Dating is such a waste of time. I think I'm done with it

[Laidbackman]

Be honest, which dates looked more like they could go somewhere, those first dates you saw eating at those dine-in restaurants, or those first dates you saw eating at the coffee shop, or Subway, or Boston Market, etc... I got my money on the latter category.

 

[semicko82]

Be honest, which dates looked more like they could go somewhere, those first dates you saw eating at those dine-in restaurants, or those first dates you saw eating at the coffee shop, or Subway, or Boston Market, etc... I got my money on the later category.

This could make a great thread

 

[Laidbackman]

Don't mean to go against what I just said but I just remembered, I did score with this chick after going to a restaurant on a first date. It was this crazy young Ethiopian girl I mentioned before on this site. We went to an Ethiopian restaurant, and the prices were pretty low, for such good food. And everybody seemed very peaceful. She turned me on to this meal, which was simply noodles and white cheese sauce, covered over I think a veal, or it may have been a fried boneless breast. Whatever it was, it was a nice size portion. They also gave us a lot of noodles and cheese sauce too. plus a piece of french toast to go with it. I believe a drink also came with it....and I was full. And it was only about 7 or 8 dollars for each meal. Then again, some women may not even consider this a restaurant. Now places like that, I don't mind going to. I would had probably spent more at Starbucks or Boston Market...maybe even Subway or Burger King.

Anyway, I'm not sure if they have one of those type Ethiopian restaurants in Atlanta. I know they don't have one near me. I wouldn't mine taking a sister to one of those spots for a first date. Like a poster said, it's good to find some place you really like. But I still rather it be with a sister I'm already kinda intimate with.

Tbh, they need to bring back those college days, where everybody took their dates to their favorite pizza joint, and you didn't need a waiter, and the pizza tasted just as good as Pizza Hut or Dominoes. This never fail me back in the day, even after I temporarily dropped out of college (don't like using that term). And I still love me some pizza. A lot of these sisters need to come down off that restaurant/waiter thing, especially on a first date. They know good and well they still love themselves some pizza. Ain't this the way they did it on "Happy Days" and "What's Happening", minus Big Shirley...lol, Man they sure messed things up since then. Anyway, I'm sure there are small spots like that for adults too, just like Pizza Hut have adults.

 

[DaHNIC82]

The effects of hyperrealism. Another thing is that dudes and chicks actually believe these jokers online when they say the shyt they doing or getting.
Men be lying all the time talm bout how much p*ssy they CONSTANTLY getting. Chicks be lying ALL the time talm bout how many dudes they got spending money on them. People troll people all the time and some people be believing these idiots. And not only do they believe them, but they also compare their own circumstances to these people who flossing for the Gram, and then they feel inadequate because they don't measure up.

So we got people feeling bad about not being able to measure up to a bunch of false lifestyles online and then going to extremes to try and get results that a lot of others aint even getting either. Its just a never ending cycle of bullshyt.
"Yeah man, she sucked my dikk as soon as I got to the spot!"
"Gurl! He spent $800 on me!"

So now everybody basing what they think dating should be off Twitter shyt when only like 7% of people are actually active twitter users. We basing our self-esteem off liars. I'll never forget when the Coli educated me on the music industry. Them artists be renting fukking chains and cars but be broke and enslaved to entire record labels, while our regular regular asses sitting here wishing we could be like them.

5 star post

 

[semicko82]

Don't mean to go against what I just said but I just remembered, I did score with this chick after going to a restaurant on a first date. It was this crazy young Ethiopian girl I mentioned before on this site. We went to an Ethiopian restaurant, and the prices were pretty low, for such good food. And everybody seemed very peaceful. She turned me on to this meal, which was simply noodles and white cheese sauce, covered over I think a veal, or it may have been a fried boneless breast. Whatever it was, it was a nice size portion. They also gave us a lot of noodles and cheese sauce too. plus a piece of french toast to go with it. I believe a drink also came with it....and I was full. And it was only about 7 or 8 dollars for each meal. Then again, some women may not even consider this a restaurant. Now places like that, I don't mind going to. I would had probably spent more at Starbucks or Boston Market...maybe even Subway or Burger King.

Anyway, I'm not sure if they have one of those type Ethiopian restaurants in Atlanta. I know they don't have one near me. I wouldn't mine taking a sister to one of those spots for a first date. Like a poster said, it's good to find some place you really like. But I still rather it be with a sister I'm already kinda intimate with.

