dealing with modern women is unbearable

[Yup]

exactly, u cant even answer the question
'

maybe im right?

i know good women exist....its just a small %

out of the women you want.

 

[PeridotPuss]

y'all hoes stuck living in duckberg

We live free in Duckberg. Our titties swing free. Our panties are big and white (or neon and freaky when we like ). Our opinions matter. Duckberg is life!!

 

[Yup]

We live free in Duckberg. Our titties swing free. Our panties are big and white (or neon and freaky when we like ). Our opinions matter. Duckberg is life!!

Lol

 

[DrX]

I hang out in random places, so I'm not the best example.

Try being open to girls wherever you are.

This guy randomly approached me in passing at the liquor store one night (I was leaving as he was entering).

I've been approached enough times while out & about in the city, running errands, etc.

Been approached while chillin in parks.

Was even approached in a library once or twice.

Just get out there. Go on a rampage until you kind some quality chick you wanna keep around.



This post makes me want to get drunk. I feel sad for you.



Good for you for learning not to let your severe lack of p*ssy bother you. You're probably gay anyways

im no lame....im not chasing ass....

 

[DemureNatural]

THIS is what they don't understand!

To men, equality means them doing less while the woman does more.

This ain't it! If your woman works a 9-5, splits the rent, and cares for the kids...


WHY is she expected to do all the cooking and cleaning too?




Black men and their entitlement is out of control.

I think this is less black male and more MALE in general. Times have changed, but their minds haven't kept up.

 

[Yup]

im no lame....im not chasing ass....

but you are making thread crying about women....but thats not lame.​

 

[DemureNatural]

Idk about all this overdone topic but do yall actually talk to married women about how they honestly feel about their marriages? Or how most husband's and father's behave day in and day out?

Most women end up middle aged, slightly overweight, bogged down with kids that they are primarily responsible for and live with for 20 years or more (unlike a looooot of men who are able to return to lives very similar to what they had before marriage following a divorce like dating and living alone), and are often cheated on or flat out neglected for golf/work/sports or any other variety of things that become waayyyyy more interesting than "the wife". Women often feel misunderstood, ignored, and emotionally drained or starved.... (that's why everybody old head female relatives usually spend tons of time at church....but that's another topic for another day).

Feminism taught us that once achieved financial equality......we needed to take a harder look at what men where actually bringing to our lives romantically.

The only thing hung over our pretty little heads is a fear of ending up "old, bitter and alone" but that's exactly the life of many married or committed women anyway. ...so....

Better question, why are men mad that women supposedly played themselves out of your male greatness? How does this harm you?

Even dying "bitter and alone" is a personal choice.....but it's actually less bitter and less lonely for women who understand who they were created to be, keep themselves in shape, that know God is the focus, that looking fly and making boss level decisions career wise feels awesome and there's a whole world to see..

Excellent comment! I think despite the feminist movement and things moving toward male/female equality, a lot of people still have the traditional male/female societal roles embedded in their minds. I think a lot of men expect that his S/O work full time and take care of the house (to include cooking, cleaning, and child rearing (if there are children). I think women try to be superwomen and do it all and end up burned out rather than asking for help or ensuring that her potential mate doesn't have that certain mindset.

 

[Strawberry]

im no lame....im not chasing ass....

I'm not tellin you to chase I'm just sayin be open. SAY HELLO when you see a girl that attracts you.

How you gonna sit there and complain that you can't find a decent woman when you're not even making a valid effort?

 

[Malta]

In other words, its all good being Batman but having Robin makes fighting crime better...

Of course you have the unhappy, but i've also seen happy families and what they have for me is enough to convenience me

Yes, this proud loner shyt is new mayn

Since you referenced comic books, not every superhero had a sidekick



Nope, it's not new, hermits & spinsters always been around.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Excellent comment! I think despite the feminist movement and things moving toward male/female equality, a lot of people still have the traditional male/female societal roles embedded in their minds. I think a lot of men expect that his S/O work full time and take care of the house (to include cooking, cleaning, and child rearing (if there are children). I think women try to be superwomen and do it all and end up burned out rather than asking for help or ensuring that her potential mate doesn't have that certain mindset.

