Dating is such a waste of time. I think I'm done with it

[semicko82]

if average chicks are giving u play

then ur average

and theres nothing wrong with that

level up and become a 6 cert 6 figure 6 abs

Kevin Samuels says the exact same thing but you call him red pill

 

[Marc Spector]

all ill say is this: its logical to feel this way.

But the key to breaking that dating limbo is to be very direct in your messaging and learn to discern and create chemistry from texting/facetiming. Ive learned you really should have about a week to two weeks of long texts/phonecalls/facetimes before youre willing to break bread on someone. If the chemistry is there, youre not even mad about the bread spent and/or the chick will be happy with a cheap date.

Realistically though, youre not gonna have "it" with every chick you conversate with. So the most important advice i can give is:

DO NOT LET YOUR DESIRE TO GET LAID MAKE YOU SPEND MORE MONEY ON SOMEONE (im speaking as someone who has a tendency to do this). Its taken me a lot longer in life to realize ALOT of women are betting on you spending money on them to try and get laid.

 

[semicko82]

all ill say is this: its logical to feel this way.

But the key to breaking that dating limbo is to be very direct in your messaging and learn to discern and create chemistry from texting/facetiming. Ive learned you really should have about a week to two weeks of long texts/phonecalls/facetimes before youre willing to break bread on someone. If the chemistry is there, youre not even mad about the bread spent and/or the chick will be happy with a cheap date.

Realistically though, youre not gonna have "it" with every chick you conversate with. So the most important advice i can give is:

DO NOT LET YOUR DESIRE TO GET LAID MAKE YOU SPEND MORE MONEY ON SOMEONE (im speaking as someone who has a tendency to do this). Its taken me a lot longer in life to realize ALOT of women are betting on you spending money on them to try and get laid.

True

 

[ThiefyPoo]

@dora_da_destroyer

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

(Not directed at OP) but one of the main problems is the impatient society along with alot of these youtube nikkahs have basically telling dudes if you not smashing within the first date or two that its a lost cause. That whole "redpill, pump and dump her, MGTOW" Alpha bullshyt is just as toxic as this feminists/empowered women shyt that alot of women are on.. Both genders are both left horny and frustrated but yet they believe they deserve the world and the cream of the crop.

Alot of these dudes don't know how to create sexual chemistry or have any real good experience with women so they try to smash 30 mins to the first hour and he gives her desperate predator vibes instead of letting things flow naturally. Plus add the fact that folks are poor at communicating(nobody wants to talk on the phone no more) and you have recipes for disaster

not only that, INADEQUATE. if you are not getting p*ssy as a man for too long of a time, you are less than dirt. I don't know how women feel since I'm not a woman but they probably feel very insecure. that's the society we live in. so people feel all those things when the sex doesn't happen and the longer they go without it, the more they lose their minds because they feel like shyt and society tells them they should feel like shyt and are shamed. people will go after the most attractive, problem is not everyone is handsome or pretty. but not everything is about looks, but that's where a lot of it starts. people also need to stop using these shallow, superficial parameters for finding a partner and relationships. it is about chemistry and connection alongside attraction

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

@dora_da_destroyer

not touching this ...but it's a clear example of why i said what i said in the single mom thread

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[ThiefyPoo]

not touching this ...but it's a clear example of why i said what i said in the single mom thread

Link me .


Damm sis wanted you to come in here and spit some shyt .

 

[Turbulent]

I mean it's not that deep in my opinion. I think the issue with the OP is that there is too much focus on what she is getting out of it instead of what you are getting out of it. You meet a girl, you chat and she seems cool as fukk PLUS she's attractive. Regardless of what she wants, you want to get to know her more. Are you gonna wait for her to approach you and invite you to do something or will you take the initiative to get what you want (again regardless of what she wants) ?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

not only that, INADEQUATE. if you are not getting p*ssy as a man for too long of a time, you are less than dirt. I don't know how women feel since I'm not a woman but they probably feel very insecure. that's the society we live in. so people feel all those things when the sex doesn't happen and the longer they go without it, the more they lose their minds because they feel like shyt and society tells them they should feel like shyt and are shamed. people will go after the most attractive, problem is not everyone is handsome or pretty. but not everything is about looks, but that's where a lot of it starts. people also need to stop using these shallow, superficial parameters for finding a partner and relationships. it is about chemistry and connection alongside attraction

The effects of hyperrealism. Another thing is that dudes and chicks actually believe these jokers online when they say the shyt they doing or getting.
Men be lying all the time talm bout how much p*ssy they CONSTANTLY getting. Chicks be lying ALL the time talm bout how many dudes they got spending money on them. People troll people all the time and some people be believing these idiots. And not only do they believe them, but they also compare their own circumstances to these people who flossing for the Gram, and then they feel inadequate because they don't measure up.

