youre a man saying this!?
you're basically a dead person
Dating a younger woman as an old nikka?
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you're basically a dead person
Personally, I couldn't seriously date a 21-year old (I'm 41). We could have some fun experiences but it would be for a season, not the main reason. Dinner dates, a couple vacations maybe, just doing fun sh*t we both like to do, etc. And if she needs some change to make her life a little easier, go ahead and hold that boo.
At the end of the day I'm giving her a lifestyle 99% of dudes in their 20s can't give her. And I know for damn sure a dude in his 20s ain't f*cking her like I'm f*cking her. He lacks experience and grew up on porn. I've been pleasing women for 20+ years, longer than he's been alive... there's no comparison.
At the end of the day I'm giving her a lifestyle 99% of dudes in their 20s can't give her. And I know for damn sure a dude in his 20s ain't f*cking her like I'm f*cking her. He lacks experience and grew up on porn. I've been pleasing women for 20+ years, longer than he's been alive... there's no comparison.
I’m divorced early 40’s “dating” a girl in her mid 20’s. Not expecting nothing, just enjoying the moments. I’ve noticed that it really bothers people who know you personally when you date a younger woman. I don’t look old, we don’t get funny looks in public at all. She’s just fine so she always gets attention. But females that I know judge me like I purposely sought out a young woman. They assume you’re being a sugar daddy or getting used for something. Some nikkas do that too. But at the end of the day nothing is guaranteed with older women either, since they wanna compete with young women so bad. A lot of dudes are so out of touch they couldn’t get a young woman off the muscle, so they make themselves tricks and sugar daddies, but younger women love older men who can really teach them something. They are probably the nikkas that taught a lot of the good women y’all with now how to treat you right.
What did they say after you told them to get the fukk on?
What’s her IG?
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My sister got on my ass pretty bad about this. 
Pretty much said it only should’ve been sex and SOME dates here and there. Not EVERYTIME we saw each other. She feels as if I set myself up to be strung along and manipulated.
My sister also pointed out how the girl would be “hot and cold”, gaslight me, and not introduce me to her friends or family.
Ultimately, my sister felt as if the girl was just using me until the person (younger) that she really wanted came along that could take my place. Possibly demonstrating bad behavior in hopes that I would have ended the relationship, so that she could come out looking like the good guy.
She said that the girl fukking me good meant nothing due to this generation being ok with having casual sex. It was a tool to keep me locked in and she never “loved” me per say.
asked how I can be so stupid at my old age lol
Everything that The Coli said.
She said I should’ve BEEN opened up to her and she would’ve told me what was up. She only knew of the positives about the girl and her young age, which was a bad idea… & not the entirety of the situation.
She doesn’t think that the girl cheated, but she was already entertaining the dude to see if he would be a good replacement. Once she confirmed that, then that’s why she was ok with leaving over the smallest disagreement.
She just jumps from situation to situation instead of fukking multiple people at the same time.
I’m just an extremely private person when it comes to my business and people that I date, but maybe I should share more with my family.
Pretty much said it only should’ve been sex and SOME dates here and there. Not EVERYTIME we saw each other. She feels as if I set myself up to be strung along and manipulated.
My sister also pointed out how the girl would be “hot and cold”, gaslight me, and not introduce me to her friends or family.
Ultimately, my sister felt as if the girl was just using me until the person (younger) that she really wanted came along that could take my place. Possibly demonstrating bad behavior in hopes that I would have ended the relationship, so that she could come out looking like the good guy.
She said that the girl fukking me good meant nothing due to this generation being ok with having casual sex. It was a tool to keep me locked in and she never “loved” me per say.
asked how I can be so stupid at my old age lol
Everything that The Coli said.
She said I should’ve BEEN opened up to her and she would’ve told me what was up. She only knew of the positives about the girl and her young age, which was a bad idea… & not the entirety of the situation.
She doesn’t think that the girl cheated, but she was already entertaining the dude to see if he would be a good replacement. Once she confirmed that, then that’s why she was ok with leaving over the smallest disagreement.
She just jumps from situation to situation instead of fukking multiple people at the same time.
I’m just an extremely private person when it comes to my business and people that I date, but maybe I should share more with my family.