I completely agree and it isn't practical and I think ultimately the marriages suffer. There is some truth to the "happy wife, happy life" motto and I think as women obtained higher levels of education and economic power, our needs and wants in relationships and within the family unit shifted and society has not caught up with that shift. As a result, women who deviate from this - either by being sexually free and non-committal are societally shamed as sluts and women who focus on career over family are often shunned as cold, selfish and not in touch with their "feminine" side.

I like to see this discussion on a male board and I'm new here - but I have seen few male opinions I consider "surprising" but I have respected the guys who were just flat out honest....at least from there we can start a discussion about how men and women can meet in the middle because 2015 is basically like "the future" and the world is changing.... something my mother always says "If it were up to men...the world would never change" just something to think about....

 

[Yup]

Excellent comment! I think despite the feminist movement and things moving toward male/female equality, a lot of people still have the traditional male/female societal roles embedded in their minds. I think a lot of men expect that his S/O work full time and take care of the house (to include cooking, cleaning, and child rearing (if there are children). I think women try to be superwomen and do it all and end up burned out rather than asking for help or ensuring that her potential mate doesn't have that certain mindset.

That happened to my mother not only was she working but she was taking care of us and even doing stuff that my dad was supposed to be doing. My dad was a pampered housewife and had the audacity to beat his chest and say that i am the man with his african inflated ego.

I really dont know how my mom never divorced him. I am never going to let a man guilt me that for not being a perfect housewife if i am working outside the home just as much he is. He better pitch in around the house or you get dropped.

Funny thing is after my parents divorced i asked my dad why?

He said my mom didnt support him and his aspirations to have gis own business.

Mind you, the dude would leave for months throughout the year to travel for "business opportunities" while my mom busted her ass to send him money earning minimum wage, raising us and managing a household by herself when she was married.

That's why im never intimidated by guys on here who insult women for not having man. What good is a man if he would leave you to fend for yourself and be horrible to you when you can live by yourself until youn find the right person.

Still, i strongly believe in solid in relationships and mariage but one thing ive learned is you have to be less selfish.

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

@Strawberry don't cry for me Argentina,weep for the fate of the world,cause the time is nigh,Anpu got the feathers ready at hand..

 

[re'up]

Some of you here, and many others I know would fit perfect in the 1950's or the 1800's with some of these views....Archaic, stereotypical gender roles that aren't about feminism ruining anything, it's about society advancing beyond remedial roles that were established in vastly different times, and to be honest, were fukked up back then too. Cooking cleaning and housework while the man is the provider is about as quaint and old fashioned as JFK and covered wagons. If you want that, go for it, but don't be angry if women aren't fukking with it. And, if they want to be bottle rats and club bytches til its too late, well thats a foolish choice, but their choice, and it's not an eitheror question at all....it is embarrassing when men and women talk in these cliches and gender stereotypes....How many friends I have who wifed up a girl, basically demanded she cook/clean/whatever, while they footed the bill and then the (men) RESENTED the fukk out of them for it...it's classic misogyny and lack of self awareness.....as far as women, only how I feel about them, and how they feel about me is what I care about, and obviously behavior and actions, but NOT cooking, cleaning, domestic responsibilities...I could give a fukk.

women and men are like 90% biologically the same, all the double standards and extra shyt is created by society, and both gender are responsible for their part in creating and advancing these stereotypes and roles...I was telling some girl how we all fundamentally want the same things, but ask for them in different ways....treat people as simply fukking human first, women and men are not sub species to each other, both genders are guilty as fukk of that.

 

[DrX]

I'm not tellin you to chase I'm just sayin be open. SAY HELLO when you see a girl that attracts you.

How you gonna sit there and complain that you can't find a decent woman when you're not even making a valid effort?

how do u know i make a valid effort or not?...i dont do the random approach thing...I talk to women that show signs of interest

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]