Not directed at OP, but based on a lot of threads made on here, I see why y’all struggle with women. Definitely take all advice on this site with a grain of salt.
I second the post that said, y’all need to start dealing with people that actually like y’all. And that you actually like. It will really solve all your problems.
The problem on this site is people generalize their experiences instead of realizing everything is relative and a case by case thing
Everyone is different but may share characteristics with everyone else
You have to be able to read people and know what type of person they might be
Some women might be okay with just chilling or walking around
Some want to go somewhere or eat something
It depends on the person and their personality
not everything is looks either it is also about vibes and connection
and if we are being brutally honest, a lot of people are not as attractive as they think they are
why does she chill with him but I have to take her on a date?
put 2 and 2 together
I’ll just break it down for you. Immediate invite to the crib gives off the implication that you 100% want to smash. If that’s what you’re looking for by all means straight to the crib for Netflix and chill. If you’re looking for a relationship you gotta have an icebreaker by having a date.
Think about it. If you’re looking for the one or a wife do you really want to be looking at her years from now thinking as a full grown woman she used to just go to random stranger men’s house for the first meet ups? . And during MeToo y’all better stop playing and be careful who you invite to the crib without knowing them.
And you should have found out by now but the secret is finding the perfect mix of unique and cheap type of date. Rent scooters, go to a museum, take her to a low key spot in the city that is locals only and casuals don’t know about it. I guarantee she can’t even count on hands and feet how many dinners she’s been on but something that’s different she’ll remember forever.
a lot of people are married to one but don't know it
have their fun with the men they are really attracted to and "settle" with the not as attractive safe guy
it happens all the time but no not my wife
you will never truly know your partner's sexual past or how they really got down unless they want you to know