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Commonality in this case = $$$$$$Literal Old white dudes find commonality with girls 21-25. But brehs half his age can't keep up? Coli the twilight zone.
Bill Belichick has his 24yr old girlfriend helping him with business and making him more successful. She helping him reach his full potential. Coli pawg...so y'all couldn't scoop up his girl in your 30s and make it work?
Bill Belichick, 72, 'is dating a 24-YEAR-OLD former cheerleader' after calling off relationship with Linda Holliday
Bill Belichick, 72, 'is dating a 24-YEAR-OLD former cheerleader'
Belichick, who left the New England Patriots earlier this year first hit it off with 24-year-old Jordon Hudson on a flight from the Boston-area bound for Florida way back in 2021, claims TMZ Sports.www.dailymail.co.uk
and you talking about a board with dudes saying they don’t want to wine and dine the (younger) women they are pursuing.
No one is saying dudes can’t go younger.
There is this disconnect in our culture because dudes don’t want to acknowledge WHY women go older. And why they might go MUCH older.
That whole “she’s helping him with business” is some BS. He was already a successful multimillionaire decades before this girl was even a thought. She might provide some Gen Z insights, but that’s no different than what he would get if he simply went to an agency that had 20something college grads on staff.
NAW- Bill understands exactly what is expected of a woman that much younger than him and he’s more than willing to provide it so that he has access to her body.
I won’t even make this a racial thing.
It’s the same way Tyrese’s crazy ass is running around with his 20 something girlfriend. We all know the Zellie is there because Ty is taking care of her. And that’s fine! Wtf is the point of an older man if he can’t improve your life?
Bill gets it and that’s why he found a 24YO who is down for the ride.
Coli brehs being obtuse and that’s why these threads are so funny. If men value youth and looks and women value provision, why would a woman not expect provision if she is sharing her youth (i.e. her body) with an older man?!
Bill gets it and it’s clear the 24YO gets it. So no one has anything to say.
I mean, yea.My sister got on my ass pretty bad about this.
Pretty much said it only should’ve been sex and SOME dates here and there. Not EVERYTIME we saw each other. She feels as if I set myself up to be strung along and manipulated.
My sister also pointed out how the girl would be “hot and cold”, gaslight me, and not introduce me to her friends or family.
Ultimately, my sister felt as if the girl was just using me until the person (younger) that she really wanted came along that could take my place. Possibly demonstrating bad behavior in hopes that I would have ended the relationship, so that she could come out looking like the good guy.
She said that the girl fukking me good meant nothing due to this generation being ok with having casual sex. It was a tool to keep me locked in and she never “loved” me per say.
asked how I can be so stupid at my old age lol
Everything that The Coli said.
She said I should’ve BEEN opened up to her and she would’ve told me what was up. She only knew of the positives about the girl and her young age, which was a bad idea… & not the entirety of the situation.
She doesn’t think that the girl cheated, but she was already entertaining the dude to see if he would be a good replacement. Once she confirmed that, then that’s why she was ok with leaving over the smallest disagreement.
She just jumps from situation to situation instead of fukking multiple people at the same time.
I’m just an extremely private person when it comes to my business and people that I date, but maybe I should share more with my family.
This is what @Coco Loco was saying. Y’all think older women are hating when…*gasp* we were younger too and totally remember what it was like when men 10-20yrs older than us were in our faces (and still are).
Your sis told you the truth.
There was a 17yr age gap. You can’t approach that like you’re dating someone your age. You either keep it casual and have fun or you LITERALLY make her an offer she can’t refuse. There was no advantage to being with you over someone she would potentially “build” and connect with.
The whole point of a woman going older is to exchange what you want for what we need.
And that’s not quite making it transactional, but it IS making it a quite literal exchange on the basis of our most innate desires and needs as opposite sexes.
You would overlook women who are closer in age who can better relate to you because what you really really want is a younger woman you are physically drawn to.
We would overlook men who are closer in age who we can better relate to because what we ultimately need is a man who can lead a family and provide for us when we start having kids. That’s most likely going to be someone who is a little older who had some time to start the race of life before us. Instead of being with the cute guy who is trying to figure it out, we might go with the older guy who has it figured out IF he wants to commit and take care of us.
If an older man isn’t offering that commitment and provision what is the point for the younger woman??