So we got people feeling bad about not being able to measure up to a bunch of false lifestyles online and then going to extremes to try and get results that a lot of others aint even getting either. Its just a never ending cycle of bullshyt.
"Yeah man, she sucked my dikk as soon as I got to the spot!"
"Gurl! He spent $800 on me!"

So now everybody basing what they think dating should be off Twitter shyt when only like 7% of people are actually active twitter users. We basing our self-esteem off liars. I'll never forget when the Coli educated me on the music industry. Them artists be renting fukking chains and cars but be broke and enslaved to entire record labels, while our regular regular asses sitting here wishing we could be like them.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Link me .


Damm sis wanted you to come in here and spit some shyt .

https://www.thecoli.com/posts/42221570/

and nah, this place is full of miserable men and/or men who mess with birds (likely because they're low quality men themselves) then characterize all women by their encounters with dumb broads. crazy cuz TLR on SOHH was nothing like this place.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

The effects of hyperrealism. Another thing is that dudes and chicks actually believe these jokers online when they say the shyt they doing or getting.
Men be lying all the time talm bout how much p*ssy they CONSTANTLY getting. Chicks be lying ALL the time talm bout how many dudes they got spending money on them. People troll people all the time and some people be believing these idiots. And not only do they believe them, but they also compare their own circumstances to these people who flossing for the Gram, and then they feel inadequate because they don't measure up.

So we got people feeling bad about not being able to measure up to a bunch of false lifestyles online and then going to extremes to try and get results that a lot of others aint even getting either. Its just a never ending cycle of bullshyt.
"Yeah man, she sucked my dikk as soon as I got to the spot!"
"Gurl! He spent $800 on me!"

So now everybody basing what they think dating should be off Twitter shyt when only like 7% of people are actually active twitter users. We basing our self-esteem off liars. I'll never forget when the Coli educated me on the music industry. Them artists be renting fukking chains and cars but be broke and enslaved to entire record labels, while our regular regular asses sitting here wishing we could be like them.

preach
reality is perception
we got to do what makes us happy and think for ourselves
problem is, like I said in another thread a while back, people don't allow you to do you
they try to shame and peer pressure you into doing what they think you should be doing based on their own perception of you I've seen this happen in all social settings
that's where the problem lies
we are social animals, and if there is shame, pressure, and bullying involved when you are not doing or getting something, a lot of chaos and destruction will follow
we are all affected by something even if subconsciously
I always found it weird how obsessed men are with how much p*ssy other men are getting
why are you so concerned about how wet my dikk is getting my mans ?
that's why I always gravitate towards positive people who aren't afraid to keep it real with me and tell me the truth but aren't also some toxic demons everyone is trying to become because you know demon time

 

[semicko82]

preach
reality is perception
we got to do what makes us happy and think for ourselves
problem is, like I said in another thread a while back, people don't allow you to do you
they try to shame and peer pressure you into doing what they think you should be doing based on their own perception of you I've seen this happen in all social settings
that's where the problem lies
we are social animals, and if there is shame, pressure, and bullying involved when you are not doing or getting something, a lot of chaos and destruction will follow
we are all affected by something even if subconsciously
I always found it weird how obsessed men are with how much p*ssy other men are getting
why are you so concerned about how wet my dikk is getting my mans ?
that's why I always gravitate towards positive people who aren't afraid to keep it real with me and tell me the truth but aren't also some toxic demons everyone is trying to become because you know demon time

Real shyt

 

[360dagod]

not only that, INADEQUATE. if you are not getting p*ssy as a man for too long of a time, you are less than dirt. I don't know how women feel since I'm not a woman but they probably feel very insecure. that's the society we live in. so people feel all those things when the sex doesn't happen and the longer they go without it, the more they lose their minds because they feel like shyt and society tells them they should feel like shyt and are shamed. people will go after the most attractive, problem is not everyone is handsome or pretty. but not everything is about looks, but that's where a lot of it starts. people also need to stop using these shallow, superficial parameters for finding a partner and relationships. it is about chemistry and connection alongside attraction

I'm gonna be brutally honest...
It's a difference between saying to yourself I could have had this and messing yourself up versus nothing even showing up on the menu..

A man needs to know that he could get p*ssy whenever he wants it...whether he is shooting himself in the foot etc, he needs to have some kind of reference point that if he stop/started doing this, he can get the results...

Rock bottom on the barometer of female attention means you fukkED UP somewhere in life

 

[Laidbackman]

I'm gonna be brutally honest...
It's a difference between saying to yourself I could have had this and messing yourself up versus nothing even showing up on the menu..

A man needs to know that he could get p*ssy whenever he wants it...whether he is shooting himself in the foot etc, he needs to have some kind of reference point that if he stop/started doing this, he can get the results...

Rock bottom on the barometer of female attention means you fukkED UP somewhere in life

Most of the time, it means they've gotten a little too fat.