Dating after 30.

[Raava]

Like yo, just take a fukking compliment

I am just not trying to give false impressions. You know how I am


@Gains I apologize if I was rude, sometimes I don't pick up on things or I deflect, its like a defense mechanism Thank you

 

[Marvel]

if ur a 30 year old man with ur shyt together u need to be fukking or wifing young bytches....old chicks r damaged goods

A man in his early 30s should be dating women in the 23-25 range.

Co-sign. My cousin is in his early 30s and just got engaged to a 25 year old chic with a masters and a great job. This chic is a certified dime, smart, submissive, hardworking, comes from a stable family, has a good relationship with her father. Nikka hit a grandslam. They've been dating for 2 years. Ain't no way dude was going to settle down with a chic his age or older. Younger women are where its at breh. Always best to get a chic when she is in her prime and she has options, yet she wants you. A lot of women settle when they know their time running out and then they resent the dude they settled for. The sweet spot is 23-25 for men in their early 30s. My cousin and his girl were in that sweet spot. My dad was 32 and my mom was 24 when they got married, they are still together. That age gap gives a man an extra level of respect early in the marriage, setting the foundation and the tone IMO.

 

[ORDER_66]

Damn i havent went on a date in years....

 

[skeetsinternal]

lol@dating

 

[mamba]

......that's a problem?

Good men get divorced all the time, breh.

But I guess being a male it's your job to try & make 30+ women feel like shyt by calling them "damaged goods" & saying no man good man will want them beyond sex. I guess it makes you guys feel better. So carry on.

I'm not trying to make 30+ women feel any type of way. I'm just telling it like it is. It's the way the vast majority of men think, especially those with things going for themselves.

 

[DrX]

There's nothing to save me from, I won't be bitter or lonely. I'm almost 22 years old, that's old enough to know what I do & don't want. I can have a happy home without having a s/o or children. There will be no panic once I get older because what I want I can get myself, I don't have to wait for a man to decide what he thinks I'm "worthy" of like women that want to get married do.

I'm not having sex with anyone, so if a man needs to have sex with me to "be the man" then he's gonna have to go find someone else.

fine, but i warned u.....if u in end like one of these bitter single chicks, youll know why.....Ive seen this story play out

 

[rogue_riezo]

I won't be bitter or lonely. I'm almost 22 years old, that's old enough to know what I do & don't want.

You think in less than a year you'll figure out exactly what you want from a partner you'd be committed to for the rest of your life?

 

[mamba]

friend of mine is 49, airline pilot and makes 6 figures and has no kids

He don't deal with single mommas or broke hoes, he has options to bone 25 year olds.

truer words has never been spoken.

It's the truth. 35+ Black man, in shape, with a good career, makin' good money and no baggage is damn near unicorn status. So, those nikkas can pick and choose. PICK and CHOOSE! Those types of men are fairly common in other communities. But, not necessarily in the African American community. So, those nikkas who got it like that eat, breh.

He can feat on the entire food chain of Black women at will. But, on top of that, bytches from other groups also recognize this nikka must have that "it" factor if he managed to swat away all the forces arrayed against nikkas in this country.

A 35+ Black breh with his shyt together is a winner.

 

[Ashley Banks]

fine, but i warned u.....if u in end like one of these bitter single chicks, youll know why

I won't end up like that, bb. Bitterness comes from anger and disappointment. How can I be angry when this is my choice? How can I be disappointed if I wasn't expecting anything? I'll be great.

I'm not trying to make 30+ women feel any type of way. I'm just telling it like it is. It's the way the vast majority of men think, especially those with things going for themselves.

You said "trying to date 30+ women is like digging in the garbage can for something that hasn't already been chewed on" & called them damaged goods. You know exactly how that's going to make them feel. But like I said, this is the coli, you guys live to shyt on women.

 

[ManBearPig]

Yeah, most women are in their ho stage up until 28-30 ish anyway...then they settle down and are looking for stable men, with financial security.
That's when me and my good ass credit score, and nice 401k is gonna swoop in and scoop'em up.


"He's not much of a looker, but he's a good man" - My future wife

Pretty much

 

[Ashley Banks]

You think in less than a year you'll figure out exactly what you want from a partner you'd be committed to for the rest of your life?

?? I don't know what you're talking about. I don't want to be committed to anyone for the rest of my life & I don't want anything from anyone.

 

[rogue_riezo]

?? I don't know what you're talking about. I don't want to be committed to anyone for the rest of my life & I don't want anything from anyone.

Oh sorry, I still disagree. 22 is still pretty young, and at that age people are still a little impressionable. The right simp could step his game up, have you infatuated and plant his seed in you in a matter of months.

 

[Smoke]

Pretty much

Even before that...
16-22 = Full, everything goes, ho
23-25 = Selective ho'ing
26-28 = Wrapping up the ho stage
29+ = Juuuuuuuust right

 

[mamba]

I think the best time to start settling down if you are a man or women is late twenties, early thirties. If you ask all of your friends and parents if they regret having a child or getting married with the person they met in there early twenties, 95% of them will say HELL YES!!! "I don't know what I was thinking" lol. For all my coli breh's and brehettes that are over 30, think about the people you messed with in your early twenties and tell me that ya'll didn't dodge bullets like NEO, by not getting married or having a child with that person? I know the majority of ya'll that had a kid early REGRET the person ya'll had it with . So if you survived your twenties with NO KIDS, NO MARRIAGES AND NO STD'S, male or female, you are at the top of the food chain on the dating scene. Also you guys should have a decent job and hopefully little to no debt, so to my breh's that are in this situation over 30 the world is yours and for making it through the 20-30 D-DAY by not having KIDS, MARRIAGES AND STD'S. To my brehettes that made it through the D-DAY with no baggage regardless of what some of my breh's believe, i'll take a 30 year old women with NO KIDS, NO MARRIAGES AND NO STD'S any day over a young girl with all of those things.
But you better be a

naw i'm playing, but if your on status it might be rough out there for ya'll.​

Breh, just because she made it to 30 without kids, broken marriages and STDs doesn't mean anything. Those are just the physical signs of baggage. The emotional and other scars aren't visible. A lot of these 30+ chicks have been through the gauntlet. It's tough to form a solid relationship when dealing with the scars 10+ other nikkas have left on her psyche after a series of failed short- and long-term relationships. A solid 30+ nikka ain't got the patience to fix a 30+ broken chick whose looks are fading.

I was rapping with a 30 year old chick earlier this year. She has no kids, no STDs and has never been married. She is a good-looking chick. But, man, she was probably the most bitter and negative person I've met in a long time. Every conversation I had with her ended up with her ranting about some shyt. Didn't take me too long to escort her to the nearest bush in the vicinity. I don't have the patience for that type of shyt. Most nikkas don't.

 

[mamba]

Co-sign. My cousin is in his early 30s and just got engaged to a 25 year old chic with a masters and a great job. This chic is a certified dime, smart, submissive, hardworking, comes from a stable family, has a good relationship with her father. Nikka hit a grandslam. They've been dating for 2 years. Ain't no way dude was going to settle down with a chic his age or older. Younger women are where its at breh. Always best to get a chic when she is in her prime and she has options, yet she wants you. A lot women settle when they know their time running out and then they resent the dude they settled for. The sweet spot is 23-25 for men in their early 30s. My cousin and his girl were in that sweet spot. My dad was 32 and my mom was 24 when they got married, they are still together. That age gap give a man an extra level of respect early in the marriage, setting the foundation and the tone IMO.

A lot of wisdom in this post, brehs.