Conversely, if there’s a younger woman a man is chasing and she seems to be stringing you along, what is the point for the older guy? To keep throwing money at someone who won’t lock in with him?
(In this case you weren’t throwing money so she eventually dipped to someone closer in age. She was fine with sex because, as your sis said, gen z is more open to casual sex)
Again— not knocking you AT ALL. You had your fun.
Just explaining what a woman’s thought process is with older men and why your sister was correct about how it went down.
Oh Glox! I'm trying to be nice on the lord's day, and not quote the post you quoted and cut up because ain't no way
This was worse than I imagined. "and not introduce me to her friends or family" Why tf would she? OMG!
If I would've brought a 38 y/o around my friends and family at 19, I'd still be getting clowned
Cake baking with a 19 y/o who's not talking about and or showing interest in marriage, commitment, family etc? OMG!
"I was a place holder for a younger man" NO shyt! OMG!
But again we are haters
I need these dude to always, ALWAYS, remember the bolded. That child is not there because she likes spotting your random gray hairs, doing things outside of her age group, guesstimating if your pain is arthritis, talking about high blood pressure and A1C numbers, going to 40 y/o birthday parties, talking about retirement funds and prostate exams. Like what the fukk!!!!
EYE did not think these dudes were taking these kids THIS serious. Lordttttt have mercy.
Unless that child is super religious/sheltered her entire life or has severe daddy issues, she is not going to waste her prime years on an older man while being surrounded by men in her age group. That only works for the ones with deep, deep, deep pockets (even then young dikk will be within arms reach). She'll play the game but expecting her to fully commit to the rookie contract is NUTS! That's a perpetual free agent!
This is why Leo has an age maximum. He wants no strings attached fun, he knows the game and plays it well.
I've gotzzz to show this to my husband. It will bring back memories since he had a sugar mama in law school. Lil gigolo head ass LMAOOOO
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ALL OF THIS! Everyone knows their role
Bill is having the time of his life. fukk a coaching job
And they oddly underestimate the attractiveness of young men. For a normally adjusted young woman, a young handsome man will always beat out an older handsome man all things being equal. The same reason cougars seek out young men. If all you’re doing is fukking you may as well get prime looks and stamina. You really need money and game to beat out the thrill and primal attraction of youth. The true currency of an older man (or woman) is literally actual currency. If you’re looking for long term love, you need someone equally yoked. This is why most relationships and marriages are close in age.Oh Glox! I'm trying to be nice on the lord's day, and not quote the post you quoted and cut up because ain't no way
This was worse than I imagined. "and not introduce me to her friends or family" Why tf would she? OMG!
If I would've brought a 38 y/o around my friends and family at 19, I'd still be getting clowned
Cake baking with a 19 y/o who's not talking about and or showing interest in marriage, commitment, family etc? OMG!
"I was a place holder for a younger man" NO shyt! OMG!
But again we are haters
I need these dude to always, ALWAYS, remember the bolded. That child is not there because she likes spotting your random gray hairs, doing things outside of her age group, guesstimating if your pain is arthritis, talking about high blood pressure and A1C numbers, going to 40 y/o birthday parties, talking about retirement funds and prostate exams. Like what the fukk!!!!
EYE did not think these dudes were taking these kids THIS serious. Lordttttt have mercy.
Unless that child is super religious/sheltered her entire life or has severe daddy issues, she is not going to waste her prime years on an older man while being surrounded by men in her age group. That only works for the ones with deep, deep, deep pockets (even then young dikk will be within arms reach). She'll play the game but expecting her to fully commit to the rookie contract is NUTS! That's a perpetual free agent!
This is why Leo has an age maximum. He wants no strings attached fun, he knows the game and plays it well.
I've gotzzz to show this to my husband. It will bring back memories since he had a sugar mama in law school. Lil gigolo head ass LMAOOOO
It’s wild how she seemed to have more game and self awareness than he did and he almost has two decades on her.
She had her fun. He was looking for love.
Sounds like she enjoyed the sex, but was bored overall. She’s ready to move her newfound sexual awakening to someone who excites her.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she comes back to use OP as her emotional crutch though. Especially if she’s going through financial and family issues. It’s probably not too late for them if he drops those coins and get her set up financially.