Dating is such a waste of time. I think I'm done with it

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Take the woman somewhere YOU want to go. If she into it then you have a potential match on your hands, if not then you got to do something you wanted to do anyway.

exactly

tbh dating is fun

 

[GreenGhxst]

Why dont you go on dates to places you actually enjoy and do things you enjoy doing. Take her into your world.

Why do the movie and dinner generic date. I could see how that would get boring.

 

[Neuromancer]

On a Friday night? How am I supposed to swing that?

Paul Allen said he got a table.

 

[AceMan]

Not on some incel shyt. But, at this point in my life taking a girl out on a date is so unfulfilling. I'd much rather just meet up my place or her place. The whole going to get something to eat shyt, movie shyt, it's played, and it doesn't really make sense to do it from the guys perspective.

Like, you (the woman) need / want for us to go out somewhere to get to know us and even though you (the woman) having that necessity or desire it's expected the man pays. It makes zero sense.

If it comes down to a comfortability thing then you shouldn't even be down to dating the guy in the first place if you're just that scared of a random man. You should be dating men that you would like to be fukked by anyways.

I say I'm done with it cuz it's just such a needless thing, a drain on money and time. Carrying the conversation. Making the decisions where to go etc. It's a heavy ass lift and I just see no fukking benefit to the shyt anymore.

I see why a lot of men aren't on that date shyt anymore. It's practically something only enjoyed by the woman. Because I could sure as shyt get to know you at my house.

Let's speak on it.

Men, do you actually enjoy taking a woman out on a date? If so please explain why.

Women, why are you into dates? Is there appeal to it outside of being treated to an outing? I am genuinely trying to understand.

Thank you. Have a great start to your week brehs/brehettes.

Just say you're not getting pu$$y and you're frustrated by THAT

 

[Zero]

Paul Allen said he got a table.

Oh...well...nobody goes to Dorsia anymore anyways.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Also to add, some of the best dates are those that don’t require a lot of cash or flashy shyt.

Some of my best dates were hiking. Grocery shopping and meal prepping together. Farmer’s markets. Breakfast and hitting the trail or boardwalk afterwards. Mini road trips.
Exploring waterfalls. Museums.
Just sharing the fun and interesting parts of your life you usually do on your own.
It doesn’t have to be complicated.
But I know some people are shytty so it can be difficult sometimes.

 

[RareHunter]

Not on some incel shyt. But, at this point in my life taking a girl out on a date is so unfulfilling. I'd much rather just meet up my place or her place. The whole going to get something to eat shyt, movie shyt, it's played, and it doesn't really make sense to do it from the guys perspective.

Like, you (the woman) need / want for us to go out somewhere to get to know us and even though you (the woman) having that necessity or desire it's expected the man pays. It makes zero sense.

If it comes down to a comfortability thing then you shouldn't even be down to dating the guy in the first place if you're just that scared of a random man. You should be dating men that you would like to be fukked by anyways.

I say I'm done with it cuz it's just such a needless thing, a drain on money and time. Carrying the conversation. Making the decisions where to go etc. It's a heavy ass lift and I just see no fukking benefit to the shyt anymore.

I see why a lot of men aren't on that date shyt anymore. It's practically something only enjoyed by the woman. Because I could sure as shyt get to know you at my house.

Let's speak on it.

Men, do you actually enjoy taking a woman out on a date? If so please explain why.

Women, why are you into dates? Is there appeal to it outside of being treated to an outing? I am genuinely trying to understand.

Thank you. Have a great start to your week brehs/brehettes.

I mean a date can be fun, but most women are boring and they givin out anyways. Would rather skip the “traditional” stuff, considering what I’m dealing with.

 

[RareHunter]

If you're broke then you get you a Netflix and chill bish

A chick who is willing to fukc for a 40 oz and half a blunt of mid

Right?

Same bish was Netflix'in with a different dude last weekend. A 40 oz and half a blunt of mid is easy to come by. So she's getting a lot of action amongst the broke dudes.

A woman with a higher price point at least will have less miles simply because its more costly and difficult to get at her.

The ol 80/20 rule strikes again. The Netflix bish is the 20% of women who are fukcing with the 80% of guys who kind of struggle with puzzy

The top 20% of men don't have to do any of this mess. They have a handful of women that are all totally down for him and know that they share him.

Must be nice

Not true.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

this is coli incel talk

 

[newarkhiphop]

This.

