen for a reason, so when a guy approaches me at random when I'm not expecting it I'm like :krs:

You literally never know when the right person will walk into your life.

You have to jump at opportunities. :ufdup:

If it doesn't work out, no big deal, keep that shyt movin! No time to waste, nah mean?
:umad:
 

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saw this today on the dr.'s tube channel :laugh:

Signs that a woman clearly isn't dateable (Be prepared to laugh)


Sad thing is if a man was as selective on which women he chooses to claim as he is with who they lay with they would haveess problems with women.

Whats the point to brag that you are not wifing a chick when you have a trail lf kids that you will need to support for the rest of your life.
 

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My dad passed away when I was 10 and I was raised by a very STRONG single mother and I turned out okay.

:yeshrug:

I can take care of myself, cook, clean, communicate, share, love, etc.

I'm pretty dominant myself so I need a nice strong man to keep me in check. :lolbron:

Men who think I'm easy to manipulate will be extremely disappointed.

Mi nuh easy! :pacspit:




I feel sorry for you too.

Most of my friends are dudes and we have the best of adventures together, plus we both have the advantage of having a dope wingman or wingwoman whenever we go out & party :umad:




Nothing, for someone like you :russ:

Just because you were raised by a single mother didn't mean you did not have a father FIGURE in your life
Plus you said until ten
 

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:stopitslime:
Dude, I'm trying to help you but you refuse to listen. ( :wtf: )

I'm telling you to approach girls randomly. The more, the merrier. If nothing else, it will be an experience for you to learn from aka practice picking up the right girl.

I'm the type of girl that believes in being in the right place at the right time and that things happen for a reason, so when a guy approaches me at random when I'm not expecting it I'm like :krs:

You literally never know when the right person will walk into your life.

You have to jump at opportunities. :ufdup:

If it doesn't work out, no big deal, keep that shyt movin! No time to waste, nah mean?
:umad:
listen im not doing the random thing.....im not, thats some HS shyt....Im only talking to women that show interest


ive graduated from that stage and eat rejection...i paid my dudes...i shouldve have to resort to cold approaching, thats for young dudes
 
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Some women do and others dont. Keep playing the game of an eye for an eye. Lets see how fat it gets you in the relationship arena.

...okay yeah you don't get but it all good. Women always talk about being objects but it's funny how society dosent say anything about how WOMEN look at men as SUCCESS OBJECTS. I personally want to be a renaissance man cause I value other things than money and what it attracts...because I believe what I value is enternal in me and everything will come it the external is right. At 31 it's just conversation I'm not willing to have. The scope of what I'm talking about is way over your head. It's funny you mention patrice oneal. One thing I learned from him is that while US men try to figure and wonder how to figure women out....yall could give a damn about what we want. See most me are good a getting women. ..women aren't good a keeping a man. I say that because you learn about men from MEN ...not from WOMEN. I can't meet a women who's personality is BETTER THAN mine because I work on it day in and day out. I work on being a renaissance man day in and day out. You ask what a renaissance man is to a lot of these woman ...they could even tell you. And you better believe it more than just patrice oneal out here men are getting wiser. But you know what's funny @Yup even patrice wife VON didn't know patrice oneal HELPED so many men until he died. Say what you thoe.
 
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listen im not doing the random thing.....im not, thats some HS shyt....Im only talking to women that show interest


ive graduated from that stage and eat rejection...i paid my dudes...i shouldve have to resort to cold approaching, thats for young dudes


Not true at least for me on the cold approaching . Talking to women is a skill and if don't talk to women I believe you lose that skill. Women don't need skill they beauty is they skill. Most women don't have mouth pieces if you listen to them...lol. they have no skill to GET what they want so women HOPE Mr right just walks right in and either way as a man you have to AUDITION cold approach or not.
 
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