Tbh, they need to bring back those college days, where everybody took their dates to their favorite pizza joint, and you didn't need a waiter, and the pizza tasted just as good as Pizza Hut or Dominoes. This never fail me back in the day, even after I temporarily dropped out of college (don't like using that term). And I still love me some pizza. A lot of these sisters need to come down off that restaurant/waiter thing, especially on a first date. They know good and well they still love themselves some pizza. Ain't this the way they did it on "Happy Days" and "What's Happening", minus Big Shirley...lol, Man they sure messed things up since then. Anyway, I'm sure there are small spots like that for adults too, just like Pizza Hut have adults.

I’m not being funny, but what was the point of this post

 

[Laidbackman]

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[Laidbackman]

I’m not being funny, but what was the point of this post

Not being funny, but what was the point of you even asking

 

[semicko82]

Not being funny, but what was the point of you even asking

 

[Peter Popoff]

But if you see she has a real nice ass and body, then ghost you afterwards, or it doesn't work out for some reason later on that's not your fault, you gonna have some crazy thoughts going thru your head, that could land you in jail if you go thru with any of them. A lot of brothers wound up stalking women behind stuff like this. If she has all that going on, many times it don't even take seeing her in a bathing suit or bikini; just some yoga pants, or something else tight fitting. Some brothers can't handle seeing all that, then spending money, and getting ghost after coming so close.

Creepy mafukker

 

[Laidbackman]

Creepy mafukker

Simp ass nikka trying to make something outta nothing.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Reading through some of these threads would make one think the human race is doomed LOL

It's been so long since I've been single, but like many others have stated, I liked dating because it was fun and I liked getting to know people on a deeper level, once I'd gotten a baseline of who they were. I didn't do blind dates when I was single so most of my dating partners were friends of friends or guys I'd already known in one capacity or other (work, track, dance). Even if things didn't go anywhere romantically, some of them became good friends (one even led to me meeting my husband).

 

[JQ Legend]

The problem on this site is people generalize their experiences instead of realizing everything is relative and a case by case thing
Everyone is different but may share characteristics with everyone else
You have to be able to read people and know what type of person they might be
Some women might be okay with just chilling or walking around
Some want to go somewhere or eat something
It depends on the person and their personality
not everything is looks either it is also about vibes and connection
and if we are being brutally honest, a lot of people are not as attractive as they think they are
why does she chill with him but I have to take her on a date?
put 2 and 2 together


a lot of people are married to one but don't know it
have their fun with the men they are really attracted to and "settle" with the not as attractive safe guy
it happens all the time but no not my wife
you will never truly know your partner's sexual past or how they really got down unless they want you to know

This is some real shyt

Far as the bolded, I think that also goes both ways. Some people are more attractive than they think they are. Lot of beautiful women don’t realize how beautiful they are ironically because their beauty intimidates guys from even approaching them. They may not have that problem as much online but they still go thru it in real life. Also a lot of those incel dudes who think no woman wants them prolly got a woman checking for them and don’t even realize it because they spend so much of their time in self pity.

I think it’s mostly average looking people who think they’re more attractive than they really are. Women who got a bunch of dudes offering them dikk thinking they’re bad because those dudes will smash anything and dudes with a moderate level of success smashing average at best chicks who think he that dude.

I get what u saying but I still think a dude a fool to wine and dine a woman who wouldn’t make that demand to a man she’s more attracted to.

 

[Dilltastic VolWon(derful)]

The fact nikkas is actually complaining that picking out a restaurant or bar is so much work that is stresses them out just goes to show this forum is full of fake 6 figures, 6 cert posters

 

[semicko82]

The fact nikkas is actually complaining that picking out a restaurant or bar is so much work that is stresses them out just goes to show this forum is full of fake 6 figures, 6 cert posters

 

[Laidbackman]

Reading through some of these threads would make one think the human race is doomed LOL

It's been so long since I've been single, but like many others have stated, I liked dating because it was fun and I liked getting to know people on a deeper level, once I'd gotten a baseline of who they were. I didn't do blind dates when I was single so most of my dating partners were friends of friends or guys I'd already known in one capacity or other (work, track, dance). Even if things didn't go anywhere romantically, some of them became good friends (one even led to me meeting my husband).

It's really this Western culture, and it's rearing it's ugly head now more than never.