Yall young nikkas always trying to move too fast, like yall too good for the natural flow of things

Feel the girl out, let her feel you out and yall actually try to understand each other. Only then, will dating and being around each other conversing not feel like a chore.

All yall under 30 nikkas, or perpetually single modern nikkas, is spoiled rotten

they over plan themselves into a hole, women pay attention to every detail, dudes don't and as finicky as women are after the first fuk up on this date they mentally cut you off, your just free food after that.

Go for a car ride, go for a walk, get a single cup of coffee etc do any of those before you filling up the tank on your Honda civic to take this chick out for a three course meal

also while am on the subject if you take most chicks out to big dinner they ain't gonna fuk ya 20 mins after

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Can't blame you. The dating world seems ridiculously complicated now. I remember about 10yrs ago Starbucks or meeting up at a chill lounge for drinks was cool. Now you have to take female to A type restaurant just so she can show off for Instagram. Then on top of that worry if she not gonna ghost on you and only used you for a free meal. shyts crazy

Honestly that should help you screen a new girl. If the girl feels entitled to an expensive outing then throw her into the bushes.

 

[Ahadi]

The date is usually planned around what I want to do.

If I plan on going to an art gallery exhibition, she’s invited to come along. The dates are never planned around them.

 

[Gold]

Why dont you go on dates to places you actually enjoy and do things you enjoy doing? Take her into your world.

Why do the movie and dinner generic date. I could see how that would get boring.

The fact that shyt like this even gotta be explained

The date is usually planned around what I want to do.

If I plan on going to an art gallery exhibition, she’s invited to come along. But it’s not planned to satisfy them.

Exactly.

 

[PhillyzFinest]

Not on some incel shyt. But, at this point in my life taking a girl out on a date is so unfulfilling. I'd much rather just meet up my place or her place. The whole going to get something to eat shyt, movie shyt, it's played, and it doesn't really make sense to do it from the guys perspective.

Like, you (the woman) need / want for us to go out somewhere to get to know us and even though you (the woman) having that necessity or desire it's expected the man pays. It makes zero sense.

If it comes down to a comfortability thing then you shouldn't even be down to dating the guy in the first place if you're just that scared of a random man. You should be dating men that you would like to be fukked by anyways.

I say I'm done with it cuz it's just such a needless thing, a drain on money and time. Carrying the conversation. Making the decisions where to go etc. It's a heavy ass lift and I just see no fukking benefit to the shyt anymore.

I see why a lot of men aren't on that date shyt anymore. It's practically something only enjoyed by the woman. Because I could sure as shyt get to know you at my house.

Let's speak on it.

Men, do you actually enjoy taking a woman out on a date? If so please explain why.

Women, why are you into dates? Is there appeal to it outside of being treated to an outing? I am genuinely trying to understand.

Thank you. Have a great start to your week brehs/brehettes.

Since you said you genuinely try to understand, here is the deal.

The point of contact for men and women is sex. Men are the primary aggressors for sex. Women want sex too, but it works different for them

Sex for men is a low risk / high reward activity.

Sex for women however is a moderate risk / moderate reward activity.

Women have to worry about 4 main things that men don't.

1. Their Pleasure (It's not guaranteed for women, almost always guaranteed for men)
2. Their Social Status (She has sex with a lot of men, she's a hoe. He has sex with a lot of women, he's the man)
3. Their Safety (Women get raped and assaulted by men, men almost never get raped and assaulted by women)
5. Pregnancy (Mama's baby, Papa's maybe... and even then women don't want to go through the process of abortions, hormonal affects from birth control, etc)

So women are going to naturally look for an exchange to mitigate their risks and the prospect of a lesser reward.

Different women have different exchange rates... so it varies. The most common exchange is a committed relationship with a man of means; credentials, resources and connection.

Women want/need dates to process whether they can make the exchange. Dates give them time to cover their four main concerns.

If you can spend money and plan a nice date, carry a good conversation and prepare for a meetup, it shows her you actually... oh I dunno... care about the girl and don't look at her as just a body to fukk.

Telling a girl to just come over says... "I want you to take on more risk than me, and accept the prospect of a lesser reward for this activity... in exchange for virtually nothing." This is why women try to avoid doing that.

 

[Rekkapryde]

That’s another thing. You don’t know the chick either. Invite some random chick over and she might case your crib

nikkaz asking to get Cardi B'd and shyt.