Dating is such a waste of time. I think I'm done with it

[DJSmooth]

Not on some incel shyt. But, at this point in my life taking a girl out on a date is so unfulfilling. I'd much rather just meet up my place or her place. The whole going to get something to eat shyt, movie shyt, it's played, and it doesn't really make sense to do it from the guys perspective.

Like, you (the woman) need / want for us to go out somewhere to get to know us and even though you (the woman) having that necessity or desire it's expected the man pays. It makes zero sense.

If it comes down to a comfortability thing then you shouldn't even be down to dating the guy in the first place if you're just that scared of a random man. You should be dating men that you would like to be fukked by anyways.

I say I'm done with it cuz it's just such a needless thing, a drain on money and time. Carrying the conversation. Making the decisions where to go etc. It's a heavy ass lift and I just see no fukking benefit to the shyt anymore.

I see why a lot of men aren't on that date shyt anymore. It's practically something only enjoyed by the woman. Because I could sure as shyt get to know you at my house.

Let's speak on it.

Men, do you actually enjoy taking a woman out on a date? If so please explain why.

Women, why are you into dates? Is there appeal to it outside of being treated to an outing? I am genuinely trying to understand.

Thank you. Have a great start to your week brehs/brehettes.

I don't enjoy first dates. We are pretty much there to see if we have chemistry or not.

I do enjoy dates with women I actually rock with and have nice personalities. Hanging out with women shouldn't be a chore.. " I'm just here 2 hours so I can get some ass after." It's quality women out there.

 

[Lord_nikon]

I rather go on a date to the smithsonian museum Then a dumb as place to eat

 

[DPresidential]

Paul Allen said he got a table.

Oh...well...nobody goes to Dorsia anymore anyways.

Take her home afterwards

 

[Leao2005]

Two out of the three times I took the girls I dated out this year, the first time I paid for their things (her ice cream during a walk on the beach; 20 dollar meal all together), they both was a bit adamant about paying for their side before I let them know I got it.

I’m pretty sure that’s a good sign

 

[MajesticLion]

Unceasing psyops.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Something physical, and free or outdoors.

Like one Breh said, just try to expand your social pallette by doing new things, stop focusing on the woman like a simp the whole time. If she's still around after the date, she deserves your company the second time.

Win win. Most of the time we are giving shallow women too much credit.

Another fact said earlier was to stop entertaining women you don't like to save face.

Walk away and keep moving.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

You guys will like dating more if you pick venues / activities that you enjoy and can afford AS WELL AS not be pressed about getting laid. People can pick up on desperation and overcompensation.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Ya but who says you gotta go eat for a date to be a date?
My first date I took her to an arcade, ya she never called me back but still.

on another date we went Divvy biking around Chicago, it was fun.

another date went for a walk & sat at the park & brought some granola bars that were on special

 

[the bossman]

It's Summer time. You don't even have to spend no major bread on dates if you don't want. Hit a farmers market or just hit up a park nearby. If a chick is into you then she ain't really gonna care where yall go

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

Also Picnics are a pretty safe bet in summer and when it's not rainy. Just tell her to bring water or a big bag of chips.

I wouldn't want a woman idk at my house. Could set me up.

these dudes don’t know how to be creative when taking these women out, chicks out here getting stalked after dates and people expect these girls to be open for strangers to come over their cribs

 

[Neuromancer]

these dudes don’t know how to be creative when taking these women out, chicks out here getting stalked after dates and people expect these girls to be open for strangers to come over their cribs

Tbh a lot of women aren't worth the creativity.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Two out of the three times I took the girls I dated out this year, the first time I paid for their things (her ice cream during a walk on the beach; 20 dollar meal all together), they both was a bit adamant about paying for their side before I let them know I got it.

I’m pretty sure that’s a good sign

just means that they didnt want to have sex with you
they wanted to pay for themselves...so u dont pressure them to give up the yams

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Date with a purpose or just tellem you want to Fukk and go from there...

 

[FS4LFE]

I’m not taking dating advice from anyone on this site. Most of y’all seem hurt and miserable.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

Tbh a lot of women aren't worth the creativity.

you put way too much emphasis on the word creative, you don’t have to spend money forreal to entertain these women.